Things I Can't Say Out Loud

Pi | '96 | Welcome to my personal blog. ♥

[tanniebear]

ilang days na ako puyat kaka queue sa global interpark huhu waley parin talaga

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It's been so long since I cut my bangs.

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18.06.2024

Applied for 🇰🇷 visa 🙏🏻✨

Lord, ikaw na bahala.

Thy Will be done.

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[tanniebear]

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♡ Your daily dose of cat memes ᓚᘏᗢ ♡

[tanniebear]

uwu 😍

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[tanniebear]

I need to save 35k for my plane ticket 🙏🏻😭✨ Lord help me pleaseeeeeeeeeee

[yms1]

It sucks that you have to keep yourself busy to feel okay.

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[tanniebear]

The last time I was too invested sa isang kdrama is yung Alchemy of Souls, ngayon ang inaadikan ko is Moving hahaha I am so excited for episode 10 today!!!! di tuloy ako makatulog haha

[homunculus-argument]

Never forget, if someone asks you an invasive question, you can always reply by asking them "do you think that's a normal thing to ask people?"

Do it in a super casual and cheery tone, like you were asking about their favourite food.

[gallusrostromegalus]

This is something you can, and actually SHOULD do, with a small change: Keep your tone neutral when you ask this, because in my experience, you get one of two responses:

-People who KNEW they were being rude will know you've caught them at it and will mumble excuses and shut up. You've shown them that behavior won't be rewarded, which is what really stops them, and hopefully they'll make better choices in the future. - but you will get some people who do genuinely think that that WAS a normal question to ask because THEY get asked that by their mom/boss/other authority figure asks them things like that all the time??? This person is being taken advantage of and needs help. You then explain, as gently as you can, "No. That's actually really personal and sensitive information most people don't talk about because X*, and it's extremely inappropriate of Authority Figure Z to ask that. You, and everyone else deserve privacy and information security." they'll go "oh. I didn't know that." or some close variation, and then you tell them "no harm, no foul, and I'm glad you know now." and then change the topic. You probably won't get a landmark "oh my god I had no idea I'm reevaluating my entire life" moment, but just hearing that "No, that's not normal and not okay" is enough to get the ball rolling in the right direction to protect themselves.

*X is here to explain generally why Privacy and information security is important. For instance, if they're asking questions about health and finance, you can explain that that's legally protected information to prevent fraud and in order to keep it safe, it HAS to stay secret.

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Extruding pasta

[tanniebear]

ay ewan 😹

[tanniebear]

Trying Jin Ho Kyung eyeliner haha