I don’t remember who
Some friend of mine at some point in time said they like it when people refer to people they know by name without feeling the need to contextualize them; as if you’re already part of their family or you’ll get to know those people soon or it doesn’t matter how they’re connected; you’ll pick up on who they are by the way they are talked about instead of societally-constructed details. I kind of liked that they liked this because my natural inclination is to get angry and frustrated when people do that. I still think that talking like this or writing like this is pretentious, presumptive, and implicitly exclusionary, but I also still like imagining a world where not-teaching is never used to exclude or oppress.









