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[pine-needle-scuffle]

this above literally all else, ok?

[byjove]

Talking to my nervous traumatized skittish kitten, saying things like “See? Humans aren’t so bad.” “You don’t have to hide.” “The world isn’t so scary.” with the ultimate irony being that I’m an agoraphobe who leaves the house two times a month max.

[byjove]

I’m laying in my nice warm bed where I feel safe and she’s laying in her nice warm cat cave on my bed where she feels safe.

[byjove]

[fairykukla]

*very softly* hello little one...

[byjove]

hiiiiiii

[byjove]

oh you probably weren’t talking to me

[rosedominatesyou-deactivated202]

You say she’s a temple and her body is beautiful like a greek goddess but then get grossed out by her hairy bush. You think goddesses in temples had time to shave their pussy? Get real.

[jinlian]

it’s okay to have clumsy and awkward sex and it’s actually really common

the ability to laugh while you’re lying tangled and naked together bc you realize just how silly something is is really really intimate and trusting, and it’s the best feeling to be like that with someone and to be relaxed

it happens with long-term partners, it happens on hookups, and it’s rarely as bad as it’s always made out to be, except we usually think it’s bad we're told that’s not how sex is supposed to go. but that’s not true. 

it can still be passionate and intimate while being messy and clumsy, absolutely. you don’t need to “perform well.” sex isn’t a show: it’s about feeling good. sometimes it takes experimenting to figure out what feels good, and fumbles and awkward moments and laughter is all just part of it. sometimes that’s a huge part of the fun.

[dominant-dominion]

Sleepy girls need to be creampied then tucked into bed.

[disgustinggf]

[disgustinggf]

having a voice kink is kinda embarrassing like why am i wet after he says absolutely anything

[even-more-daydreams]

[xxxhoekage]

💄 links

[tarotdaddy3-deactivated20230913]

Foreplay isn't "let me get you wet enough to stick it in you", it's "let me get you so worked up and horny you're practically begging me to stick it in". Big. Big. Difference.

[mrhypnob]

True

[tornandwretched-deactivated2024]

when youre spooning and they turn around so they're facing you as they bury their head in your chest >>>>>>>>>

[angel-in-your-basement]

Oh my god it’s so cute when subs are needy. All the texts, all the cute little emojis, the attitude and pouting and prodding at you. Like yes? Do you need attention? Need me to come over and use you until you forget how to speak full sentences? Dumb little toys need a lot of attention, you know, and I am so happy to provide it.

[the-black-manor]

When you find just the right speed and angle, and all they can manage is a little “uh- uh- uh-“ with each thrust.

What’s the matter, pet? Have I fucked all the words out of your head?

[subbygothkittytransgf]

Please fuck the words out of me~

[blxxdyivory-deactivated20230926]

Free use stress relief fucktoy gf 🤝 Hypersexual stressed out bf with no other outlet

[deviousdaydreams]

Free use stress relief fucktoy bf 🤝 Hypersexual stressed out gf with no other outlet

[lustrousbratz]

[lovemysub-deactivated20250527]

Been reading ur blog. U need to stop calling urself a dom. All this lovey crap makes real doms sick. A sub is not for respecting and loving. A sub is for using and thats what they like. Its fine that u love ur girl, just dont call urself a dom. Real doms show dominance, use there sub and leave her laying like the cunt slut she is. Bein all sweet, and all that does is give her power over u, which makes u not a dom.

Hi there, Anon. I almost didn’t even dignify this with a response, but I think you’ve actually given me a good opportunity to say something that new doms need to know, so kudos to you. 

First and foremost, let’s establish something right here and now: You don’t get to tell me what I am, and you are damn sure not the leading authority on what does and does not constitute a dominant. For the record, I didn’t wake up one day and decide to be a dom. I never even thought of myself that way until I met belovedsangi 10 years ago. I always had the characteristics of a dom, sure, but I didn’t ever put that title on myself. That title was given to me by my submissive. SHE is the one who wanted to call me Master, and Sir, and sometimes Daddy. I never told her to do these things. But of course, you probably think I am making your point for you and that if I were a REAL domly dom, I would’ve demanded those things. 

And that’s where you have a fundamental issue understanding the meaning of the title. So let me help you with that. 

A dom does not demand respect. He conducts himself in such a way as to be worthy of respect. 

A dom does not bark commands. His presence is such that he can seduce and command with nothing more than a glance. 

A dom does not raise his voice. He is the kind of man who gets what he wants without needing to. 

A dom is not a braggart. He is possessed of a calm, quiet confidence that is evident in his demeanor, the way he walks, the tone of his voice, and all other aspects of him. 

A dom understands balance. He knows that while a firm hand and discipline are critical in this type of relationship, knowing when to be gentle and understanding is every bit as important. 

A dom is a gentleman first and foremost. That doesn’t necessarily mean that he is a fancy man who values the finer things in life, but he does understand manners and protocol. He opens the car door for her. He orders for her if she is having trouble deciding. He treats strangers with courtesy and respect. 

A dom is a protector. He makes sure that his submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This means so much more than just telling her you will protect her. A dom shows her. He keeps a hand on her shoulder or on her waist in crowds so she doesn’t get nervous. He sleeps on the side of the bed closest to the door so that he is always between his submissive and an intruder. He walks on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street so that an errant vehicle will hit him before his submissive. If anything or anyone should threaten his submissive, he must be prepared to fight for her with the ferocity of an alpha wolf. 

