#wishfularoace

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Been reading your recent posts and - yall are ADORABLE so happy for you!!!

aaaaahhh thank you!!!!!🥺😭

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hello! i have rambling sleep deprived thoughts™ about feelings to unnecessarily scream into the Tumblr void on this lovely lovely night!! -

okay so after years of refusing to think about labels for feelings, because it seemed just too painful and complicated, I alas am starting to think more about if i’m actually romance-repulsed?

because I spent sooooo much of my life going “eww romance” even to fictional love stories. that is until I discovered ✨sapphic romance stories✨ and was like ohhhh alright I like the idea of that lol

but then I realized I was definitely on the aromantic spectrum, and didn’t even want to think about anything involving emotions for awhile, until I discovered what qpr’s were and realized I definitely ADORED the idea of having a qpp

but what makes it even more complicated is the fact that like certain romantic actions that could also happen in like a qpr, I like the idea of? but I don’t know if i’d actually like them in a real life situation

and so then now I legitimately don’t know if i’m romance repulsed. and how much of my unsure-ness about it is because of my accidental “ew romance” programming, how much if it is just not having irl experiences, and how much if it is actual romance repulsion?

and all of that makes it seem impossible to ever find a qpp to figure it out with :/

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I now have 11 days worth of posts queued

i’m so proud of me lol

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you know what should happen more?

private messaging mutuals you want to be friends with one of those “ask games” and you answer the questions you want to answer, and then they answer the questions they want to answer. if those answers spark a conversation - great! that’s ideal. if not, you simply had a nice, innocent interaction

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I just saw that one of your top posts rn is "I wish I was someone's favorite person" and... I don't know you in real life but you're my favorite person on Tumblr, and I think that counts for something

🥺that’s actually too incredibly kind of you🥺

seeing you in my notes literally makes me so happy every single time

and you’re legitimately one of my favorite people on tumblr, and I like to think we’d be good friends irl. so i’d say yes, that definitely counts for something ♡ thank you ♡

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🌺 Send this to ten blogs you think are wonderful. 🌺

oh thank you!!

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hi! i'm kinda new here but i just wanted to say hi and that i'm grateful for you and that i love you platonically so much. i've had so much anxiety for the past few years about whether i'm aromantic or a lesbian, and your posts and reblogs have helped me learn so much about my own queerplatonic attraction and how i can be (and am) both! i'm so grateful to find people who understand and relate. thanks so much for being you and for posting what you do <3

hello!!

thank you so much for sending this ask🥺🥺🥺

i’m so glad that my blog is able to help you, and you saying that means so much to me <3

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hi thank u for this blog <3 collection of posts that give words to feelings i’m still trying to understand and i really appreciate it <3 hope you are doing well <33

awww thank you!!! i’m so glad my blog is able to help you <3 I truly hope you are also doing well <3