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@tasseographic
friendly reminder that
if we’re mutuals, you are allowed to slip 1 (One) small lizard into my pocket if you see me at the farmer’s market
some days im like “i havent eaten in 19 hours and im feelin fine”
and then some days im like “im on my ninth muffin and only the power of god can stop me”
also: “I’ll sleep when I’m dead” vs “I’ll sleep until I die”
Guess what they’re playing.
You are not a therapist.
I am still not on Tumblr. But if you fucking post dumb shit about asking for reassurance being abusive you need to check out. I am a goddamn adult with a therapist and a LOT OF TIME AND THERAPY MONEY SPENT EXAMINING ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE I WAS IN THEM. I will discuss emotional manipulation and abuser tactics with you if you want to fucking talk about it but if anyone I know dares to suggest that a normal facet of an anxiety disorder like the need for reassurance when you feel bad is ABUSIVE instead of COMMON AS HELL I will mock you mercilessly and shut you down. WITH CITATIONS.
You can hurt people with what you say. You fucking assholes. Spare us your attempt at deconstructing other peoples’ relationships and try making yourself available as a support instead.
https://www.rainn.org/ (1-800-656-HOPE)
https://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org (1-800-273-8255)
If you are reading this, I care about you. And I am taking care of myself. Please take care of yourself, too. You are important.
In western lands beneath the Sun the flowers may rise in Spring, the trees may bud, the waters run, the merry finches sing. Or there maybe 'tis cloudless night and swaying beeches bear the Elven-stars as jewels white amid their branching hair. Though here at journey's end I lie in darkness buried deep, beyond all towers strong and high, beyond all mountains steep, above all shadows rides the Sun and Stars forever dwell: I will not say the Day is done, nor bid the Stars farewell.
J.R.R. Tolkien
this separation has taught me a very important thing about myself.
life without you is life without cake.
I can eat salad for the rest of my life and survive. I even enjoy salad, for the most part. But life is better with cake.
my life is better with you in it.
if you see this...you're my cake.
Nam Sibyllam quidem Cumis ego ipse oculis meis vidi in ampulla pendere, et cum illi pueri dicerent: Σίβυλλα τί θέλεις; respondebat illa: ἀποθανεῖν θέλω.
Trimalchio, The Satyricon of Petronius
I feel so small in the face of this storm, hanging on even though my nails peel away, bloody in the sunset, smoke rising from my burning heart.
I want to clothe you in stars. You are rain in the desert of my heart, lovely grey and misty weather, an exhale of my dream garden's breath. You are the sole blessing in this exile.
I want to wrap you in blankets and sit next to you, even if you cry. Even if you rage and rail and yell. I want to be with you in the darkness and in the light and in the uncertain between-times.
You are a soft spring of love and light in my mind. You hold entire universes in your eyes and I am afraid to die in space, but I could drown, secure in the knowledge of love if you could only let me in.
I could never harm you without killing a part of myself. You are the pulse of my heart and the moon that directs my tidal soul. I wish I could be the wave to wash away your fear and doubt, that you could let me rise up beneath you, bear you on my back toward your stubborn constellations.
I will wither and I will fade and I may die alone but you will be in me, heart and soul, until the end. I cannot die for you, I cannot stand between you and darkness, but I will live for you. I will grow old dreaming of you. Hoping, someday, to kiss you again in the slow marches of the night.
I will hold the memories I have of you in the palm of my hand, offer up my joy and pain and fear into the night sky. I will hope. I will believe in you.
I cannot say to you, "do not be afraid," because that is not how this ends. I will be certain of you until I close my eyes for the last time upon this world.
I hope it is a glorious sunset.
An Open Letter to the Person I Have Loved for Several Lifetimes
This is the only time I will bother you here. I am not stalking you and I don't want to make you feel pressured.
I am not mad. My feelings are not clouded by all this sadness. I want to reach out to you and let you know that you are not alone. It's so hard to follow therapist advice right now and let you have your space. I want to be there for you if you want anything, and I will keep taking care of myself and our cats and hoping that you will feel comfort wherever you can. This has been a hellish week, and I hope that it gets better for you. I won't push my feelings on you if you need someone to talk to. I can promise that.