A dom earns her submission. It is not a thing to be demanded, expected, or assumed. And he continues to earn it, each and every day.  

A dom values her submission. Fully submitting your will and trusting your body and well-being to someone takes a kind of strength most can’t imagine, and a dom never loses sight of that. 

A dom understands that being a dominant is 10% privilege and 90% responsibility. He is literally taking her life into his hands. He is accepting the most sacred and important thing she has to give. He is taking her burdens and bearing them as his own, always, every day. 

A dom is consistent. He understands that he can’t just be her protector, lover, confidant, master, etc. when he feels like it. There will be days when a dom is tired. There will be days when he is stressed. There will be days when he is broken. On those days, it is more important than ever for a dom to show his submissive that he is still everything she needs him to be. 

So what does it mean, then, to be a dom? I get the feeling that you, anon, would say that it’s all about making her kneel, having your way with her, shouting orders and using her. Helpful hint: Any jackass can buy himself a whip and bark commands. That’s not a dom. Don’t get me wrong, I do absolutely have my way with belovedsangi. I love it when she kneels. I love the kinky, rough, mind-blowing sex we have. I love to dominate her in the bedroom. But for every moment of that, there are a hundred moments of holding her, of talking to her, laughing with her, gaming with her. There are a hundred moments of making her feel safe when she is afraid, giving her confidence when she is unsure, comforting her when she feels troubled. Those are all things that a dominant does too. 

I love my submissive more than I love oxygen. I love my submissive with a fire that can never be extinguished. I value her and respect her in every way. I treat her like a queen and fuck her like a slave. These things don’t make me weak. They don’t make me less of a dominant. These things make me stronger than you can possibly imagine. There is nothing quite so formidable as a dominant who has found the perfect submissive to fuel his fire. Never will you see anyone love so strongly or fight so fiercely. 

Bottom line, Anon, is this: you sound like a boy playing at being a man. You decided one day that you were sick of women having willpower and a voice of their own, so you decided to call yourself a dominant and seek out some weak-willed submissive who wouldn’t talk back to you or stick up for herself. You are not a dom. You are a jackass with a whip. Classic case of toodomforyou.

-LMS

[siiiir]

This might be heresy, but…

I think this post is, in many ways, kinda bullshit? Like, to be clear, Anon sounds like just another misogynistic abuser, I’m not here to defend him.

On the other hand, though, this extreme glorification and hagiography isn’t actually useful, and is in its own way as much of a mischaracterization of being a Dom.

For one, what about Doms who aren’t in 24/7 relationships? What about Doms who like to have kinky sex on weekends with subs who trust them, but are not otherwise Doms in their day-to-day life? I don’t think you’re any less of a Dom if you engage with BDSM through scenes and clubs than if you’re in a long-term TPE relationship. And clearly such a Dom isn’t necessarily a protector or a gentleman or whatever, at least in the sense given here.

For another, the post consistently paints a picture of Doms as someone without weakness or vulnerability or human feelings, as well as someone with a near-mythical force of personality, and like… that doesn’t actually describe anyone, and it sets a bad standard both for new Doms and for subs looking for Doms.

Concider “A dom does not bark commands. His presence is such that he can seduce and command with nothing more than a glance.”

Like, sure, there’s a good point here that someone who is constantly shouting commands isn’t a great Dom, but I being a good Dom does not actually require some sort of mythical charisma. Sure, I can, and do, command my sub with ‘nothing more than a glance,’ but i seduced her with extremely bad puns, listening to her issues, and rambling about Exalted. And, to be clear, i could not (and would not want to) command anyone else with but a glance; that sort of communication says nothing about my level of “real Domness,” it says something about our shared relationship.

We shouldn’t be telling new Doms that you need mythical levels of charisma or new subs to look for someone who always acts confident and commanding; we should be teaching them how to build safe and mutually supportive relationships that allows those interactions.

Even more egregious is the point about Doms always being confident and constant, no matter how tired, stessed, or “broken” (whatever that means) he is.

This is a monstrous thing to expect of anyone.

If i made a post talking about how real subs always submit completely no matter their mental health or their circumstances, i would be rightfully dragged through the mud. No one should be expected to always be the support for someone else no matter what, that’s not a healthy expectation to put on yourself or your partner. In any other context, this would be an obvious example of toxic masculinity; why should we glorify it as 'real Domness’ in this context?

Again - should we be telling new subs to only look for Doms who never admit weakness, who refuse to be vulnerable with them, who never accept help or support? Should we be telling new Doms that they can never admit any kind of weakness, that taking breaks or being vulnerable and needing support makes them lesser, fake Doms?

Concider the opposite post from this one; insisting that subs are always perfect servants, never let their mental health get in the way of submission, must be a perfect lady, always perfectly respectful, etc. It would be obvious claptrap, and so is this.

Or, concider this post but with litterally any other word than Dom. Imagine a post going on about how Real Alphas or Men or Gentlemen or whatever are always perfectly confident, always supportive no matter their situation etc. It would read more like an Incel screed.

Now, I don’t think OP or the 70k people in the notes are incels or whatever; i think there’s a lot of unexamined points about masculinity made in this post in a way that’s really not healthy for our community.

Being a Dom isn’t about perfect consistency and holding doors or unshakable confidence or never showing weakness. It’s about building trust with another person and finding the balance that fits you two (or three or however many) and your relationship. It’s about someone trusting you with power and building the skills and experience to wield that power to both of your benefit, whether it’s complete power for a lifetime, or power over a sub’s body for a few hours or a day.

[spit-guts]