#~arthur

[mavininincisiiderya]

Hisler, arayışla bizi bulmazdı; hisler kalbimizden gelirdi.

O dinlediğim masallardaki prens değildi sadece, benim kendime ait masalımın da baş karakteri olmuştu.

[agendersafespace]

Is it possible to be agender but still feel a bit masculine or feminine some days?

Yes! This could be:

agenderfluid, a gender “with agender as a base with occasional feelings that one’s gender is trending towards masculine or feminine (without reaching a feeling that one is entirely male or female)”

agenderflux, “a term used to describe when you identify as agender but have fluctuations where you feel feminine or masculine but not exactly male or female”

libragender, “a gender that is mostly agender, but has a strong connection to a different gender”.

~Arthur

[agendersafespace]

Most days, I feel agender or somewhere between girl and agender, so I'm pretty sure I'm genderflux. But some days, I feel like a guy and it freaks me out because it rarely happens, but when it does, it's really intense. Is this a common experience? I'm kinda doubting my identity rn. Am I still genderflux? Genderfluid? Agenderflux?

It sounds like it’s still genderflux/agenderflux to me. Feeling intensely like a guy sometimes doesn’t invalid the other times you feel agender or like a girl or inbetween.

I don’t know if it’s a common experience (as I’m not genderflux), so I’m calling to our followers to share their experience about this!

~Arthur

[agendersafespace]

I’m sorry about this almost dead blog! We’re only two and we’re not very active. I know I wasn’t there because, well, life happens. I’d wish I could be more of help! Sorry about our long absences.

~Arthur

[agendersafespace]

I don't even think I understand the concept of gender. I'm biologically female, but I sometimes wish to have the body of a male. I really enjoy being feminine, and I think even if I identified as a boy I would want to be a feminine boy if that makes sense. I feel like both but neither all at once and I'm really confused by it. Sometimes I think I might be agender, but that doesn't totally fit either. Is gender what you look like? What you feel like? Either way I'm confused and lost. Any advice?

Lots of people make a great distinction between presentation (what you looke like) and gender (what you feel like). At least, that’s what people describe gender as. If I’m agender that’s mostly because I can’t pinpoint what gender is, so I qualify myself as genderless.

But I’ll tell you: you don’t have to choose a label for yourself. If it helps you, then I’ll gladly redirect you towards websites with terms like mogai-lexicon to help you find a word to put on your feeling that might be a gender. I can’t tell you what it is, and you don’t have to find right away. You’re allowed to change words, you’re allowed to look inside of you and feel this feeling change with time, or your interpretation of it differ at different periods of your life. It’s all ok, it’s all you. And if you don’t find anything to label it, it’s also ok.

~Arthur

[agendersafespace]

Is it possible to be an agender lesbian?

You can call yourself a lesbian if you’re at least partially a woman, who love other women. If you aren’t partially a woman, you cannot use the word lesbian for yourself.

I suppose you can still call yourself agender, but there’s some other words that convey more that you’re partially a woman, such as agenderflux (agender with fluctuations towards other genders), agenderfluid (base agender with fluidity with other genders), or libragender (mostly agender but having a strong connection to another gender), 

~Arthur

[agendersafespace]

Help? I don't know how to feel about my gender... It's such a small part of me, I don't even know it's there or not. I periodically ask myself 'what is my gender' but I get less and less response to it overtime. (Part 1/2)

I don't know if I feel gendered anymore. On the 5 last times I asked myself my gender it was "____ ... I think.". Never a concrete answer. Can one "turn" Agender? I am female presenting but it doesn't make the least difference for me. (Part 2/2)

If you don’t feel like you have any gender right now, you can call yourself agender. It doesn’t matter what gender you identified with before, or what gender you might identify with later. If agender is what you feel the most right now, in the present, then you are, you’re valid.

~Arthur