As much as I think there is a value in archiving hateful posts as to keep a record of the strong anti-transmasculine sentiment that proliferates certain tumblr spaces, I don't think it is very healthy to regularly expose yourself to post after post of hateful rhetoric.
Coming from someone who used to be on r/AgainstHateSubreddits back when a lot of big hate subs were still up and running. I would spend my time arguing with and witnessing post after post from TERFs and Incels and White Nationalists- and after a while it just exhausts you mentally and emotionally. It's not good for you to do this all the time.
It's important to be knowledgeable about what is being said and done by those who wish to undermine or oppose your existence, but don't drown yourself in it. I also don't find it helpful or comforting seeing a hateful post with 6 likes screenshotted onto a post with 400 likes full of people aghast at its hate. To be honest, there are far more popular and insidious anti-tmasc posts and ideas going around, must we collect every small instance? Is that healthy? Is that productive?
If you're wishing to talk about anti-transmasculinity but are feeling upset by exposure to the worst of the discourse, you can and maybe should block those accounts that's purpose is logging screenshots of hatespeech. There's nothing wrong with needing to distance yourself from persistent examples of how much some people hate you. It is bad for you, and if you're getting stuck in a cycle of exposing yourself to hateful posts and it's hurting you, I'm telling you as someone who had like OCD issues with this, you can and should disengage. Even just take breaks.
It's okay, it's not betraying transmasc people, it's not letting the shitty people get away with posting hate (they'll be doing that anyway honestly). When you're not getting something reflective or informative or productive out of it, you can disengage. You have no obligation to bear witness to any more than you already have, you don't need to participate in the niche dramas or memorize the names of repeat offenders to take part in the conversation about anti-transmasculinity.
A block to even someone you agree with isn't a declaration of war or a betrayal. It is totally reasonable self preservation.
Take care of yourself.








