Marcille my beloved
🪼

Andulka
NASA
ojovivo
d e v o n
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
todays bird

roma★
No title available
No title available
dirt enthusiast

Discoholic 🪩

No title available
Claire Keane
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH
KIROKAZE

JBB: An Artblog!
wallacepolsom
Xuebing Du

oozey mess

seen from Sweden

seen from Singapore

seen from Venezuela

seen from France
seen from United States

seen from France

seen from Singapore
seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from Germany
seen from Australia

seen from United Kingdom

seen from Germany
seen from United States

seen from United States

seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from Germany
seen from France

seen from Singapore
@dxmedstudent
Marcille my beloved
the use of AI lately has made me feel so hopeless, i translated pages of an unfinished fanzine of mine so i can remember why i love art...i hope it can resonate with anyone feeling the same way
Marcille I did when I was watching Dungeon Meshi a while back <33
you have permission to pick that 2 year old "abandoned" project back up. it's not mad at you for setting it aside. and maybe time and distance have helped ease or erase the things that made you put it down in the first place.
"goddess" "matriarchy" "female wisdom" girl your civic rights
“But I didn’t and still don’t like making a cult of women’s knowledge, preening ourselves on knowing things men don’t know, women’s deep irrational wisdom, women’s instinctive knowledge of Nature, and so on. All that all too often merely reinforces the masculinist idea of women as primitive and inferior – women’s knowledge as elementary, primitive, always down below at the dark roots, while men get to cultivate and own the flowers and crops that come up into the light. But why should women keep talking baby talk while men get to grow up? Why should women feel blindly while men get to think?”
— Ursula K. Le Guin
Jo in Little Women: "I find it poor logic to say that because women are good, women should vote. Men do not vote because they are good; they vote because they are male, and women should vote, not because we are angels and men are animals, but because we are human beings and citizens of this country."
Brent Cotton Before the Thunder Speaks, 2026 Oil on canvas, 91 x 121cm
Unicorn Spinos are looking for homes!!
based on Spinosaurus mirabilis
90cm/3ft long
"glitter"/star embossed minky details
poseable limbs!!
weighted belly
adopt one at barks-bog.com
there is one peach spino left!!
Some employers refuse to negotiate salary—but that doesn't mean the conversation is over! Here's what you can ask for, beyond your paycheck.
If Your Employer Refuses To Negotiate Salary, Try These 11 Creative Counteroffers
Have you ever gotten yourself all hyped-up and battle-ready to ask for more money—only to learn your employer REFUSES to negotiate salary?
This happened to me when I was a young professional. I went for a role at a company that tied its job offers to intelligence test scores. (This is not a normal or cool thing to ask, by the way. It’s elitist, ableist, racist, irrelevant, and indicative of really bad leadership. Alas that I was young, dumb, and living on breadcrumb…s.) The recruiter warned me in advance that this employer refused to negotiate salary beyond their initial offer.
Now, the joke was on them! I’m one of those people who needs to make an L-shape with her fingers to tell left from right. And once hired, I’m about as biddable as Spirit, Stallion of the Cimarron. But if you put a test in front of me, I’m gonna destroy it. So by their own stupid system, they were forced to offer me an absurdly high sum. My salary doubled overnight. Although I hated that job and left after six months, it was the best job transition I’ve ever made.
All of which is to say: if a potential employer refuses to negotiate salary, it doesn’t mean that their offer is bad. Internal policies far more benign than the one I just described dictate salary offers. Some employers have a strict system for salaries based on tenure, experience, performance, or job title. Others must adhere to government guidelines or union rules regarding fair salaries.
Keep reading.
Did we just help you out? Join our Patreon!
The ur-guide to salary negotiation is this one:
Salary negotiation advice, mostly for engineers. Running total of raises negotiated due to this essay: $15M+.
Disclaimers: it's written mainly for software engineers. It is kind of dismissive of creative fields, but I still suspect it'll work if you're very good at what you do. I'm not a software engineer, but I have found the advice generally applicable for me because I have a decently niche skillset that is pretty hard to replace.
Double disclaimer: whoops just realised I contradicted the post. Yes, salary negotiation is sometimes limited by industry. Some industries are bound by union/ enterprise agreements. The way to improve your salary at those places is to get involved with the union so you can have input into the enterprise agreement. That is a completely different negotiation game to this article so ignore everything and look for union-specific advice.
For industries, roles, or companies with that pay by "salary band", it's still applicable if you're not in the highest band yet. Instead of the specific number, focus on negotiating your way into the next band up. There may be a surprising amount of movement there.