It's lonely to feel like you can't come home, so I just wanted to tell you that this is your space too. If you come home, I will respect you and your space and your desire to move without bothering you, but I also want to be sure that you know this doesn't have to happen. I hope that we can work something out so that you feel you have a space of your own. I'm here if you want to talk. And I'm not the only one.
I believe in you and your support system and I trust you. I think (or I'm afraid) you don't believe me. But I promise you, on the oaths I swore to my gods before I drowned, I trust you. And I'm here.
“In 1921, early suffragettes often donned a bathing suit and ate pizza in large groups to annoy men…it was a custom at the time.”
TIME TO REVIVE A CUSTOM
it's very important that I return to tumblr merely to reblog my support for this
威風堂々~鶏界一のモテ男が通りますよ~
貫禄の光を放つ鶏のアンティーク着物×絞りの粋な現代帯
鶏の圧倒的な存在感を楽しむ、レトロで最高にグルーヴィーなコーディネートです(愛らしいヒヨコも見逃さないで)
モノトーンの洗練された帯と小物が最高の引き立て役ですね!
ICHIROYAサイトにて販売中です
こちらからご覧いただけます
着物:近日出品予定です。お見逃しなく!
帯:http://japan.ichiroya.com/item/list2/270004/
*帯〆・帯揚げ等の小物類は私物です
love love LOVE freestyle kimono sets and Mugi-san really knows what she is doing! you should all check out her new blog, and if you were somehow into kimono but unaware of Ichiroya, this is your gateway drug.
also wow my Japanese has gotten really bad even though I have to use it every day??
うつくしておもしろいのフリースタイルセット~<3
ムギさんはてんさい少女ですね~
we are all looking forward to more!
I have ONE more submission I was able to finish right before it was closed! I just HAD to do something for my love of Lil Cal! My description shows how sleep deprived I was… whoops! Please spread this around! :)
look what else my juju did <3 she is so rad and even though I never loved Lil Cal as much as she does, even I find this super cute.
juju is so amazing.
Reasons Why I'm Not Supporting Disney's Frozen
There has been a lot of debate circulating Tumblr lately about Disney’s upcoming film Frozen. A lot of this debate was sparked by the fact that the character design of the film’s heroine, Anna, is strikingly similar (read: identical) to that of Rapunzel in Tangled. Implications of lazy animation aside, the whole thing once again makes it startlingly clear that Disney, and most all media for that matter, makes stories about the same thin, wide eyed white women over and over again while missing out on any opportunities for diversity.
These are of course, valid accusations and a really important conversation. If these revelations are motivation for choosing to not see or support Frozen, they are perfectly legitimate. They are certainly a contributing factor for me. But I made the decision to not support Frozen before any character design was revealed. In short, the direction that Disney is taking this film is distasteful not just to their own record of creativity — (Say what you will, but I have great respect for the filmaking legacy of the studio. With all the critiques and caveats that media awareness brings, I’m still a fan. )— but to the source material that they are drawing from.
Frozen is, by Disney’s account, an adaptation of Hans Christian Anderson’s story, The Snow Queen. When I first heard rumors and saw concept art for a Disney adaptation of the story, I was overjoyed. The film was originally in development as a traditional animated feature, which was appealing to this old school Disney and animation fan. But aside from that, The Snow Queen is one of my all time favorite fairy tales. It’s epic, melancholy, emotionally complex, and fantastically feminist.
Hans Christian Anderson’s oeuvre is not exactly female friendly. If you think the silencing and lack of agency implied in Disney’s The Little Mermaid is problematic, you haven’t read the original. Anderson so often writes of sadistic punishments for heroines’ slight, heavily gendered sins like vanity and sanctifies heroines for gendered virtues like silence and passivity, that many of his works demonstrate deep seated misogyny.
The Snow Queen is not one of those works, and it makes me wonder what sort of feminist tonic Anderson ingested before writing it. It tells the story of a young girl named Gerda who must embark on a journey to rescue her best friend, a boy named Kai, from both the clutches of the Snow Queen and the soul killing influence of a cursed shard of mirror that has become lodged in his heart.
