The thing about headcannoning a canonically male character as transfem is that.. I never know how to refer to them?? Like canonically that’s a he/him so realistically I should refer to them as such, except I get so used to she/her in my head. When I talk about them to someone who doesn’t share the headcanon, do I just?? Resort back to he/him?? Does it matter? If I make a post about the character, what do I refer to them as?? Am I overthinking this??









