Who Taught You To Live Like That?

28 / disabled / lesbian / pisces / feminist “terfs” aren’t real this is a parvati shallow stan blog nj / philly rest in peace local sexpot, trevor moore. 🖕🏻don't call me queer🖕🏻 “don't believe that no one cares, 'cause we're here waiting for you, baby. do your time, and then come home for good." 🇵🇸

[taramaclaywasaterf]

i just found out about anthony head’s passing and i’m devastated. obviously as a massive lifelong buffy fan, giles meant so much to me and i know i didn’t know anthony but it hurts that he’s gone. the fact that we’ve lost michelle trachtenberg, nicholas brendon, and now anthony so close together is crazy and i can’t even imagine how heartbroken the buffy cast and crew are feeling with losing so many people back to back. all their remembrance posts for anthony have me sobbing. i hope he’s at peace and knows how loved he is.

[taramaclaywasaterf]

met the hottest woman i’ve ever seen in my goddamn life today and i fucked it up so catastrophically bad i wanna go jump off the ben franklin bridge into a fucking sea of boiling lava, jesus christ.

[taramaclaywasaterf]

i made it worse oh my god i made it worse just kill me now please just take me out back and shoot me like an elderly farm animal with a busted leg put me tf out my misery

[taramaclaywasaterf]

met the hottest woman i’ve ever seen in my goddamn life today and i fucked it up so catastrophically bad i wanna go jump off the ben franklin bridge into a fucking sea of boiling lava, jesus christ.

[taramaclaywasaterf]

updating for the first time in forever with the least feminist thing i could possibly say but i don’t gaf right now THEY FIRED KEVIN PATULLO BABY GO BIRDS DHHHHHH

[taramaclaywasaterf]

had the chance to catch a beautiful older woman performing the raven dressed as edger allan poe in the laurel hill cemetery during a flea market. a crowd of mostly other women and girls of all ages gathered around her, many of us mouthing the words along with her. it was the perfect last day or so of summer, cool breeze and warm sun, leaves just barely starting to turn. i managed to forget for a little while all the terrifying things happening in the world and it felt really good. i love philly and i love women and i wish every day could be like this.

[queen-mayhem]

a man who said things like "deaths by gun violence are a fair cost to pay for our 2A rights" and "empathy does a lot of damage" dying by being shot at a school under a banner that says "prove me wrong" would be cheesey and hamfisted if it was in a movie but that's something that actually happened today

[snowdarkred]

he died for what he believed in

[secretgarden]

ppl r like “he was a father have some empathy” why would i have empathy for a father who said if his 10 year old daughter was raped and impregnated he would make her carry the baby to full term

[awsugar]

my apologies etsy witches i was not familiar with your game

[cherriesnkisses]

can’t tell if this is karma for saying “gun deaths are necessary” or if this is karma for saying his ten year old daughter would be forced to go through with childbirth if she was raped

[taramaclaywasaterf]

Tara Maclay is canonically trans. Read the comics bozo

1.) she’s not real

2.) i read them awhile ago but have no memory of her ever being trans? even if she was, see point #1

3.) in the (fictional) television show, she (a fictional character) and willow (also a fictional character) and many other characters (all of which are fictional) all make comments (that are scripted for the fictional television show they are on, because they aren’t real people) about how tara and willow don’t like dick because they’re lesbians. see the entire episode “Him”, tara’s comment about how she’s “not much for the timber” (the gif of that is literally my header lmao) and faith saying “willows no longer driving stick.” those are just off the top of my head. that makes both tara and willow raging terfs according to yall, which is what my url refers to.

4.) “terfs” are as real as the fictional characters on this tv show. which is to say, not at all. you made them up as a big scary boogie man. my url is a joke making fun of yall

5.) shes not real

6.) thank you for not being some random scammer claiming to be from palestine asking for money, ily💖

[taramaclaywasaterf]

Do you really think Tara would have been a "terf"?

I love the show, but I feel like her character was so gentle that she might have gotten bullied into going along with anti-bioessentialism.