For anyone who finds the authors's slightly tech-centric tone unbearable, here's my summary:
The aim of hiring anyone in any job is to increase revenue and/or decrease costs. Before even applying for the job, you must work out why they are hiring. How will that role increase revenue and/or decrease costs?
Be someone who has a track record/ reputation for increasing revenue/ decreasing costs. If you are good at your job, this will not be particularly hard. If you're a creative, you can use client testimonials, especially any that say they came for YOU or your portfolio specifically. If you're in sales, you can just use your sales performance. Figure out what the point of everything you're doing at your current job and put dollar values on them wrt to increasing revenue or decreasing costs
Get your job/interview offer through networking whenever possible. For the employer, wading through resumes from job seeking sites is horrible and they hate it. BGR has a good networking guide - use that
GET TO YES FIRST. Recruiting is a huge pain in the arse, so employees are often "sticky", plus those pesky laws that say you can sue if you're wrongfully dismissed. The people interviewing you are TERRIFIED that you're gonna be shit at the job and horrible to work with because it can be hard to get rid of someone who sucks (got any coworkers who suck? Yeah, they're scared you'll be That Guy). So at the interview, do your level best to get them to think "oh hell yes this person will make my life easier"
DO NOT GIVE NUMBERS UNTIL YOU GET TO YES. Just focus on the value you'll bring to the table. Use every trick in the book to dodge the question. Say you're flexible on the exact form of the compensation, you just want to focus on how you can be useful to them, what value you brought to your previous job, etc. If it's a webform, enter either $1 or $1,000,000. DON'T GIVE THE NUMBER!!
Once you get to yes, ONLY once you get to yes, start negotiating. When negotiating, keep in mind that typically in the USA, your total cost to the employer is something like 150% - 200% of what your salary package says, because on top of the salary they have to pay taxes, health insurance, payroll, and other overheads that you can't control. This means on their end they're not actually that sensitive to differences on the order of several thousand dollars because you're gonna cost them so frigging much anyway, so kicking an extra $2k or $5k your way isn't going to make a massive difference to their bottom line. EXCEPT IF THEY'RE RUN BY ASSHOLES! (who will refuse to give you something like that on principle).
If they won't negotiate, RUN (or be prepared to use it as a stepping stone, anyway). Salary negotiation is a really good way to screen if your prospective employer is an Asshole. If they refuse to negotiate, consider that a bullet dodged because that means they have a specific Attitude to their employees which will make working there really miserable. Employers who are willing to negotiate signal that they see you as a respected partner with unique talents, who will help them achieve business success and glory. Employers who aren't willing to negotiate signal that they see you as a disposable machine to be exploited as efficiently as possible!
Negotiation: DO NOT GIVE THEM A NUMBER FIRST. DO NOT GIVE THEM THE NUMBER. Let them come up with the number. If you give them a number, this instantly compromises your negotiating position. This was the key thing I did - and my employer gave me pretty much as much as he was willing to spend because as a prospect I'm already a Yes, but he needs me to actually Say Yes.
When you do hear the number, don't say yes right away. Say it's "interesting". If they're desperate (and because hiring is very dysfunctional this will be more often than you'd think), every day you fail to say yes costs them money, so they'll want to close the deal quickly. Use that to counteroffer, and use the above tricks - if they can't budge on the number, maybe they can shift on something else, etc. You must make it very clear that you'd LOVE to work with them but, y'know, you're a very valuable, in-demand professional, it's got to be worth it to you.
In white collar corporate environments hiring experienced professionals, sometimes managers actually get prestige if they ask for More budget, not less. If they're hiring creatives, for example, less budget means they could only get starving grads to apply. More budget means they managed to get some really in-demand superstar genius to sign up with them. They want to be managing Leonardo Da Vinci, not some nameless art school dropout. Paying you more will give their boss the impression that they've managed to hire someone awesome, ie you! (This only works if you carry yourself confidently, like how a superstar is supposed to behave)
Though I personally think this prev point is much more relevant for jobs that increase revenue E.g sales or people who make/ do stuff, not bookkeeping, audit or risk-management. Note that you can still be a profit centre even if your industry is mainly there to Do Maintenance rather than make new things/sales by applying to a business which provides this service to other businesses. E.g even though technically keeping tidy books is a cost to be reduced, if you work for a company that tidies other companies' books, you're now bringing in revenue.
