#para posting

[l11vew1re]

someone beating the shit out of me , then tenderly holding my hair and rubbing my back as i throw up in the bathroom. drooling. yeeesss give me mixed signals yeeessss

[ditch-mutt]

Sex is BORING. Genitalia is GROSS. PIERCE MY SKIN with your TEETH and CONSUME ME UNTIL I AM NOTHING.

[vampzip]

hey you’re super cool, can i cannibalise you?

[cislimewireuser]

TW TALKS OF A PARAPHILE COMMITTING SUICIDE. PLEASE DONT PRESS KEEP READING IF THIS TRIGGERS YOU.

I'll never forget an anti-contact paraphile on Reddit who made a post about how they were trying to get help from a therapist and guess what the therapist did? They reported them to the police despite the fact that the person suffering from a paraphile didn't hurt anyone and the therapist didn't believe them and the investigators found no evidence of a crime, but the investigators refused to close the case. Which caused him to be evicted from his apartment and ostracized by his job and family.

And he eventually ended his life over it.

This is why stigmatizing paraphiles is harmful. We should get paraphiles help, coping mechanisms, and healthy outlets.

[soft4brainz]

we have a winner for the the plushum/plusho mascot! here is a little sticker themed doodle, inspired by this flag. free to use elsewhere!

[minorparapride]

Oh and also shout out to paraphiles of color! I can’t even count how many times people have insinuated to me or others (or even outright stated) that paraphilias are a white person only thing. They aren’t. And you’re not a failure for being a POC and a paraphile. You’re not less moral or pure for it. You’re amazing.

Black paraphiles

Latine paraphiles

Asian paraphiles

Indigenous paraphiles

Pacific Islander paraphiles

+ anyone that I’m missing

You’re amazing.

You are not dangerous. You are not freaks. There isn’t anything wrong with you.

[n3cr0aam]

I've found that a lot more people care that you're a paraphile online than in person. So many of my irls know I'm a necrophiliac and they just... don't care. But people online will tell you to kill yourself or get help. Guess what, I got a sex therapist, and she said its not even impacting my life enough for me to need help with it! I think a lot of people online don't understand that paraphilias arent something that can be cured, and sometimes don't even need management if you're not in distress or at risk of action due to it. Recovery is only necessary if its harmful to yourself or others, and thats a conclusion i've come to THROUGH therapy, so I don't understand why antis will tell me to get help. At least my irl friends are chill with it.