I could see Willow hating men enough though.

hi i’m so sorry if this ask is super old, i haven’t checked my inbox in forever😭 so i made my url literally like a decade ago mostly as a joke, based solely on this scene lol:

but basically, now that i’m older i find it kinda futile debating how fictional characters would align politically because, like, it literally doesn’t matter whatsoever in the real world. though i won’t be changing my url because, let’s be real, it’s iconic and i sure as fuck won’t let anyone else have it lmao. i also don’t use the term “terf” anymore because it’s just misogynistic bullshit created by whiny ass men to center themselves in feminism.

that said, since i do still absolutely love BTVS and tara as a character, and will never turn down an opportunity to talk about this show lol: based on stuff tara has said on the show, she’d definitely be labeled a “terf.” if she were real and living in the year 2025, i can absolutely see her being bullied into feeling guilty about being exclusively same-sex attracted, and overcompensating by becoming a massive “twanzwimmin are wimmmin!” type. but again, just based off the show in the time that it’s set in, she’d be labeled a “terf” by today’s standards, simply based on the fact that she’s a lesbian and she states she’s not into “timber” (dick.)

willow would absolutely be a raging radfem - the entire episode “him” is literally just her under a love spell talking about how much she hates that mans dick lol

again, i’m so sorry if this took long to answer, i haven’t been super active on tumblr in awhile💖

[taramaclaywasaterf]

it's so fucked up that i sent your dead blog a sloan ask like months ago and now you're regularly on my dash :/ we're not even in the same circles

i’m sorry i haven’t checked my asks in forever so idk how old this is, but holy shit you’re the sloan anon???! you’re like my own personal white whale oh my god i feel like i’m meeting a celebrity😭 please let me know if you see this queen ily💖

[annie-ave]

pedophile 🫵

TRA’s mad bc I said genital preferences are valid (I think?)

Oh well. Clear out your own closet before making wild accusations.

A lot of people know John Money was a pedo apologist but pretty sure far too many ppl still don’t know Foucault slept with ten year old Algerian boys and wanted to decriminalize pedophilia.

the creator of the trans flag Monica helms also wrote pedophilic erotica fiction under their own name and admitted to stealing girls and women’s underwear to masturbate in from local laundromats. Quotes from Helms own books follows 😍

[majchic]

more about john money:

John Money: The Pro-Pedophile Pervert Who Invented "Gender" - Reduxx

“Gender identity” is a hot-topic today and has become a focal point of not just social discourse, but legal policy and procedure. But few pe

also:

Creator of Trans Pride Flag Was Admitted Crossdressing Fetishist - Reduxx

The creator of the trans flag forced his wife to participate in his fetishistic cross-dressing and wrote ‘forced feminization’ and erotic sh

"Cis" Coined by "Pedosexual" Sexologist Who Claimed There was "Nothing Wrong With Pedophilia" - Reduxx

The term “cis gender” has gained widespread popularity in recent years, largely due to a push from trans activists who define the word as th

[theknightlywolfe]

Reminder:

Police are using sonic weapons against protesters that can cause permanent hearing loss

LRADs, a sound-producing device used to control crowds, can inflict permanent damage on subjects

[jenjen4280]

Boosting this for visibility.

Even if these haven’t been used where you live or are protesting - gear up before you head out and know how to avoid the path of the sound.

[swaggynomore2k25-deactivated202]

can someone blow our goverbment up already (not condoning terrorism i prommy)

[gengario]

whoops lost myself for about eight years there

[taramaclaywasaterf]

bro i love artists so much because we’re literally all the same lol like i went to an estate sale of an old woman over the weekend, and she was an artist. she had her paintings and materials all over her home. unfortunately her family wasn’t selling her work so i couldn’t buy any but i did buy a bunch of her books about artists and supplies she had. but the thing i love is that she had a stash of the EXACT fucking pencils i LOVE that literally stopped being made in like the 80s or something. you can only find them on ebay and stuff, and my favorite color is SO hard to find. and she just had a whole ass drawer of them that had probably been sitting there since the 80s. because, just like me and most artists i know, she probably bought them then totally forgot about them, or bought so many of them because she loved them so much she couldn’t possibly use them all in her lifetime, or someone gave them to her as a gift but she couldn’t bring herself to part with them. because we’re either irrationally attached to our materials or we forget they exist entirely with no in between. either way, they’re all with me now and will be cherished until they’re tiny little unusable nubs.

the family had cleaned out all photos of her from the house so when i found one of her she’d used as a bookmark, i couldn’t help but take it with me. i also bought a cute 100% silk top and a really nice sweater (both at the dry cleaners right now because they smelled heavily of her perfume lol) for only $2 each, plus a giant box of scrap fabric for free that i’m gonna have some fun with.

she was a cute little old woman who clearly lived an incredible life traveling the world and collecting things she loved and painting. i felt really connected to her, and i hope she knows some of her things went to a home that loves them.