Your friendly italian switch

formerly @thefeatherguy, blog got deleted. 27 m switch. Sfw shitposting blog is @full-metal-arsonist

[th3featherguy]

Hi everyone, just figured I'd make a pinned post to group up some tags and write the usual stuff.

You can call me L, I'm a 25 year old switch from Italy.

Kinks: Tickling, orgasm denial, edging , ruined orgasms, praising, gentle but merciless domming, hypnosis

DNI: Minors, racists, homophobes, you know the usuals. Everyone else feel free to drop an ask or a dm

I'm just starting to rebuild my blog, but you'll be able to find some of my stuff under #my writing and eventually, once I get off my ass to record some stuff, under #my audio. I'm taking requests btw! Can't promise I'll answer fast but I'll try my best!

[goldrushtouch]

Wanna praise a pretty girl so much I give her a god complex

[tklking21]

[saintmelangell]

do you ache? have you ached? will you ache? when will you ache?

[binoculers21-deactivated2025052]

[positronic-princess]

never kill yourself instead try edging for 12 hours straight

[ringofkees]

Conditioning someone to automatically ruin when they try to cum on their own so they'll learn to depend on you for the release they crave.

[pentila]

I'd love to be given control over a denial pet over a period of time while their owner is away. Being intrusted with making sure they stay nice and needy.

We'd make sure to video chat every evening so they can see each other. The pet sitting in front of the laptop while I'm between their legs making sure they are nice and edged before bed. The top of my head poping into frame every now and then as the two of them talk.

After the call ends they aren't allowed to touch themselves anymore, if they want another edge they have to come to me to make sure they don't go over after a whole day of edging.

In the morning they are woken up by my face between their thighs, licking and sucking but making sure to keep them just below the edge. "Good morning. It's your last day with me today. I got instructions to keep you needy and desparate for when your owner arrives." I smirk before continuing to fog up their half awake brain.

The rest of the time is spent with them packing up while I come in every now and then to tease them. Having them sit on the edge of the bed while I work them up to just below the edge, leaving them there for a while before getting up and letting them continue.

Once their owner arrives they are only half done with packing, laying on the bed panting with their legs wide apart trying to cool off enough to continue.

[pentila]

Wouldn't it be nice for a dom and a sub to edge together? Both just losing themselves in the pleasure while using the other as porn.

Eventually watching won't be enough, and they start touching, taking over where the other left off. Edging each other into an even more desperate state.

[femsubdenial]

could you please explain how the safeword traffic system works?? i really cant wrap my head around it

Sure.

Red means stop. No more negotiation, something has crossed a line (too painful, something bad that wasn’t negotiated, etc.)

Yellow means that you need a break or that something is too much, or that if the top continues then you’re going to “red” soon.

Green means that things are going well and you want to continue if not ramp it up a little.

While a bottom might blurt out red or yellow, I’ve never seen a bottom volunteer “green”. It’s usually said in answer to when a top is checking in to make sure everything is okay. Asking “How are you?” and getting an answer of “fine” or “okay” might mean the bottom is just on autopilot and reflexively answering. Asking “What’s your color?” and getting “green” or “I was very close to yellow when you stopped” is much better.

One of my favorite doms to watch at parties was doing a pre-scene negotiation with someone he hadn’t played with before and said something like “Now, just between you and me here ;-) , my favorite color is yellow. It’s not about taking anything I can dish out. I promise you, I can always go harder. I want to know how you’re doing. I’ll likely yellow you, on purpose, a few times, just to find out where your limits are and then aim for a little below that. I don’t want to hear ‘green green green, green green red’ because then the scene’s over. I want some indication of how you’re doing and when you’re getting close to what you can handle, okay?”

And then, whenever she yellowed, he praised her. And why wouldn’t he?? She gave him vital information that allowed the both of them to have more fun!

[drkdreams]

Recently I have heard some discussions on also adding BLUE to this system for medical issues. It would function like RED but also in one word alert your partner you are having a medical issue, e.g. asthma attack, body cramps, low blood sugar, dizziness or some other sysmtom that is a problem for you. If you have already discussed medical issue with you partner, which you should do, blue might key them into something they can respond to with that knowledge to help rather than red and having to explain further.

Example: if I have asthma and communicate with my partner that it’s been bothing me recently and here is where my inhaler will be during a scene and I start having breathing issues and can’t stop coughing or catch my breathe to make out long or multiple words, I can say blue and they would know to get my inhaler. Or they would know to ask medical related questions in relation to stopping rather than thinking they pushed too hard.

[wakewithgiggli]

I hadnt heard of the BLUE addition, but that’s great. Thanks for spreading the word about it.

[misssmeat-deactivated20251019]

Your denial corruption kink is so frigging hot man 😅😬

I do love corrupting sweet, innocent submissives. Absolutely guilty as charged.

[glitch--daddy]

I hope I'm the mutual that makes you horny

[hocuschlocus-deactivated2025091]

hiiiiiiiii (with the intention to find every spot on you that makes your mind blank so hard you forget your own name)

[yourticklishmasochist]

[joeyridersgutter]

A sadist that’s been desperately holding back all their urges, and finally has a precious masochist at their feet, willingly, eagerly taking their hits, their frustration, their rage. And it feels so good, it’s such a relief, it’s everything they’ve been needing, the sadist is just breathlessly thanking their new toy with every hit…. thank you, thank you, thank you, god you’re so good for me, god thank you, thank you so much, you’re perfect like this, thank you baby, thank you…

[sunshineler]

give a man an inch and he’ll take the strap or however the saying goes

[ringofkees]

Delivering forced ruins in lieu of forced orgasms because you have their best interest at heart. 💖