Just returning briefly to say goodbye...
So it’s the eve of the smutapocalypse.. the dawn of filthagedon... the night before a million perverts call out in despair only to be silenced. The end of ‘Adult’ Tumblr.
Other, better, people than I have written and hopefully will continue to write about what a sad, destructive, and limiting thing this is. But I just wanted to briefly mourn the loss of the community we had on here - and salute one last time the fellow explorers of sexuality, the boundary pushers, the transgressors, and the loving, open, kind, curious people that came this way.
I haven’t posted on this blog in years, but there were a couple of years where I really put some time in... and find a modicum of renown in a small but beautifully twisted domain of the internet. Through this blog I found lovers and friends had experiences I had only previously dreamed of, shared thoughts and ideas, hopefully helped a few people think a little more clearly about their sexuality and desires, and learned a huge amount from other people sharing their own experiences, thoughts and feelings.
It was, in a word, awesome. As well as fascinating, exciting, warm, loving, educational, stimulating and deeply, deeply sexy.
Things have moved on in the years since... I’m still very happily with my Scarlet girl, and whilst we’ve left London behind for a rural idle, and whilst we’re not quite so actively perverted, we are deeply happy together. Life is good - don’t ever let anyone tell you that poly is a death of a relationship, or that a desire for crazy, depraved, sex with delightful people is an indication of bad mental health or lack of personal growth. We’re as happy together as any couple of which I can think, and living good lives.
So one last time - thank you all for posting here, sharing your thoughts, ideas, fantasies, perversions and desires. Thank you for getting in touch and saying hello - you were lovely (and, you know, if you happen to come across this and want to say hello again I’m sure I’d be delighted to hear from you - I’m still at [email protected]). Thank you for the wonderful, brave, and talented sex workers who have created the material I’ve been so stimulated, inspired and energised by over the years. Thank you for being a community of smart, open-minded, stimulating and loving people.
Things change, communities come and go, but I hope someday once again to find somewhere that brings as much stimulation, friendship, worth, and depraved, despicable, degrading fucking as this place.
Take care lovely people - find someone you trust and do the dirtiest thing your heart desires. You’ll feel so much better for it.












