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No More Victims
As the victim makers stumbled on their path they saw a sign that read, NO MORE VICTIMS ANYMORE.
If you claim to be a victim of oppression but you can put people out of work or put people in jail because your feelings got hurt or they don't agree with you, you are not a victim.
You are an oppressor.
Outre ce mensonge, ou en conséquence de ce mensonge, ce qui était le plus cruel pour Ivan Ilitch, c'était que personne ne le plaignît comme il avait envie d'être plaint : il y avait certains moments, après de longues souffrances, où Ivan Ilitch, si honteux qu'il fût de se l'avouer, avait surtout envie que quelqu'un le plaigne comme un enfant malade. Il avait envie d'être cajolé, embrassé, qu'on pleure un peu sur lui, comme on cajole et console les enfants.
Léon Tolstoï (La Mort d'Ivan Ilitch, 1886)
Manipulation VS Gaslighting: What's the difference? An analysis into the depths of emotional abuse and victimisation and how, in the worst case scenario, it can lead to radicalisation.
The writer explaining gaslighting as an EFFECT rather than a TACTIC in this Quora article is spot on. The combination of continuous manipulation tactics give this EFFECT on the one who is being manipulated. This is explained extremely well and I want to expand on it.
The feeling of gaslighting is a continuous process through the use of manipulation tactics and not a manipulation tactic in itself. If you feel you are truly being gaslighted, it is most likely because you are continually manipulated. So don't use the term as a one-off experience of manipulation of which we all go through at some point because it isn't. And it insults true victims of emotional abuse when the term is used in that way.
I am more familiar with emotional abuse over physical abuse, and I assume most people will be because it has less consequences as it isn't often judged as an incident of criminal activity, although it certainly should be in some cases. I do not consider myself a victim of emotional abuse because I am not in a continuous cycle of manipulation and gaslighting, and therefore do not feel emotionally abused in any way and cannot put myself in the same category of those that do and that are in fact continually emotionally abused. There are actual victims of emotional abuse that do feel gaslighted all the time. Those are the ones in a continuous manipulation cycle and deal with manipulation tactics on a constant day-to-day basis. Which at it's worst can be closer to radicalisation than emotional abuse because the one who is emotionally abused doesn't realize that they are being emotionally abused. And their perception of reality is being majorly distorted and likely permanently so.
Why am I explaining all this? ...
Because I am tired of people claiming victimization or harassment or gaslighting or emotional abuse or manipulation when really, ... they just cannot deal with real life situations and circumstances, and interpersonal relationships of a mature and intelligent fashion. Where they cannot deal with social conflict flat out and any kind of cognitive dissonance makes them act like a petty child because it attacks their ego. Where they lack any level of emotional maturity or intelligence.
In fact I would go as far as to say anyone constantly claiming emotional abuse through the use of manipulation tactics are not actually being victimized at all and are actually victimizing whoever they claim is manipulating them. These people are most likely the manipulators and emotional abusers and gaslighters and victimisers instead. So be mindful of that when someone constantly claims they are being any of the aforementioned because, as I explained above..., somebody truly emotionally abused and manipulated and gaslightened and victimized do not know they are being so. I say again..., that's because constant emotional abuse through the use of manipulation tactics and gaslighting is closer to radicalisation. A radicalised person does not know they are being radicalised. That's the entire point to it. To keep them oblivious to the situation and circumstance they are actually in. Which is a very dangerous one.
However, I will contradict myself here a bit because it is not entirely like radicalisation because radicalisation leads more to violence and terrorism. It leads more to the harm of others rather than oneself. When you are being radicalised, your perception of reality is so distorted and conditioned that you knowingly inflict harm onto others. And I only say "knowingly" because it doesn't mean you don't have any awareness of doing it. It's just that you don't have any sensitivity from doing it because you are convinced by your radicaliser that it is the morally right thing to do or to believe it brings to you some sort of end goal that you're persuaded into feeling you need to get to or is beneficial for you. This is why radicalisation is connected to extreme religionism and cultism most of all. Because using the themes of fear and faith are great manipulation tactics and, tied together, create a successful method in the radicalisation of another person not previously of your following or of the same mindset and set of personal beliefs.
Thus, an experience of radicalisation is the worst case scenario of constant emotional abuse and continuous manipulation tactics. Especially when it's from everybody around you. Everyone in your social circle. Not just one person who has a personal agenda. True victims of emotional abuse experience varying degrees of this radicalising. And that is why it is insulting to them to claim yourself a victim of it over one solitary situation or circumstance. Which is likely not even an attempt to abuse or manipulate or victimise you at all but you only take it that way because you cannot DEAL with the situation or circumstance. And you have no emotional maturity to actually conversate rationally and logically and reasonably with that person you claim is doing this to you.
There is a certain level of tolerance you must have or learn for the hardships you're thrown or given in life. This level of tolerance is what makes you an emotionally mature and intelligent person. You do not immediately blame others for your own wrongdoings or claim yourself a victim because they felt negatively effected or hurt by you. These emotionally mature and intelligent people are the ones that can get through life not necessarily unscathed by pain, but tolerant to it because they have experienced enough of it to accept that it is part of life and part of reality. And if you're a person that cannot deal with it maturely and intelligently... That's your problem. No one elses!
I'm not directing this rant to somebody in particular but it is indeed inspired by somebody in particular. Knowing that they are now on a run for their life and it's not fair at all given they have been truly emotionally abused, manipulated, victimised and gaslighted through a good majority of it. This rant is for them. You know who you are and if you read... Know that I am always thinking about you and incredibly worried about you. Safe safe, friend. And keep in contact whenever you feasibly can. I know you are so incredibly strong and brave to deal with hard shit on your own but everybody needs somebody to talk to sometimes to be understood.
I understand you and I'll be here for you. I promise. 😟🥺 I care about you more than you know. Much love.
Some people are working overtime to push you off your pedestal because they feel threaten by another, when it's only God speaking. Trying to stop you from doing....
To read more, visit my Facebook page at https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=309663386885808&id=100035264465906.
A mother sets her daughter up to be victimized. Marks her in red and then sends her out to the wolves. Be invisible, she says. Be obedient, she warns. Do not be the child we have read about in the papers. And when the daughter, set up for failure, fulfills the fatal prophecy of the Stories, the despairing mother rages. She weeps over the body of the dispatched wolf, banishes the huntsman, curses a god she has never knelt to, and publicly reaps the agony of her righteousness.
Tara Stillions Whitehead, the body looks like a horizon