It's so telling that no matter how much turmoil Arcticslayer faced in their relationship... no matter how much they fought or disagreed...
Arctic never manipulated or attempted to change who Foeslayer was even with his all powerful magic giving him the power to do so
What makes Darksight different (and worse) is that Darkstalker was willing to control Clearsight, and when he "recreated" her, he never accepted the parts of Clearsight that made Clearsight who she was
Before anyone else brings it up, yes Arctic is a shitty awful emotionally abusive father who denied his daughter the agency he unwaveringly gave his wife, but the topic is his treatment of Foeslayer alone.
Despite all Arctic's flaws, it's understandable why Foeslayer/Hope loves him even now, while Clearsight was happier moving on without Darkstalker.
