[tboyrory]

Intro post

Rory, 19 years old

Binary trans guy, he/him, perisex (important if I ever mention intersexism, that I am not intersex, so please correct me if I make any mistakes)

Gay, polyamorous

Mixed race white passing

Free tarot and oracle readings just DM or ask I got tired

Mostly here to talk about issues in our community with other trans people, specifically trans mascs, and create a space where I can talk about my experiences, and others can share theirs. I go off topic sometimes in my posts tho so it’s not all strictly discourse related.

My DMs are always open to anyone that needs someone to listen, except minors. While there is nothing nsfw here (nvm there is but I speak of it purely in an educational sense, this blog is for important discussions, not porn, still don’t want DMs from minors tho) I just want the young ones to be cautious about interacting with randos in private. Asks are open to everyone.

It’s unlikely to come up here, but I do have OCD and ADHD, I also want my blog to be a safe space for anyone struggling with any mental disorder, and will block if you contribute to stigmatization. It’s not okay to dehumanize people. I’m severely mentally ill myself for unknown reasons that seem to go a bit beyond the scope of typical ocd, adhd, anxiety, and depression. Psychotic features have been diagnosed as psychotic features we just don’t know why.

My blog is open to fundraiser requests. I am unable to donate, maybe lend five bucks once awhile, I want you to receive whatever aid it is you need. This is more so for mutual aid of fellow trans people, bigger fundraisers I will check if vetted (and by who) before sharing

[tboy-cock]

binder companies need to post ads for fat big busted trans guys and not just skinny androgynous twinks with body fat percentages in the single digits and yes im serious

[tboy-cock]

hey so just for clarification, if you're skinny and offended by this post, i dont care. you're not being discriminated against because youre skinny, thats not a real thing. try experiencing actual fatphobia then we'll talk

[that-grassbro]

Dear all western trans guys:

Please DO be that 'obnoxious' guy who brings up non-western trans men whenever other westerners start talking about issues of transphobia and misogyny like we don't exist.

A lot of the time, the risks for us bringing it up ourselves is much greater than that of a fellow westerner. Or we may not even be invited to the table to be able to say anything. We genuinely do need others to speak for us.

They might call you 'obnoxious' or 'reaching' but in times like that please remember that we are not a rhetorical tool

Trans men in the global south are REAL PEOPLE. Bringing us up is never 'strawmanning' or 'missing the point' or any other stupid ass excuse because we are not an imaginary 'other'.

It is always a good idea to bring up global southern trans men. And DO NOT let them make you feel guilty about it

<3

[tboyrory]

Hey so like bending over backwards to do defense for the grown fucking adult that sent their large audience to go harass a minor, the grown woman that literally said “go harass this kid and make them deactivate”, is a stupid fucking thing to do. We should have much more empathy, sympathy, and compassion towards the people being attacked with transandrophobia and being hurt by it than we do transandrophobes who are capable of making better decisions. “She was having a normal reaction to being made a spectacle of” my fucking ass. Where is this care and grace for us? We constantly call out transmisogynists in our communities, one person being shitty towards trans women in transmasc tags will receive a day and half of posts talking about it even if nobody’s ever heard of them before. Why should I care more about the feelings of a bully who knows better, than I care about my own community? Why are we always criticizing what trans men and boys do because what we’re doing is “cringe” or “lame” or “ripped off from transfems” or whatever the fuck you’ve come up with this time, instead of giving us the grace you give towards the people that would rather we be dead? Not once on this site have I seen a trans man be given the understanding and compassion we give to a lot of the transandrophobes. I’ve seen trans men and mascs and our allies ripped to shreds over the slightest mistakes in our own communities and contributed to by other trans men and mascs. Fuck all of you that contributed or decided to be vocally complacent with a “uh well if I take trans men in the worst faith possible and never believe a word they say then yeah the TRFs got a point this once”, fuck you. Care about trans men, mascs, and boys more than you care about bigots, stop taking everything we do in the worst faith possible, or shut the fuck up.

[senhor-do-escuro]

If a trans man breaths wrong then plenty of people on here will harass him for whatever reason.

But pretty much everyone here can call trans men "predators and rapists" and say "they deserve to be shoot" and nobody reacts.

