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everyone hates us but we try to be glad to be alive 🩵🪽 mental health and oshikatsu blog memory absolutely shit srry

[tenshi-sys]

just an acc for if our bsky handle is down hi we arent a bot

20yrs it/its pronouns, monsterkin, menhera plural mfs, yada yada you may know the whole deal if you follow our main or bsky already

this is also a blog for our oshi (Flo from wtsl) so expect to see us floposting every minute or so also mental health blog. we dont romanticize anything we are just really disabled okay bye

shifters dni or at the very least tag your posts, tho we dont have anything against yall /g

tags: #tenshi speaks is for our own og posts #flora tag is the tag for our oshi #our art is our art ofc #sona tag is for this guy

stamps made here

[rowan-e-ravenwood]

new top contender

[aromanticduck]

[Image description: a gender selection screen where the options are 'female', 'male' and 'let me be free'

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[mollybeenoel]

jumping spiders and their babies

[tenshi-sys]

@the-altering-man

[pluralpolls]

???

[plurality-venting]

this is just a general vent but, as a collective that sees our headmates as people, we certainly dont feel like people most of the time asides from some frequent fronters. its weird and we dont like that

i wish our brain would allow for more personhood for ourselves but we are always caught in always discovering our own personalities and never having room to feel like people, at least for a couple months. which is annoying considering how many of us wants to contribute to our relationships at large

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[the-altering-man]

"Oh but you like those frilly girly things" 1. It's a new thing I decided to be interested in for the sake of my creativity 2. If circumstances allowed me, I'd be a drag queen. Now shut you ass up and stop forcefully feminizing a muscular hairy man who's content with his expression and identity. And no, I wouldn't shave my beard or body hair for my crossdressing. I know enough guys who rock the look bc again such traits aren't exclusive to a certain type of people. Ngl we should learn to perceive sex traits as a neutral thing.

[kylesaladus]

[quastions-i-dont-ask-on-main]

Hello, Tumblr user. Here's a non-binary character who uses they/them. Their ASAB isn't relevant at all for the story and everyone regardless of relationship uses they/them for them and they're trans. Your challenge will be to not try to sniff out their ASAB. Go---- oh you're already telling other people who don't agree with you they're wrong and bigoted for hcing it different from you. Okay.

[kira-kui-n]

"get him pregnant" well thats not my thing but to each their own

"get her pregnant" *takes up my sword and shield* i wont let you do that to her. ......................

[sodomit]

Why are you more protective of a hypothetical cis woman than a hypothetical trans man?

[hyperlexichypatia]

Or assuming that either needs your protection?

[sodomit]

Coming back to this, I decided to browse tags, and, well...

Over 50% of trans men and nonbinary people assigned female have experienced sexual assault.

Trans people in the USA are about 3 times more likely than cis women to struggle accessing abortion related healthcare following abortion bans.

Trans and intersex people are at least twice as likely to attempt a self managed abortion than cis women.

And, I don't have a link at hand, but pregnancy has been used as a tool of forced detransition.

Y'all shut the fuck up.

[andromeda-spaceship]

if there were glasses with apple shaped lenses, would they be called aplspec-tacles?

[azuremist]

Please contact Fangamer to un-whitewash Blue

(This post is intended to spread awareness of both the situation, and the action plan originally proposed by VHSTAPE on the Deltarune forums.)

There is currently a "Flower Café" T-shirt for sale on Fangamer right now. It was announced via this Bluesky post! The problem? Well, you read the title.

(Comparison graphic by VHSTAPE)

Blue is much lighter than he should be – roughly the same skintone as Aqua. Yes, the shirt is intended to be pastel, but, as I hope we all know, a pastel color palette is no excuse to whitewash. (If you are unfamiliar with how to draw Black people in a pastel palette, VHSTAPE and I both recommend this post by @creatingblackcharacters, which is a fantastic resource for intentionally creating Black characters.)

The goal is to make it so Blue's skintone will be changed in later releases of this shirt.

The method will be commenting on the Bluesky post (linked above) and emailing Fangamer ([email protected]), asking them to properly represent Black fans. We should be polite, but nonetheless request that this be changed, and emphasize its importance.

Here is an e-mail template, provided by VHSTAPE:

"[TO] [email protected] [SUBJECT] "Flower Cafe" T-Shirt Blue Whitewashing Hello, I am a fan of DELTARUNE and the Fangamer merchandise line. I notice that in the newly-released "Flower Cafe" shirt, Blue is whitewashed. His color on the t-shirt is significantly lighter than his in-game skin tone. I would like to suggest that for future releases of this shirt that his skin tone be darkened to match the lower luminance of his sprite. If this looks uncanny, I'm sure the artist could figure out a more appealing color palette that does not whitewash the only canonically Black character in the game.

Thank you for your consideration, [YOUR NAME]"

I recommend that you change up what is written a bit, and make it more personal to you, if you have the energy/free time to. Add in personal anecdotes and so on. This will make each e-mail seem more personal, and, thus, more convincing, and it'll be less likely to be considered spam. (If you do not have that energy, though, sending just the template as written is already fantastic!)

I hope we can get this fixed!

[tenshi-sys]

why the fuck is Blue whitewashed on the fangamer shirt. what. what

and the fact they're already sold out????

[comikbook]

me coming on tumblr dot com telling people to send me asks

[its-a-hil]

[ID: A screenshot from an instagram post, which consists of the text "is anyone curious about me. like does anybody wanna figure me out lmk" overlaid on a picture of a chocolate cake. End ID]

[nullandsuch]

A little tired of having to make my own representation for everything lol

[neverending-symphonia]

if i see another person basically go "but what if this character who is explicitly neutral nonbinary is actually just a binary trans egg because nonbinary people arent REALLY as trans as binary trans people im so woke actually" i will start killing people

[crowtalks]

[miscellaneous-snark]

I am a fully diagnosed DID system - I used to be anti-endo until a number of months ago when I had a startling realisation that made me reconsider everything:

Restricting the definition of who a label/concept can be applied to falls under the same philosophy that the systems that oppress the disabled fall under.

That is to say - restricting access so that imagined invaders and "appropriators" won't get in.

The endo "invaders" are not oppressors in any fashion. Hating them because our oppressors "won't take us seriously because of them" is joining the war on the side of the oppressors. It's only fighting ableism until the oppressors call out a target that's easy enough to punch down on.

We, as a community, can be better, more compassionate than that. Is this truly what being "radical" is? Stop punching down. For your own sake, too. Is this really the "good fight" you want to win? To remove all the "weirdos who don't belong?"

To my friends who still feel hurt, I understand. But the people you are fighting do not want to hurt you. They just want to understand their own individual human experience. If they are angry at us, they are not in the wrong. You know that rage, too, at being told that what you are is not real, or is impossible to take seriously.

You have been taught to value an idea of a "real" experience based in science. But that science is so limited. The DSM-5 is not a bible, it is written with the intent of treating us, making us more palatable, "worth our place in society". It is not something we should be thumping to ward off "impure" things. We do not need purity. We do not need sanctity. We need safety and community, so we need to build it.

If we view endos, willos, or any type of system as a pest, we will choke ourselves with pesticide to eradicate them. This is not kindness. This is not acceptance. It is cruelty.

Do not give in to the desire to punch down. It will kill you.

[an-art-kid]

Thank you SpongeBob I needed this

I’ve been collecting these types of images with SpongeBob and hopeful messages and I feel he would 100% say this