This is a fantasy my husband had from growing up. He found his parents Joy of Sex book and this fantasy in particular was strong for him. We did it once, about 10 years ago, and it was really fun. Today, I was reflecting on it for some reason, and realizing how close it is to the practice of chastity wives tying their men up and unlocking them, teasing them, and putting the back in chastity after without an orgasm. The Slow Masturbation section below is far more generous, but it doesn't have to be. I found he could go a lot longer than 10 minutes.
And now I do this same exact thing, except I just keep him in the cage and use his nipples as the torture device. I've gone over an hour till he was truly desperate, then finished off by making him watch me masturbate, and then blissfully gone to sleep with him throbbing in his cage spooning me.
I'm not sure there is much better than that. But here is Slow Masturbation, from the revised edition of Joy of Sex.
Slow masturbation for him the most mind-blowing sensation of which males are capable. To make this work, you need to know how to tie your partner (see rope work) and to have a partner who likes struggling against resistance, but it works for a great many people. Traditionally, the woman does it to the man, but it plays in either direction. You need good access and a completely helpless partner, though you can try it without if bondage turns you off , but the result is quite different and you can’t get so far. The knack lies in playing on your partner like an instrument, alternately pushing them forward and frustrating them (compare relaxation). The woman starts by tying the man to her satisfaction, either staked out, or wrists behind and ankles crossed, knees open, naked, and on his back. She then “signs her name” (le coup de cassolette). To do this, she kneels astride him, facing him, and performs a tasteful striptease as far as her panties. Next, holding his hair in her hand, she rubs her armpit and breasts over his mouth, giving him her body perfume. Then she locks her legs carefully around his neck and presses her covered pussy on his mouth. Finally, she strips off her panties and gives him the direct genital kiss (brushing, then open, taking her time over it). She pulls his foreskin well back, if he has one, and stands back for a few moments to let him get excited. If she knows her job, he will be unable to move, while the kiss ensures that he won’t lose the feel of her. Coming back she does the same all over again, stiffens him by hand and mouth if necessary, and starts in real earnest. She has two focal points to attend to, his mouth and his penis, and the knack, during this warmup period, consists in keeping both occupied continuously and without triggering ejaculation.
The possibilities are obvious – hand to each; hand to one, mouth or pussy to the other; varied by a touch of her breasts, her armpit, or even her hair. Between the two poles she will work over his most sensitive areas with her fingertips (see pattes d’araignée), her tongue, and her pussy – this last with one hand on his penis and other palm over his mouth, never letting the rhythm slacken. If his erection begins to go down, she stops, tightens him up (the moment for thumb-tying if she is strong enough to turn him easily– see rope work), then re-stiffens him. She can now begin slow masturbation proper. This is about the most mind blowing (and, while it lasts, frustrating) sexual sensation of which most males are capable. (If you still want to know why we say start by tying your lover, try it for a few moments with an unbound partner.) She sits well up on his chest, with her buttocks to his chin, and puts each of her ankles inside the crook of one of his knees, or sits with her knees bent and her calves tucked under his arms. She should hold the root of his penis with one hand and with the other pull the skin back as far as it will go with finger and thumb, thumb towards her. Then she starts quick, sharp, nervous strokes – each one quick, that is, but timed at one per second, no faster. After about twenty of these, about ten very quick strokes. Then she resumes the slow rhythm. And so on. If she thinks he is about to ejaculate (you can sense this with practice), she should drop the speed and keep this up as long as she thinks he can stand it. The excitement is his, but is less one sided than it sounds; the male response is enough to turn most women on, and she can press her open pussy hard on his breastbone for her own pleasure, though she shouldn’t let her attention wander. Ten minutes is as much as most males can stand. If he goes limp, she should put him out of his misery, either by quickly masturbating him to climax, using her mouth, or turning and riding him. When he does come, she needs to get him untied as quickly as possible – delay after orgasm will leave him as stiff as if he had played a hard ball game.
This is the Japanese-massage especial-treatment routine – the only bar is if she is heavy. The Japanese are artists at making their knots, like their dishes, look really nice, and Japanese masseuses are small enough to sit on a man’s chest without killing him. If she is large, she can try tying his legs apart and taking the weight on her knees, with her pussy on his mouth: in the story of Brunnhilde, she tied up King Gunther on his wedding night, probably for a similar routine here we have given the version for smaller women. One unexpected trick is for the woman to tell her partner she is going to give him the time of his life, tie him, and then, when she has made sure he can’t get loose or make a sound, make him watch while she masturbates to orgasm. This is more exciting for both of them than it sounds. He, if he is already excited and expecting something else, will go berserk, and his useless struggles will turn her on. Afterwards she can make it up to him – slowly.
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