My contact stance is go fuck yourself 🥰
Contact discorse as a whole is bad and stupid and antithetical to harm reduction and abuse prevention.
Contact stances are useless and mean fuck-all in any context except you deciding how much respect, kindness, or compassion you plan to give someone before you've even had a conversation. Contact stances are not admissions of action or intent to act, they are purely categories of specific philisophical beliefs.
Want to know how someone feels about something? Talk to them respectfully. Get to know them. Ask them respectful questions. You got an answer you don't agree with? Ask a follow up question. Contact stances/discourse are stupid because they are reductive. They are stances and discourse when they should be conversations.
I am always open to conversations. But I am quite tired of discourse. If you're uncmfortable with someone block them. If you are harrassing someone, you are wrong. You're the one in the wrong every single time. No matter what or who or why, you're wrong for the act of harrassment.
I have been actually active on this app for what, two weeks now? Max? And I'm already waist deep in toxic sludge? I came to Tumblr for chill positive vibes, I'm just gonna start blocking anyone and everyone who gives me even the slightest bit of annoyance at this point.