I have been following you for a while. I have a double degree in Sociology and Psychology and so it’s very hard not to diagnose people in my head. Almost a curse, but I love what I do for a living. To answer your question, you do *sometimes* come off a rude and conceited. It throws red flags for sociopath/schizophrenia. You don’t have to share this and the reason I send it anon is because people will ask to be diagnosed. But your coworkers should find you scary.
Gonna first include two posts which I think this anon is referencing before I unpack all of this shit.
Firstly please note that I have adhd and am autistic we’re like 99% sure (I’m p sure ive diagnosed as a kid but I don’t speak to my mom so) and also I have really bad paranoia due to past trauma and abuse I’ve suffered among other things.
Secondly hat gives you the right to go into strangers asks boxes and try and diagnose them with things, I don’t care what your profession is that’s incredibly rude and not what I asked for, I have trouble with knowing my tone and if I sound rude and it’s something I’m always anxious about, you could simply say “hey your tone did sound rude” maybe give an example why and I’d work on it but instead you decided to be like “you sound rude which makes me believe you’re a sociopath and/or schizophrenic” which is just so fucking weird and rude to do to someone you don’t know, you’re not someone who I sought out to diagnose me and for you to do that without me so much as asking makes me feel terrible. (Please note I have nothing against ppl who are sociopaths or have schizophrenia y’all are amazing I just don’t want to be diagnosed by a random anon, like if someone who I’m going to to figure out my shit tells me this then okay I asked this question from someone I’m paying not someone to go won’t even come off anon)
I am posting this because I’m so upset, I’ve had a p shitty day and already got one shitty ask about how I speak irritating someone because I called an ipad a tablet and said mash the button instead of press and I just can’t take it anymore, never send me asks like this again, like if you’ve been following me for a while you should know I have adhd and you should know I am extremely paranoid and that I’m constantly worried about my tone of speaking sounding rude and to send shit like this makes me honestly want to cry.
Anyways in the past I’ve not turned off anon after receiving rude asks but I’ve had two today and this one especially is just upsetting so I’m turning off anon until further notice, im sorry to people who get anxiety about sending asks off anon (I’m the same way sometimes) ily all but I need a break from this
Also the post about wanting my coworkers to find me scary is a joke me and friends often joke about how I’m not scary which is true,, I’m not scary and I don’t want to be especially don’t want you saying my coworkers should find me scary
