Lovers Love, Liars Lie

I'm a spoonie with Ehlers Danlos type 3 and a mom to a toddler just trying to figure it all out and keep my head above water.

[cockroachmotherfucker10]

Reblog to totally PERMIT CRAB your friends to enjoy good food today 🦀

[the-end-is-the-beginning]

Holy crap I'm sick of pretending I'm ok

Everyone around me is so broken and leaning on me cus I'm strong and I'm fine and all this and I'm not allowed to not be. Even my mom and dad need me to be the strong one right now.

Forget that my husband, grandma and best friend all want to end their lives or that I'm trying to finish my masters while being due with my third baby in 4 weeks. I'm fine cus I have to be. There's no other choice cus I cant lean on anyone cus no one could take it plus I'm functioning just fine so obviously I'm fine right

[queenofbraces]

Me: *makes a post about how much chronic illness sucks and it gets a bunch of notes*

Me: I made a relatable post this is great :)

Me: oh wait…. :(

[everybody-loves-to-eat]

coconut curry chicken

(source and recipe)

[blindbee]

[avodaco]

me when i get my student loan

[g8dtier]

this is the money cat. reblog in 30 seconds and you will find yourself with more wealth

[strikercorbie]

#this is the only money cat i will reblog because it’s actually doing the manekineko pose151,646 notes (via lolwhutninja)

OMG YOU’RE RIGHT

[nonespark-blog]

and it has its right paw up! the correct paw for this. and from the markings on its ears, it looks like it might be a calico cat. which is the luckiest kind!

[carrionbeast]

extremely lucky cat

[ladynorbert]

I don’t even care if it actually works, I’m mostly reblogging because it’s freaking adorable.

[sweet-cherry-fairy-deactivated2]

cute cat and need money, good post, 10/10

[allthenamesilikearetaken]

in case anyones interested in the other versions

http://www.namaii.com/manekineko/maneki-neko-types.html

[mmusclechan]

Y’know I reblogged this a bit ago and was saved from financial probation and getting kicked out of school because of it, just mere months from graduation. Got a call from the financial aid advisor telling me that they made a mistake with filing my account (or some other sort of clerical error) and said that, basically, they owe me money. Welp.

[winjennster]

Last time I reblogged the money cat, I won two $100 gift cards at work.

[beemble-bu-moving-deactivated20]

I’m just reblogging for the facts about lucky cats

[thatsamorayeel]

I’m just reblogging because c a t s

[up-north-23]

[inoccent-whore-deactivated20200]

[triwizarded]

who here was on tumblr 4+ years ago

[sweetoothgirl]

SUMMERTIME KEY LIME PIE

[thatchronicfeeling]

‘Fake It Till You Make It’ Doesn’t Work With Chronic Illness

Instead, the options are: ‘Fake It Till You Are So Ill You Can’t Get Out Of Bed’ ‘Fake It Till You Have A Flare’ ‘Fake It Till You Have A Flare, Continue To Fake It Till You’re Hospitalised‘ OR ‘Accept That You Have One Or More Chronic Illnesses, Adapt Accordingly And Look After Yourself’

[voidbirds]

I present you with a gift!

[sweetoothgirl]

Raspberry Morning Buns

[youmightwanttorun]

[a screenshot of a tweet from username: skye doesn’t want advice 🏳️⚧ @disabilisaur

tweet text: “what gets me about my disability isn’t that I can’t do stuff.

it's that I DON'T KNOW if I'll be able to do stuff.

doing a thing can either put me in bed for days,

it can be totally fine, no big deal,

or randomly make me feel BETTER.

24 hours later the rules change again.” end image description]

[fattributes]

The Best Carne Asada Fries

[hoardingrecipes]

Potato Pancakes

[badsciencejokes]

…I almost killed myself

I put on my sunglasses, to hide my swollen eyes, over my tears. I cried all my makeup off. Went inside to have a milkshake. I don’t know why. I wanted something to drink as I figured out what I would do. I got a soda and a milkshake. Medium. The cashier looked at me and with a line around the corner of the counter he rushed away from the counter “Hold on “ he yelled to a coworker.

I filled my soda and went back and saw him looking all over. I go up and he gets close and says “I made it a large”.

That was seriously enough for me not to do it. His kindness. Someone went out of their way and as I went back in my car to cry I realized I could muster through a few other days. A few more weeks. Then I came down from that panicky high of anxiety, depression, and pain. I finished my shake. And it was enough time to let me feel better. I… I’m alive. I’ll make it through.

Try and be nice today. Tomorrow. Something as much as a smile. It helped so much.

Thank you man at McDonalds.

The milkshake saved my life

[blackheartseverywhere]

I hope you all can read this and remember to be kind

[the-quiet-priestess]

The smallest of gestures can save a life. My Mum answered her phone when I called and I am alive today because of that.

[badsciencejokes]

I’m glad you’re here.

It’s a phone call, a milkshake, a friend.

[badsciencejokes]

I feel like I shouldn’t keep reblogging this but when I do more people see what kindness can do…. I don’t know. Love everyone as yourself.

[nunyabizni]

Nah, keep rebloging it. It gives hope.

[evilerthanthou]

walked sobbing around a city once wearing a summer dress in mid-september thunder and rain. basically dragged myself into LUSH as the smell of the store always made me smile. the shop was empty and dead due to the weather, just this blonde short woman behind the counter who smiled at me. i stared at her feet and asked ‘do you have anything for people who are scared a lot?’ (i was so out of it i had no clue). she showed me two bath bombs, one pink and one blue, and said both were good - i chose the pink, paid for it and left. i then sat at a bus stop clutching the LUSH bag in one arm and my prescription meds in the other - i’d lied and ordered a refill so i could just drift away with sleeping pills. when the bus arrived and i was out of the rain, i decided to have another look at my bath bomb, smell it and what not. opened my bag and saw she’d put the blue one in there for me as well and written on the receipt ‘feel better soon :) hope you like x’. 

no one had ever been so selflessly kind to me before, i didn’t know what to do with it except hang around long enough to use the other bath bomb. 

[maggie-stiefvater-deactivated20]

Actually I’m going to reblog this again because of the truth of the inverse: think of any time you have been casually cruel or petty to someone for humor or because you weren’t in a great mood. 

The power of small gestures goes both ways.

[maltypass]

I’ve worked for Lush and you are given a certain allocation of free products to give to customers. 

That allocation is called ‘a kindness’

[imakegoodlifechoices]

Sometimes on the subway we time travel.

[lettersfromtitan]

It’s the question mark that makes it exquisite.  The future is not an exact science.

[aleatoryw]

Look we’re not exactly sure what day it is yet- but fuck if it isn’t a Monday