This is my life

This is my very personal blog and I follow everyone who follows this blog back on my main blog Aries324. I come here to post when my emotions start to overwhelm me or when I see something I would rather share in private. Sometimes I post hipster pictures and sometimes I just vent with quotes or text posts.

[perrfectly]

“Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye”

— (hatin)

[aries324]

I made Adora in a picrew app

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I’m learning to love my body and how to nourish it with more than just food

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Why would I want to “catch ‘em all” when I already have the best one

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I voted early but I hope all of you that are able to vote will go out and help make a difference tomorrow

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Been working out 🏋🏻‍♀️ pretty hard at the gym lately and I’m really proud of the progress. I don’t look that much different then when I started but I dropped a bit of fat and turned it into muscle

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Kinda in love with my high waisted bikini

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No limit..✌

[humans-are-space-orcs]

One alien to another: “special affects? Photo shop?”

The other: “Must be”

A human: “nope”

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O-O….

[melisica]

Anke Grünow

[aries324]

Pool day! 👙🤳🏼

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Had a great time paddle boarding yesterday for my boyfriend’s birthday

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Sunset on the boardwalk

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Found a new bikini! I love it!

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Ramen 🍜 is my favorite 😍

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[furiousgoldfish]

don’t allow abusers to talk as if they’ve never done anything wrong. remind them of what they’ve done. refuse to push it under the rug and pretend that nothing happened. say it to their face. demand that they own up to it.  if they get angry, you’re on a good track. they have no right to be angry about mention of something they’ve done. if they didn’t want it mentioned, they shouldn’t have done it.

[furiousgoldfish]

“You were forcing me to feel guilty about having wounds, you pretended my emotions weren’t real, you dramatized your most tiny problems until they looked more important than my whole life struggles, you punished me over and over again for “not following your rules” and you had the fucking nerve to pretend that I was the toxic one.”

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[taradactyldiary]

Things I wish I could tell my abusive manager

[embercrystal]

How to know if someone is gaslighting you…

something is “off” about your partner and you can’t quite explain or pinpoint why.

you frequently second-guess your ability to remember the details of past events leaving you psychologically powerless.

You feel confused and disorientated.

You feel threatened and on-edge around this person, but you don’t know why.

You feel the need to apologize all the time for what you do or who you are.

You never quite feel “good enough” and try to live up to the expectations and demands of others, even if they are unreasonable or harm you in some way.

You feel like there’s something fundamentally wrong with you, e.g. you’re neurotic or are “losing it.”

You feel like you’re constantly overreacting or are “too sensitive.”

You feel isolated, hopeless, misunderstood and depressed.

You find it hard to trust your own judgment, and given a choice, you choose to believe the judgment of the abuser.

You feel scared and as though “something is terribly wrong,” but you don’t know what or why.

You find it hard to make decisions because you distrust yourself.

You feel as though you’re a much weaker version of yourself, and you were much more strong and confident in the past.

You feel guilty for not feeling happy like you used to.

You’ve become afraid of “speaking up” or expressing your emotions, so you stay silent instead.