[tboyrory]

Hey so like bending over backwards to do defense for the grown fucking adult that sent their large audience to go harass a minor, the grown woman that literally said “go harass this kid and make them deactivate”, is a stupid fucking thing to do. We should have much more empathy, sympathy, and compassion towards the people being attacked with transandrophobia and being hurt by it than we do transandrophobes who are capable of making better decisions. “She was having a normal reaction to being made a spectacle of” my fucking ass. Where is this care and grace for us? We constantly call out transmisogynists in our communities, one person being shitty towards trans women in transmasc tags will receive a day and half of posts talking about it even if nobody’s ever heard of them before. Why should I care more about the feelings of a bully who knows better, than I care about my own community? Why are we always criticizing what trans men and boys do because what we’re doing is “cringe” or “lame” or “ripped off from transfems” or whatever the fuck you’ve come up with this time, instead of giving us the grace you give towards the people that would rather we be dead? Not once on this site have I seen a trans man be given the understanding and compassion we give to a lot of the transandrophobes. I’ve seen trans men and mascs and our allies ripped to shreds over the slightest mistakes in our own communities and contributed to by other trans men and mascs. Fuck all of you that contributed or decided to be vocally complacent with a “uh well if I take trans men in the worst faith possible and never believe a word they say then yeah the TRFs got a point this once”, fuck you. Care about trans men, mascs, and boys more than you care about bigots, stop taking everything we do in the worst faith possible, or shut the fuck up.

[tboyrory]

You should follow my bunny themed blog @bunny-supremacy

[tboyrory]

You should all give Todd Howard your money and get Skyrim because it’s 75% off on Steam rn, but also you can turn it into a customized experience because there’s thousands of mods, you’re basically purchasing one game, which you can completely remake it into whole other games for free. And Enderal. You should play Enderal.

Although modding, even just curating a mod list and getting everything set up can take a very long time that you might spend more time modding the game than playing it, especially if you’re new. And it’s hard to resist the urge to mass download a bunch of mods even knowing that one could be broken and crash the game then you have to figure out which one’s doing it because you downloaded like fifty. And also getting dyndolod set up.

Anyway you should totally get it. Or the sims for similar reasons.

[tboyrory]

And also there’s no better joy than being ADHD and forgetting all of the mods you’ve downloaded, finding something you know isn’t there in base game, and wondering where the fuck that came from? Like I have Puss in Boots in my game. Who added him there? Which mod in my collection did this? No clue but I absolutely love it. Same when I turned the courier into a goat and forgot about it until I had a letter.

[tboyrory]

You should all give Todd Howard your money and get Skyrim because it’s 75% off on Steam rn, but also you can turn it into a customized experience because there’s thousands of mods, you’re basically purchasing one game, which you can completely remake it into whole other games for free. And Enderal. You should play Enderal.

Although modding, even just curating a mod list and getting everything set up can take a very long time that you might spend more time modding the game than playing it, especially if you’re new. And it’s hard to resist the urge to mass download a bunch of mods even knowing that one could be broken and crash the game then you have to figure out which one’s doing it because you downloaded like fifty. And also getting dyndolod set up.

Anyway you should totally get it. Or the sims for similar reasons.

[thalmor-official]

*farts cutely*

[scramratz]

Thank you for sharing that comic. I think it healed me a little.

Love,

A fellow Missouri transmasc

We need to start a Missouri Transmasc support group

[tboyrory]

My grandpa met a young trans guy working at Pizza Hut, and he started talking about me. He apparently told the worker that I had no friends here 😭 (true tho), and asked if he could bring me to the Pizza Hut. The guy said that was fine with him. So grandpa did take me to Pizza Hut, and he was like, “yeah your grandpa says you have no friends,” and we laughed about it and exchanged numbers

[courtkossai]

[tboyrory]

My dad was asking why I was trans, and he goes, “Was it Skyrim? Did I let you play Skyrim too young? Was that it?”

[tboyrory]

She said “That’s fine dude, I’m not mad at you”

And then he shot her in the face point blank three times and called her a fucking bitch after. Renee Nicole Good’s last words before being shot. I have nothing else to say other than those were her last words.

[tboyrory]

I usually don’t post about big events but I haven’t seen anyone post this yet. This is the piece of shit ICE agent that shot and killed a woman trying to get away from him. Nothing has been publicly revealed about the woman other than she’s described as middle aged and white. No name or photos given.

Don’t let them think that just because they put on a mask they’re safe from public scrutiny

[mikucrossing]

More information has been gathered from her family; she was a lesbian mother of three going to university. She was poet and musician, and she was denied medical assistance at the scene even from a pedestrian physician who rushed to her aid and was held back by the heavily armed ICE agents as she bled out and they held paramedics back further down the road.

Her name is RENEE NICOLE GOOD

[st-dionysus]

I urge people to donate to Dem Bois, a non profit organization that provides trans masculine and trans men of color grants for transition related surgeries as well as care packages.

During the height of covid when I was unemployed and homeless, Dem Bois provided me with a care package that, more than anything, gave me hope to keep living and a reminder that my community exists and is one of perseverance and survival.

[tboyrory]

I usually don’t post about big events but I haven’t seen anyone post this yet. This is the piece of shit ICE agent that shot and killed a woman trying to get away from him. Nothing has been publicly revealed about the woman other than she’s described as middle aged and white. No name or photos given.

Don’t let them think that just because they put on a mask they’re safe from public scrutiny

[lizzylolz]

her name is renee good.