#wrathsbraincells

[fortheloveofpiggy]

I didn’t choose to be a plural but it doesn’t mean others cant. Our system was caused by trauma but it doesn’t mean others were. We have a cdd but it doesn’t mean every plural does

Its simple really

[fortheloveofpiggy]

“The future is plural” Doesn’t mean making people who aren’t plural become plural, it means that plurals like us have always existed and now more accessible for them to realize this and find a supporting community. It means that cultures who have always had plurality in it can stop being seen as crazy or not human. It means peoples plural identities can be respected the same as singlet identities. It means one day asking someone if they’re plural respectfully wont be a taboo. It means referring to someone as a we or saying who’s fronting won’t be an issue. It means in the future respect for us will be more normal then rare.

The future is plural don’t forget if and keep pushing for these changed

[fortheloveofpiggy]

TW this is a rant about proship and comship! Tags will have more in-depth trigger warnings

Edit: OMG PROSHIPPERS STOP MAKING THIS POST ABOUT DEFENDING IF SHIPPING CHILD X ADULT OR INCEST IS OKAY OR NOT THE POST IS ABOUT THE LABLE I DONT WANT TO ARGUE WITH YALL ABOUT THAT ANYMORE.

This is my one post where all people on all sides of the proship debate can interact. Including proshippers. If that makes you uncomfortable then don’t interact. I hate echo chambers and I want to hear all sides.

Also sorry for cross tagging just want the opinions from all sides

Actual post:

I hate the terms proship, neutral ship, and antiship. They’re all extremes and I hate them. From what I understand the meanings are

Proship: support all ships no matter what even if they’re comships

Neutral ship: doesn’t have an opinion at all

Antiship: is anti any comship which is outrageous

If y’all don’t know comship just means complex ship or they enjoy more morally grey or imperfect ships. This can include things like human X different intelligent species (like aliens, furries, monsters) which most rational people don’t think is bad. But this can also mean kid X adult, family x family, or victim X abuser

I actually don’t identify as pro, neu, or anti because I think some comships are good and healthy. I think morally grey ships are important in media when done correctly. Especially since a lot of relationships are rocky and not always healthy and it’s good to show that in media. My own ocs personally aren’t in a perfectly healthy relationship because of their own issues. But this should be done respectfully and with care. Abuse shouldn’t be romanticized but people can be romantic outside of the abuse going on just like in real life relationships

But in a pedophilic fan fiction or art or an incest fanfic or art there is no such thing as a loving part of it. The relationship in itself is abuse because a minor being with a child is abuse and family members being together is abuse. It’s not healthy for anyone involved to romanticize relationships like that and frankly can effect reality no matter how you spin it because it’s representing something as normal to kids.

Right now a lot of neutrals, antis, and probably a lot of pro shippers are agreeing but that’s where my point really starts

The term “proship” and “anti ship” are too vague. If you say you’re proship you sound like you defend media where children are harmed. I understand the meaning is being proshipping and minding your business but that’s still what you look like and frankly that’s what the term does. If you’re pro everything then that means you’re pro the harmful stuff too

And the term “antiship” suggest that you’re anti shipping in general or anti any complex ship which is also unhealthy for us all because morally grey topics need brought up. Antis also are very very commonly okay with harassment when it comes to proshippers

And neutral ship is basically just saying you don’t have a opinion at all which is harmful because you’re suggesting you’re okay with the harm done on both sides. And I understand some people who are neutral ship agree with me and don’t just not care but I feel like majority is the former not the latter (based on what I’ve seen)

Also disclaimer if you’re neutral because of mental health or because you have better things to deal with that’s valid but identifying as neutral ship does put you in it and i instead suggest staying out of it entirely

So idk maybe we should make a term for the middle. I had a few ideas maybe something like middleship or intentship (intentship meaning enjoying or allowing all ships as long as the intentions are good and are not to romanticize trauma or abuse)

Idk everyone can share their opinions but if I see another proshipper say fiction doesn’t effect reality I’m gonna scream and if I see another anti shipper call all morally grey ships bad as if they done killed their grandma I’ll go insane

[fortheloveofpiggy]

Plural witch ideas to bring your plurality into your witch craft!

1- make an intention bracelet and tie in strings representing your headmates with intentions of happiness, connection, communication, or any intention you’d like!

2- bottle some herbs that represent your headmates or system and cleanse it (with incenses or perfected method) to help clean out negative energy

3- buy witchy things you know your headmates likes, like their favorite herbs and crystals or incenses smells!

Most importantly hace fun and respect boundaries

[fortheloveofpiggy]

When I first became a system I was anti endo

When I was anti endo I was afraid of being happy. I was afraid if I was miserable I was faking. I was afraid of being wrong sometimes. I was afraid of having too many fictives. I was afraid of being different from other systems

When I became pro endo I realized all plurality is different and it doesn’t matter. When I became pro endo I actually started to heal

And if any anti endos genuinely think that’s bad or think I’m faking my CDD because of that, then shame on you genuinely. Please get help.

[fortheloveofpiggy]

For us a high switch day is 3-5 switches because we’re low switching

But that doesnt make us less of a system

For some systems a high switch day is 5-10 switches because they switch often

But that doesn’t make them less of a system

For some systems a high switch day is 10-20 and above

That doesnt make them less of a system

[fortheloveofpiggy]

Anti endos will say “we can use the pluralgang tag but endos aren’t plural!”

Nice try plural is a term literally made for endos! You don’t want endos to use the terms you made don’t use the terms endos made.

[fortheloveofpiggy]

Edit: took back some statement read here

I reworded in the comment of my post saying that I understand that I specifically mean people who think it would just be cool to have trauma

TransDID is so offensive actually

What do you mean you want to transition to having dissociative identity disorder. What do you mean you wish you had extreme trauma. What do you mean you wish you dissociated. What do you mean you wish you had amnesia. Did isnt all about being plural. It’s okay to wish you were plural but no you can’t transition to having did just say you’re willogenic please.