The House Party

[the-house-party]

SONG OF THE DAY :

[mudboowl]

huggeee art dump from my old daily wemmbu blog because I am planning to delete it but don't wanna make all the art disappear

[the-house-party]

There's an ask rotting away in our inbox and I swear to God 5 different people have answered it already, but no one's gotten around to posting it. To that one Anon, I SWEAR WE CARE, WE JUST FORGET

[the-house-party]

Oh hell nah we are never getting to this I'm so sorry 💀

[the-house-party]

There's an ask rotting away in our inbox and I swear to God 5 different people have answered it already, but no one's gotten around to posting it. To that one Anon, I SWEAR WE CARE, WE JUST FORGET

[alteredpanel]

(obscuring username as not to single anybody out + not negative. just in case someones shy) but this is actually what we did with our journals at first too. we used lighthouse for some time, alongside discord/simplyplural. but with simplyplural being left and not wanting to be as on our phone/computer, we switched to paper.

for people with higher system counts, there are actually really good paperback journal 'packs' you can get at most stationary stores. if buying a 10/15$ journal seems too intimidating, you can get these packs for like, 10 dollars total, and each one only has about 40ish pages.

this way if you have parts that dont front as frequently, you dont have anyone worrying about 'waste' while still providing them their own space. these are just a few examples.

something unexpected this ended up helping with was actually our individual memories too. i noticed some people asking 'how do you journal if you're blurry/have bad memory as a part?' and, well, that's actually why i started doing it. i wanted to remember more than just 'feeling bad' whenever i fronted, so i carry my journal with me and write down basically like, everything.

even just passing thoughts like 'i kind of wish we had beef strips at home for dinner' or 'im really excited for artfight this year'. when you're trying to recover as a system, especially as a part thats been heavily slotted with a lot of 'negative' emotions, its important to give yourself the space to express more than those things. if you only ever remember yourself as being 'angry/bad' then you wont develop much past that, and you start to internalize that shit and really hate yourself.

journaling has been a great outlet for me to vent and draw my own stuff, but it's also given me some dignity and the space to feel like a person outside of just being like. traumatized. i sort of use it as a vault of everything about me, good and bad, important and trivial.

also like, importantly, from both an eco friendly and anticap standpoint, you can really just use stuff you have lying around the house already. i think personalizing your journal is important, but you can also do that without going out and buying 56347875 things. personally i got really into junk journaling alongside writing and drawing, because it gave me a spot to put a lot of the cool stuff that other people would think is trash.

[starfallsystemblog2]

System ask game stolen and edited from r/systemcringe

❤are you medically recognised/diagnosed? if not, do you plan to? (no judgement either way!)

🧡if you are comfortable sharing, what is your headcount? do you keep track of it?

💛do you switch frequently or do you go longer periods between switching?

💚does your system have introjects of any kind?

💙do you have any subsystems?

💜who are your frequent fronters?

🤎do you have any non-human alters? if yes, which species are they?

🖤do you make/buy gifts to other alters in the system?

🤍does the taste in music vary a lot between different alters?

🔴does your system have any type of in system relationships? (familial, romantic, platonic etc.)

🟠how much amnesia do you experience?

🟡do you experience black out amnesia?

🟢what does switching feel like for you? does it vary between alters?

🔵do you experience quick switches or does it take longer to switch usually?

🟣do you get frontstuck often? what do you do to try to get 'un-stuck'?

🟤do you ever not notice you've switched, and suddenly realise that 'you haven't been you' for a while?

⚫can you switch 'on command" or is that something that is hard for your system? does it depend on the alter?

⚪do you have a headspace? if yes, describe it! if no, do you want one?

🟥how easily accessed is your headspace? (If you have one)

🟧is there a place in your headspace where dormant alters go?

🟨do alters have their own rooms/areas in your headspace?

🟩is your headspace big, or smaller? is it complex/less complex?

🟦do you have specific alters that cannot access headspace at all?

🟪did you have to build your headspace over time, or was it just there?

🟫how did you pick your system name?

⬛how does your system handle in system disagreements in general?

⬜is there anyone specific in your system you don't get along with?

❤️‍🔥are you 'out' as a system to anyone? (online friends/partners etc. count!)

❤️‍🩹how good is your communication with the rest of the system? does it vary much between different alters?

💔are different alters part of different subcultures? which ones?

[the-house-party]

Same with this one, even though some of us can't guarantee any answers

[analog-autistic]

plural ask game !! 🌟

🔮 Who has existed the longest?

🛍️ Who’s the newest?

🧬 Who’s in front right now?

🧼 If you have fictives, what source do you have the most from?

💿 What’s your current (approximate) headcount?

🎆 Whats a plural joke you find funny? (Or stupid)

🎲 An out-of-context thing you’ve heard in-sys recently

🎟️ How long have you known? How long have you suspected?

🫐 Do you have different art styles? Writing styles? Tones of voice?

💐 Is there anything you all collectively like? Collectively dislike?

🐬 What’s the most common color that appears in your system?

👾 What’s the most common species to appear in your system?

[the-house-party]

Maybe we should entertain something like this... Pick it up whenever one of us fronts and have fun with it, ya know?

[the-house-party]

Is anyone else gonna mention how that one scene at the very tail end of a chase sequence in The Backrooms where the guy was able to hear his associate, but not see her? Him banging on the wall with her on the other side claiming she has a window that's capable of looking to his side despite him very clearly not having that?? Her being able to hear and see him from her side of the wall and warn him about impending danger despite him not noticing on his own???? IS NO ONE GONNA TALK ABOUT THAT SCENE AND HOW CLOSELY IT IS TO HAVING A SYSTEM. NO ONE. NO ONE? BRAH.

[thesolar-system]

The Solar System’s collective opinion on gender is that it sucks

- 💜💫

[the-house-party]

We've been following a good chunk of Plural content creators on almost every popular platform you could think of, and something we always wanted to do was be somebody other systems could find solace in. We don't (intentionally) wanna go on and on waxing poetics about how this disorder affects us, but we also just aren't sure how to really get across what we wanna say in general. Some of us don't even know WHAT we wanna say, period.

Do we wanna just keep this up as some kind of blog for those that are interested to check us out? Do we wanna occasionally repost things we like and relate with and have a more laid back kinda audience? We dunno! We just know that we want to be more open about who we are and what we get up too, but without the inherent assumptions of newcomers that align with them going :

" Oh, this is how a real system looks like. I need my system to function exactly like theirs or else we just aren't real enough and all of my experiences aren't true or valid and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah... "

Is that so much to ask?

[the-house-party]

It's sooo late but I'm happy to be alive and I love how my entire shift was summed up in anxiously working away to Barbie's Princess and the Pauper OST

[the-house-party]

They caught my ass red handed 😔

[the-house-party]

POV you binge Dan VS as a comfort show

[ricedeity]

darling!

[the-house-party]

Me thinks I have a new victim to edit... 😈

[the-house-party]

The more I mauled it over, the more I realized that I didn't really "exist" before the big 2020 hit. All I know is that there was somebody that existed before 2020 and the person I am now that's widely known and accepted as being The OG Host..

[fruitorchardsystem]

Every time someone says the word system my brain creates this image

[the-house-party]

Current Blunt Roblox Rotation :

Toon Universe -> Dandy's World -> Dolly's Factory -> Depth Spelunking -> The Backrooms [REDACTED]

There's other games too, but those are just the ones I flock to like a pigeon to a bake sale.