That Gerda is the active and resourceful rescuer of her passive, male best friend is already a refreshing twist on mainstream western fairy tales, but the female power on display in the story is apparent in other ways. The Snow Queen is what I would call a Bechdel Test win. Female characters outnumber male characters to a startling degree. In fact, Kai is the only significant male character to speak of. Every other role in Gerda’s hero’s journey is fulfilled by a woman, girl or even an expressly female animal guide.
There is the Snow Queen herself, a formidable villain who’s power is treated with respect. There is Kai’s grandmother, who provides an essential catalyst to Gerda’s journey. There is the old witch woman with the enchanted garden who functions as a threshold guardian for Gerda while being characterized in a respectful manner that serves as a good subversion of the old witch trope. There is a female crow who knows how to sneak into palaces, a helpful princess who heads a side plot in which she will only marry a prince as intelligent as her (!!!), a robber and her daughter, head of a band of robbers who kidnap Gerda. The daughter is a spunky, knife wielding girl who befriends Gerda and aids her on her way. And finally, there are two women, the latter of whom helps Gerda understand the inherent power she has always had within her, a power that will ultimately save her friend, and the world.
Please excuse my while I go squee into a pillow over that roster of amazingly diverse female characters and the female agency on display in this story.
Well, now that I’m done with that, can we just take a minute to reflect on how many incredible female characters Disney had at their disposal. Expanded on with the studio’s signature storytelling skill, these ladies could have made up one of the most diverse, predominately female casts to ever grace children’s media. Not to mention the story’s Scandinavian setting offers a great opportunity for some racial diversity and indigenous representation, from Inuit to Sami and beyond.
So you can imagine that I was profoundly disappointed when I heard that Disney’s adaptation, now called Frozen (a Tangled-reminiscent decision that stinks of avoiding the need to market a film with a female centered title), had cut out every single one of these female characters save for Gerda, now called Anna, and the Snow Queen, who is now Anna’s sister. The women have been replaced with a cast of men, and Anna is now accompanied on her journey by a “Mountain Man” named Kristoff (edit: a helpful anon informed me that his name is not Hans, as I originally stated. Hans is in fact another male character and may be a factor in a possible love triangle for Anna). Kristoff is obviously intended to serve as romantic interest for the now aged up Anna, who as Gerda in the original, felt a love for her friend Kai that was strictly platonic. (Kai, by the way, has been dropped altogether.)
Now I know that Disney often drastically changes the plot of fairy tales that it adapts and I’ve never been one to complain about it. But most of these fairy tales have been simple stories with archetypal characters and a bare bones plot. Most of the changes made by Disney improve the original in terms of depth of narrative and character.
The Snow Queen is not that story. Disney’s changes not only appear to play down the emotional and narrative depth of the story, they violate many of its central themes.
That Disney feels it’s necessary to take a female driven, female dominated story and cut it down to one princess protagonist with a dashing male helper/love interest, is honestly disgusting and one of the most blatant examples of Hollywood’s lack of faith in women in recent memory.
It’s one of those clear examples in which everything that is wrong with our media’s approach to women and female agency is even more apparent, if only because we have a clear source to compare it to, and we can see what the studio chose to change.
A female protagonist who primarily goes it alone? Can’t have that. She needs a hot dude to be by her side so the audience doesn’t get bored by all the lady time, and also she needs someone to get with at the end. And on that note, let’s make her older and also a princess.
A bunch of women who, if expanded, could be diverse and original characters, friends, villains and comic relief? No way that would work. Let’s just replace them with some dudes and a talking snowman. We can’t have more than two women in a story. After all, every other fairy tale we’ve produced has only let women be a princess or a villain. Why break the pattern now? Why let girls know that they have inherent power no matter where they come from? Why let them know they have other options. And while we’re at it, we’ve got to make sure everyone is white.
So yeah, that’s why I’m boycotting Frozen.
I watched it. I wish they would just let the Snow Queen be great.
And the hype is ridiculous.
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Once the winner is determined, I will ask for a full name and shipping address and notify you when the package has been shipped out (If the package gets lost in the mail, I will not be held responsible). If the winner does not respond within 2 days of my message or is a resident outside of Canada or The United States, your winning will be withdrawn.
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JFC I want it
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