[disgustinggf]

sending them nudes while they're busy is so fun like yes i wanna make u horny at the most inappropriate times

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Some steps need to be taken alone. It’s the only way to really figure out where you need to go and who you need to be.”

— Mandy Hale

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Perhaps most of all, though, you deserve to be okay. You deserve to know that a day in which you can just barely get out of bed because you are sad, or sick, or simply not ready to see the outside is not the end of the world. You deserve to know that moments of weakness do not make you fundamentally weak, only fundamentally human, and that sometimes we’re not going to be effusively happy, and that is okay.”

— Chelsea Fagan

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“You are not just here to fill space or be a background character in someone else’s movie. Consider this: nothing would be the same if you did not exist. Every place you have ever been and everyone you have ever spoken to would be different without you. We are all connected, and we are all affected by the decisions and even the existence of those around us.”

— David Niven

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Help with Learning to Love Yourself

1. Treat other people with kindness and respect. Choosing to bring joy to other people’s lives will increase your happiness and self respect. Also, often when we treat other people well, they start to treat us in the same way, too.

2. Learn to let go of what happened in the past. You deserve a new start and a fresh beginning. We’ve all messed up and experienced bad things. So don’t allow these memories to rob you of your future. You’re not just a product and a victim of your past. Acknowledge and work through any negative emotions – then put them behind you and start to live again.

3. Work on forgiving yourself. Related to point 2, don’t punish yourself for past failings and regrets. Instead, see them as a lesson, and a chance to learn and grow. Don’t ridicule, demean or devalue yourself. That was then – this is now … You are different. So move on.

4. Keep a journal where you write your thoughts and feelings. When you’re feeling positive, try to savour those emotions and a build a memory trace of all that’s good and positive. When you’re feeling negative, try to show some self-compassion, and seek to be gentle and kind to yourself. You need to work on validating and affirming yourself – not treating yourself like your worst enemy.

5. Be persistent as you work on accepting yourself. A key part of love is unconditional acceptance. So work on loving who you are right now. Only then will you be able to work on changing – because you’re able to accept who you are at the core.

6. Trust yourself. You’re not here to please others. Learn to trust your intuition. You can trust you own judgments as you know what’s best for you.

7. Practice saying ‘no’. It’s okay to say ‘no’ without feeling guilty. You have the right to decide what you will do with your life.

8. Practice receiving and accepting love from others. Know you’re worthy of love – and other people really mean it when they tell you that you matter, and they love and care for you.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Attitudes and Mindsets that can Change your Life

1. Knowing deep inside that you are good enough.

2. Believing you can do it, and believing you can make it.

3. Choosing to be grateful when you just feel like complaining.

4. Choosing to hang in there when you feel you’ve had enough.

5. Knowingthat each new day is a gift, and new beginning.

6. Respecting other people, and treating others well.

7. Investing in people instead of chasing things.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“She dressed herself in confidence everyday and refused to wear anybody else’s insecurities.”

— a.j.lawless

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

7 Ingredients for a Happy Life

1. Decide to let go of worry and “what ifs”

2. Work on developing your self-confidence

3. Forgive yourself, and others, and let go of grievances

4. Be open and warm in your relationships

5. Don’t compare yourself with other people

6. Define own success

7. Be optimistic, and keep on persevering.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“The one who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The one who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no-one else has ever been.”

— Albert Einstein

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Every night her thoughts weighed heavily on her soul, but every morning she would get up to fight another day. Every night she survived.”

— r.h.sin

[thepowerwithin]

Do not be afraid to love again. Don’t let the wrong doings of someone in your past hold you back from the beauty of tomorrow.

Nicole Addison

[thepowerwithin]

“Work on becoming the very best version of yourself. Not just for one day. Not just for every other day, but during each and every second of this beautiful life that you’re living.”

— Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

[thepowerwithin]

“Your physical size does not matter. What really matters is the size of your love, courage, and the fire in your soul.”

— Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

[thepowerwithin]

“One can still travel without having an end destination. One can still enjoy the journey without knowing where exactly it will take them.”

— Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

[thepowerwithin]

“Refuse to leave life just as it is. Truly. Don’t settle for anything less than your wildest dreams.”

— Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

[thepowerwithin]

Do not sit and wait for life to come to you. Get out there. Breathe in the sun. Touch the sky. Immerse yourself in the things that you love. Feel the warmth that today brings.

Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

[thepowerwithin]

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