#-jackson

[autumnstar06]

We're ignoring how he only learnt about RSD from fanfiction

[idontevenknow7878]

I love hugs I low-key need some1 to hug me rn

[idontevenknow7878]

“oh yeah no my autism wasn’t that obvious when i was little!”

I couldn’t go into the shops with my mom because it was too loud.

I watched the same fucking episode of little witch academia over and over again when I was like seven.

And I cried when I didn’t get my spelling test back.

[lilypads17]

imagine you wanted a good day but god said “and your loans will fuck you over and you’ll sleep like shit and hurt like fucking HELL and you just had a mass integration last night and you’re still living with your ab-ser with no way out and you’re so depressed you considered s-icide half heartedly this morning”

[officialmarkjinson]

[jinyoungmine-blog]

JYPE_JAPAN | 2016 JYP NATION CONCERT “MIX & MATCH” IN JAPAN 

[anything-advice-blog]

Submission

Should I block my ex from viewing my tumblr? It doesn’t bother me too much, I guess. I didn’t delete her on FB just unfollowed her, and unfollowed her IG cause it was hard to see her ya know? She hurt me, and I broke it off. My tumblr is the only thing I update daily, everything else is like once a week. I can see she checks like 20-40 times a day. It’s just weird, like she checks it every hour that most people are awake. I rarely post anything personal, so idk. It’s an aesthetic blog and I post my on photos too.

It’s like it’s her fault she messed it all up, why does she care what I’m up to? Shouldn’t I deny her all access to my life? I didn’t delete her from FB nor block her from seeing my instagram post cause I knew I wouldn’t let myself go back and look at photos of someone that hurt me like that. On two occasions she contacted me, and it made it so we were on even worse terms. Mostly because she saw something posted this was like a month, then again 2 months after the breakup where she then texted me kinda regarding the post. After I told her if she messaged me again I would block and delete her from everything, and because she’s now in a diff country it’s highly unlikely I’d run into her or ever think to want to reconnect with her. So far she’s not contacted me which I’m glad for. My buddy said I might be doing her a favor because for most people I guess it’s hard for them to not go back and look at old conversations and pictures. I guess because she lied our entire relationship, I don’t have any “good times” to think about that don’t feel tainted. Like sense the break up I haven’t missed her in particular at all, mostly just missed having someone but not her…

Anyways so do I block her, and maybe do her a big favor and me a small one. Or leave it and let her get over me but still check my tumblr in an almost unhealthy way and just remove the tracker?

-Jackson

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Hey Jackson!

If I were in your situation, I would probably block her from seeing your tumblr. You’re right that it is an unhealthy obsession, and you would probably be doing her a favour! In fact, our page on getting over a breakup mentions unfollowing/blocking your ex on every social media possible. Space is important for recovery. Also, if it makes you uncomfortable, you have every right to block her! It’s your blog, and what you do with it is your choice!

Also, even though she messed up your relationship, people often regret their actions, which is why she could be still holding on. The other option you have is messaging her to ask her to stop checking your tumblr, but since you would like to limit contact, and contact in the past has ended disastrously, I think simply blocking her is the best option. I hope this helps! 

Love,

Kenz