pure of heart & dumb of ass; no gender, only love

they/them pls. call me Darren. not a minor if that matters to you. my ffxiv blog is @miqo-they.

[janmisali]

oh I know how to make a poll's results look like the letter E watch this

what is the rightmost digit of the number of responses this poll has right now? (it should be visible before you vote.)

0, 1, or 2

3

4 or 5

6

7, 8, or 9

Voting ended on13h

[wuntrum]

utility pole paintings for april / may / june !

[the-bitch-mob]

Ok feeling weird, time to troubleshoot:

- did I eat and was it filling? yes ✅

- have I hydrated? yes ✅

- am I rested? yes ✅

- have I showered/groomed? yes ✅

- am I experiencing too many sounds/sensations? don't think so ✅

- am I experiencing too few sounds/sensations? jury is out, can't find any music that I like rn, clothing is comfortable tho and my skin isn't dry ⚠️

- is my environment cluttered or dirty? not beyond the normal threshold ✅

- body check in? my feet hurt from work, my legs are a little sore from working out, my stomach is a little upset, my chest is fluttering, my arms feel a bit shaky ⚠️

Hypothesis: mild pain and body anxiety

Troubleshooting: take a painkiller and go for a short walk outside to the laundry room

[the-bitch-mob]

partial success! I've added "opening the windows" and "walking to the store for a bubbly beverage" to my treatment plan.

[batavias]

sometimes being a hater will make you feel like you're an intellectual and probably a secret genius because of how much other people around you are visibly not being a hater about the exact same things. maybe even later your haterism becomes justified and the tide of culture and conception shifts and you think see? see? I continuously outscale my peers in the brains department. but you have to understand that being a hater is often a deliriant. it makes you feel smart on occasion in the same way huffing glue may make you think you're god. there's a fine balance here we must all take into account

[cherryspliced]

Orin the RED

[the-bitch-mob]

Ok feeling weird, time to troubleshoot:

- did I eat and was it filling? yes ✅

- have I hydrated? yes ✅

- am I rested? yes ✅

- have I showered/groomed? yes ✅

- am I experiencing too many sounds/sensations? don't think so ✅

- am I experiencing too few sounds/sensations? jury is out, can't find any music that I like rn, clothing is comfortable tho and my skin isn't dry ⚠️

- is my environment cluttered or dirty? not beyond the normal threshold ✅

- body check in? my feet hurt from work, my legs are a little sore from working out, my stomach is a little upset, my chest is fluttering, my arms feel a bit shaky ⚠️

Hypothesis: mild pain and body anxiety

Troubleshooting: take a painkiller and go for a short walk outside to the laundry room

[brokenclockgears]

oop sorry just lemme scooch past ya sorry about that haha

[clementine-kesh]

not all character interpretations are valid some of you are sexist

[clementine-kesh]

not all character interpretations are valid some of you are racist

[mini-moss]

Peachy skies 🍑

Tip jar | Wallpapers | Prints | Twitter | Bluesky

[anasabdin]

Badab-e Surt

[the-bitch-mob]

Bro the specialty store for short guys doesn't even carry my boyfriend's size any more :/

Do any of you know where I can get some shorts with a 28' waist and a 5' inseam?

[drtrinitysantos]

coffeeshops used to give you a free drink for your birthday and now they just text you like "Hey bestie! Since you're a CoffeePoints™ rewards™ member, order yourself a birthday treat right now in our app™ and you will receive two (2) extra CoffeePoints™ with your purchase!! That's two points closer to a 1500 CoffeePoints™ reward™: your choice of one (1) disposable napkin*!!!"

*Exclusions apply. Offer is non-transferable and valid only at participating locations. Cannot be used toward plastic utensils or straws. Expires 20 minutes after qualifying purchase.

[brawltogethernow]

[tall]

[sound-overlord]

[busket]

wait, cis tumblr user!

before you reblog that seemingly innocuous transgender positivity or discourse post, here's some important things to look out for:

1. does this post uplift one marginalized group at the expense of another? specific positivity posts are great, like "protect black trans women" or "lets support intersex folks", but be sure that the post in question doesnt put down another group. examples: "trans women get all the love, so lets have some support for trans men for once" or "trans women are so strong for what they go through, trans men could never understand the struggle and dont experience even half of what trans women are put through" 🚨🚨DONT REBLOG IT!🚨🚨 find another post that doesnt have to put down another marginalized group or pit us against each other. remember, as a cis ally, its not your place to decide who does or doesnt deserve support, or to pick sides when misguided trans folks decide to play oppression olympics.

2. listen for dogwhistles! what seems like a harmless feminist post venting about cishet men can have hateful intentions towards marginalized people. terfs will often misgender trans women when they complain about them so it looks like theyre talking about predatory men, but theyre really meaning trans women. radfems/baeddels frequently omit the "trans" aspect of trans men to hide their anti-transmasculinity. if you have doubts, go to the OPs blog and search terms like "TIM" "TIF" "TRA" "TMRA" "radfem" "terf" "radical feminism" "theyfab" etc. you can also just search trans men/transmasc/trans woman/transfem and if you see anything negative, block and move along!

3. does the post operate under the binary for no good reason? does OP seem to forget that nonbinary and/or intersex people exist? does it use agab language when it seems to only be talking about trans men/women or cis men/women? does it use gendered euphemisms instead of specific and plain language, example: talking about periods and saying "women" "afab people" "females" instead of "people who menstruate". while it seems harmless, these small language quirks really build up in the psyche of trans folks and reminds us that people often are not willing to accommodate us. if your goal as an ally is to make us feel welcome and safe, being as direct and plain with your language is a good start

4. lastly, read the notes! watch out for "us vs them" language or advocating violence. even a common, unserious sentiment like "kill all men" that carries little weight in the cis world is a lot heavier in the trans community; cis men are rarely killed but trans men are murdered at high rates. watch out for malgendering, which is someone holding a trans persons gender identity against them, like "trans men really ARE men 🙄" or calling trans women hysterical bitches. remember that no demographic of trans person is "coddled" or supported by the status quo, we all live in a world that is increasingly hostile to us. if people agreeing with the post in question have this level of vitriol against other trans people, chances are its not actually a very friendly and positive post. again, as a cis ally, its not your place to involve yourself in community infighting.

with these simple tips, you can stop accidently spreading anti trans propaganda or harmful infighting that fractures trans unity and solidarity

[celestial-tadpole]

forget your zodiac tell me what you order at a bar and at a coffee shop

[rainbow-harvest]

Judgemental Gus lives over my sink and shames me into keeping my dishes clean