welcome to @local-band-of-idiots 's system blog! we are a pro-endo anti-radqueer traumagenic system and we really like cats. expect this blog to be absolutely crazy.
our collective identity: atticus, they/it/ey (you can unlock more if we become good friends), agender, gay (nblm/mlm), probably on the demisexual/demiromantic spectrum. more of this is on our main profile that we @'d above. we kinda wanna keep this blog about system stuff and less about how we usually present to the public.
our headcount is impossible to keep track of because of fluctuations and new people coming and going, because of this our headcount list will not always be up-to-date.
we love all different kinds of things but our main interests right now are: pierce the veil, my chemical romance, fall out boy, get scared, black veil brides, cross stitch, crochet, project hail mary, hellenic polytheism, going on walks, and welcome to night vale! i know its a lot lol
we are working on userboxes to use as sign offs! they arent ready yet though :(
tag list:
[name]'s originals - a specific alter's original post tag depending on whos name it is
[name]'s reblogs - a specific alter's reblog tag depending on whos name it is
french ogs - collective tag, we'll use this if we're blurry or if we wanna say something as a collective
french reblogs - same thing but with reblogs
headcount and other links below cut!
All Alters Have Introduction Posts, The Link Is Embedded, Just Click Their Name To Access It!
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a check mark emoji (✔️) after an alters name means their intro is complete or a work in progress. a red x (❌) means it has not been started. this is just for admin.
red text means dormant/inactive. its just for admin
have fun watching us try to track who we have *deep sigh* -vix
(all the text above this was written by vixen and simon, vixen can be credited for writing the whole intro post and simon helps with admin and Text That Looks Like This. this is also for admin. we need an admin tag. #Admin. he (simon) told me to make it uppercase fml -vixen)
Jackson/Jack/Jax; he/him ey/em/eir; host & age slider ✔️
Kellin/Kel; he/him; caregiver ❌
Agatha/Aggie; she/they; caregiver ✔️
Nick; he/him; secondary protector & funny guy ✔️
Vixen/Vix/V; he/xe/they; protector; romantic relationship with Em (husband-adjacent) ✔️
Emerson/Em; he/they; tertiary protector; romantic relationship with Vix (husband-adjacent) ✔️
Simon/Si; he/him; introject; romantic relationship with Ryland (husbands) ✔️
Ryland Grace; he/him; introject; romantic relationship with Simon (husbands) ✔️
Rocky; he/him; introject; interested in the human sciences; not sure he wants in intro -vixen ❌
possible dr ryland grace introject???; he/him; introject; dont know much about him yet and hes not the same as above mentioned grace fictive -vix ❌
Noah; he/they; music guy; romantic relationship with Paz (boyfriends) ❌
gonna work on headspace mapping today!! a lot of things have changed since we last mapped 5 months ago and im excited to map again!
cuz vix and em have a house now, si and ryland have their own apartment, living spaces changed in headspace a lot because our headspace doesnt look like a huge building seperated into rooms anymore, and it makes us feel claustrophobic when all we se in headspace is a huge building with no outside lol
we are all family here! we dont see many other plurals talking about how their system is their family but ours is! we all love eachother (not all romantic, we have 3 in-sys relationships) and think of eachother as family!
If they're allowed to be "aggressively anti endo" I'm gonna be aggressively pro endo lol. I love you Endos and Willos please keep on living, you are incredibly vital to our community and deserve acceptance and support. Never let assholes and imbeciles dull your spark or make you doubt your identity, you're as real as any of us and deserve to take space <3 This community is as much for you as it is for any of us <3
People really don't think about how isolating it is to have a sexual, urogenital, reproductive, or gastrointestinal disability.
If you have sexual dysfunction, its considered a taboo, a hush-hush condition, something to never be spoken of. A failure, a humiliation.
All of the "can't get them wet", "can't get them to orgasm," "can't get it up in bed", "only lasts two minutes in bed" jokes, dismissing the real people with sexual dysfunction, the real people struggling. How do you think they feel, hearing these "jokes"?
If you have fertility complications, it's considered something to be pitied for, a "failure of a man", "failure of a woman", "failure of a person", a "waste of your genetic line."
If you have complications with urination or defecation, it's considered gross or belittling. Nobody wants to hear about it, nobody wants to acknowledge it, and God forbid you have an accident in public - then everyone's eyes are on you, judging or pitying.
And menstrual & perinatal disabilities just aren't taken seriously. If you have debilitating menstrual cycles, for example, its brushed off as "typical" or "an exaggeration."
my menstrual cycle forces me to spend days at home in isolation because of the excruciating pain i go through. my period has lasted 9 or more days for years and its taken so long to get my mom to believe me. heck even ovulation hurts and everyone ive heard talk about it says its wonderful and they feel so good about themselves during it. well i can feel my individual ovaries when im ovulating and it hurts so badly. i have to take tylenol during ovulation cuz it hurts as much as my cramps do. even if i wanted kids i dont think pregnancy would even be possible for me because it would be too painful
every time i try to talk about my pain with anyone they say that "its not that bad" and "its just your period its normal". well its not. i shouldnt be hiding in the bathroom curled up because it hurts so badly i cant move. thats not normal. i might be going to the doctor this month sometime
Parents: "children should be taught that actions have consequences"
Okay, let them stay up till 5 in the morning and feel like shit for the next day, eat a bag of candy in one go and have a huge stomach ache, go out without an umbrella and catch a cold, watch a violent movie and get scared?
Parents: "actually, we mean screaming and beating the crap out of them when they try to do these things"
I want this man be given multiple luxuries of ordinary Earth relaxations and end off the day with a goodnight kiss to the forehead and to crawl in the arms of the blond man that is Ryland Grace, who would probably lull him to sleep with his scientific books