Hopefully, happy ending - get paid what you're actually worth and everyone feels like they got a great deal!
in drawing class yesterday we were doing a critique for our self-portraits, and one girl, who is like the coolest chillest stoner girl type imaginable, had drawn herself at the dentist holding that thing that sucks the water or of your mouth, and one person was like “what’s that you’re holding?” and she said “it’s mister thirsty.” and we all sat there for a second processing, and one boy said “…did you just call that thing mister thirsty?” and she was like “yeah, is that not what you call it?” and everyone shouted NO and she was like “i don’t know what you guys are on. it’s called mister thirsty.”
Fuck you I was expecting comedy and now I'm crying?!
This is beautiful.
Bridget and the flowers for Feline Friday
yknow its interesting how something can impact one demographic in a completely different way than everyone else. in the exorcist when the demon starts speaking in greek, to most people its creepy. but if youre greek and you suddenly start hearing the demon speak perfect fucking greek its genuinely the biggest scare of the movie. you just do not expect to ever hear your language in american movies so it catches you so badly off guard, it feels like the movie is talking directly to you
the first time my dad saw it, it was with his american friends. and when she started speaking greek he turned to one of them and was like "re malaka did you hear that in english?"
for some reason my cat always acts surprised and sniffs me when i pet him even if he's literally sat on me
When you remember the anti-vax movement
I first reblogged this in January, and here my ass is in March 2020 self-quarantined at home.
Ur right and u should say it
Reading this in 2021
Reading in 2026
Y'all, we as a community have got to get better at dodgeball if we’re gonna keep tempting fate like that.
would you guys like to see a real illustration from an actual published scientific paper? of course you would
link to the paper
Hey op kinda buried the lead. This isn't just some illustration. ITS THE ABSTRACT.
my mushoomb,, :D
one musruum..
I've got to look up every possible way to sew hidden, concealed and non-obvious pockets and other such storage caches in all of my clothing, and then have as many of those as I can fit in every item in my wardrobe. Trying to get as much hidden storage space on my person as possible. Carrying around a backpack's worth of shit without carrying a bag of any sort.
Getting bored while waiting for the bus and just casually pulling a goddamn sewing kit out of my sleeve to start doing needlework on my jeans, like hey hold on where the fuck did you just pull that shit from. Equipping shit from my secret inventory.
Hammer space but it's a pocket specifically located on your left calf. Neat :D
since becoming a barista i have noticed a few very distinct typologies among my customers. such as:
the woke left: young and fashionable. visible tattoos. often enjoys matcha, lavender flavoring, oat milk, and cold foam. pretty decent customers.
sweet old man: drinks very sweet iced lattes, pays in cash, puts all of his change in the tip jar. sometimes orders hot coffee and i get scared that his shaky old man hands will spill it and he'll get burned but that has not yet happened and god willing never shall.
evil old man: only wants drip coffee and declares it ridiculous that any other form of coffee exists. some variants only want americanos and these variants are even scarier. watch out.
sweet old woman: might need her daughter's help to order but is very bubbly and open to trying new things. compliments baristas freely and frequently.
evil old woman: does not want coffee and only wants sweet tea or soda. will not tip even if she spends three hours in the shop repeatedly asking baristas to fetch things for her.
errand husband: either stiltedly recites an order to you or shows you the order in their texts/notes app. needs to step out of line and make a phone call if you ask any follow-up questions.
grindset girlie: always wearing scrubs, an apron, and/or a name tag. orders the exact same thing every day and knows the exact change she'll need to pay for it. her regular order is both extremely caffeinated and extremely sweet.
#mamabear: is actively wrangling two to four children while ordering. order changes repeatedly because the children cannot decide if they want a muffin or a cookie or apple juice or chocolate milk etc. for some reason these women are always wearing an article of clothing or carrying some personalized item that says "mama" on it.
schoolchildren: band of two to eight adolescents hanging out after school. extremely indecisive but generally quite polite and tip well.
amnesiac in love: grown adult who needs their partner to tell them what they like. gets asked a question about their own preferences and turns to their partner to answer for them. generally acts like a shy child looking to their guardian for behavioral cues if you try to interact with them and only wants to talk to mommy i mean their wife.
this of course is not an exhaustive list but those are just some of the most consistent Types i get. ok bye xoxo