#victimisation

[lust-violence-yearning]

Vent:

This isn't my usual type of post, but I need this off my chest. I am so exhausted of people making decisions for me. As though I am not a competent and accomplished adult.

For a man to decide that i am primarily a sex object, to then turn around and remove himself from my life because others have seen me as he does? Fuck. Fuck! There is wrath in me. The kind to rival the ocean.

To suddenly decide that I am not worth pursuing. That, all of a sudden, it would be a wicked thing to find himself interested in me. For what? Because it is unthinkable to touch something damaged? Because I am spoiled goods?

My wants, suddenly, are irrelevant. As all woman's opinions eventually become irrelevant. As our desires become obsolete. It is 2026, why does a man get to decide what i can handle? Where do they get the idea that I, a sex trafficking survivor, cannot feel lust or desire? Who are they to demand a boundary they were very happy not to have before?

This, dearest, is beyond unfair. It is unfeminist, infantalising, and demanding of a performance of victimhood. A perversion of the madonna whore complex.

To say it, completely. To scream it into the world so it will stop sitting so heavy on my heart.

I am a sex trafficking survivor. I am a human being. I have lust, and desire. I both want and enjoy sex. I have the right and ability to say how much I can handle, and where I need to stop. And taking these decisions from me, deciding I must be treated delicately, is truly just a demand for me to perform victimhood and trauma in a way that is to your liking. It is unfeminist, and dehumanising.

I am a human. I have desire. It is for me to decide my boundaries.

You have permission to reblog. I know it is not only me that feels like this. And it is important for people to hear this.

[druzy-quartzz]

My program ruined the coloring on this by crashing and resetting it. And I'm too tired to try again.

BUT

Here's my plans for a 36×48in canvas!! I hope i can get the anatomy right on the physical painting lmaoo

I think it's based on the idea of objectification, and how Carson will objectify himself. And how without a care for his well-being will seek forms of admiration. And victimizing himself in the process. Carson desperately craves love but feels he is unworthy. And when true love is in front of him he runs, unable to face it.

[helenwhiteart-blog]

Freeze response: the intersection of autism, trauma and chronic illness

Freeze response: the intersection of autism, trauma and chronic illness

Peter Levine, psychologist and creator of Somatic Experiencing, has spent well over 25 years studying the immobility or freeze response to trauma. “It is one of the three primary responses available to reptiles and mammals when faced with an overwhelming threat. The other two, fight and flight, are much more familiar to most of us. Less is known about the immobility response” (from “Waking the…

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[religion-is-a-mental-illness]

[curlsinclouds]

A mother sets her daughter up to be victimized. Marks her in red and then sends her out to the wolves. Be invisible, she says. Be obedient, she warns. Do not be the child we have read about in the papers. And when the daughter, set up for failure, fulfills the fatal prophecy of the Stories, the despairing mother rages. She weeps over the body of the dispatched wolf, banishes the huntsman, curses a god she has never knelt to, and publicly reaps the agony of her righteousness.

Tara Stillions Whitehead, the body looks like a horizon 

[nwhite776]

Dissertation study help

We are looking for Men over the age of 18 to complete an online questionnaire about gender-based experiences in childhood. This study is developing a new questionnaire to assess childhood experiences relating to gender, specifically gender-related stigma, victimisation and discrimination.

You will be asked to complete questions from our new questionnaire as well as questions about you, such as your age and whether or not you have experienced a mental health problem.

The questionnaire takes about 15 minutes.

https://www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/LJM96GY?fbclid=IwAR2ldVtikvP_9Fy2DhvhbIRqb0Mdkc0DOxvJBcWUqYgBRczXDFzc9ENPkpY

For more information please contact the researcher: Natasha White ([email protected])

[shagbunny]

Email just sent to Tumblr support

Please stop repeatedly sending me emails claiming that I "recently uploaded" content that has been auto-flagged as adult. This is harassment because as the time of writing I have ONLY one post on my blog, from several years ago, that is identified as adult content (despite being a work of art) and everything else that has been appealed was cleared as not being against Tumblr codes of conduct.

Flooding my inbox with emails falsely claiming that I am continuing to upload inappropriate content is causing me great distress. I have not uploaded or posted anything between the last few emails so WHAT EXACTLY am I supposed to be uploading that is triggering these emails given that I'm not actually posting ANYTHING? Furthermore, I have not uploaded anything in violation of the terms of use of Tumblr at the time of uploading so by repeatedly accusing me of violating your rules when I have not done so, this is victimisation, harassment and a waste of your resources and my time. Please cease and desist.

Thank you.

[pointless-letters]

“Aren’t families like mine - who went over a clearly signposted weight limit for luggage and were charged extra for it - being discriminated against? Aren’t we the real victims here? Why weren’t the fat people punished? We’re thin, you know. That should count for something.”