Just A Curious Girl @the-littlest-kitten-1295 - Tumblr Blog

dark-soul9

it’s so attractive when someone pays attention to the little details of you

flower-swift

don’t forget on pride month

belfast62

nocuer

would you date a girl with anxiety/depression?

Yeah and we gonna fight that shit together

manderz82

thewitchywench

🤣🤣

delightedobserverintraining

💖🤣🤣😂😂

averagekiki

Just wanna get fucked so hard that I can’t think about anything else.

lullabyvixie

Having a little with anxiety means

Telling your little exactly where you’re going and how long you’ll be gone so they don’t worry you’ve abandoned them.

Clarifying that you’re not mad when you scold your little for being naughty.

Warning your little when there are days where you can’t talk very much.

Talking a little down from a panic attack at any given time.

Reassuring them that they’re safe and they’re okay and that nothing is wrong.

Giving your little random reminders that you love them and you aren’t leaving.

Learning to handle irrational fears that your little might not ever be able to overcome.

Letting your little know that they aren’t a burden and their anxiety isn’t too much to handle.

Being patient and forgiving, your little one truly means the best, and probably worries constantly that their anxiety makes everything harder for you.

thechronicfuckingmasochist

COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER(S)

chaudx

onelittlekingdom

Our Shared Journal

This was idea that PIp used in a previous dynamic, which worked for her, that she then brought into our dynamic.

1. Pip writes in the journal independently. Often she does it while I’m not watching. If I see her writing in the journal, I don’t talk about it. When she is done writing, she closes the journal and leaves it on my side of the bed.

2. It then becomes my turn with the journal. I’ll discreetly read what Pip has written, and discreetly respond with my own entry.

3. The things that are written in the journal, stay in the journal. I don’t start discussions outside of the journal about what we discuss within the journal, or vice versa.

4. We can agree to move a topic outside of the journal together.

This convention has allowed Pip to share a lot of things with me that I might not know about otherwise. It has been especially helpful in expressing some of the trauma that led to her cPTSD. We hope that other couples find this a useful tool within their dynamics.

JD & Pip

littleslaboratory

Smolsprout and NoNippyPippy sharing a beautiful bonding experience in our Prehistoric Playmates onesie.

sunlaire

you ever look at a kink and think “nah” then a few years later look at the same kink and go “actually yes”

moonchild8914-deactivated202305

Yes, and I’ve had several that years ago I thought yes to, and now I am a definite firm hell no about them.

onelittlekingdom

What’s in a Name?

When I call her PIP, it’s because I am speaking to the submissive who is mine, and who is ours. A partner. A kinkster. A blogger. She is Pip.

Sometimes I want her to feel smol, so I call her HALF-PINT, or BABY LOVE, or LITTLE BEAN.

If I want her to feel my desire for her, or her desire for me, she is my DESPERATE LITTLE CREATURE, my FIVE STAR FUCKDOLL or one DELICIOUS LITTLE FUCKTOY.

When I want her to wake up and feel her role right away, I say, “Boots on the ground LITTLE SOLDIER!”

…but when I want to say something real, something important, and speak to the whole girl, and not just the submissive who is mine, and who is ours, I speak her REAL NAME. The more of it I say, the more I mean for her to understand that I see and love her down to her core, and that what I’m saying I am being dead serious about. I’m not just speaking the submissive girl who brings all the piles of fun stuff. I’m not just addressing one aspect of her being.

Give her many names, and many titles, which communicate many things, and then feed her by wielding them wisely, and precisely.

JD

@tooprettytolive

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onelittlekingdom

My LO has an account here and I'm struggling with handling my insecurities and jealousy. How do you maintain with so many ppl fawning over Pip all the time? TYIA

April 6, 2021: Morning

Good morning good sir. When you’ve been with a partner for three and a half years, all the while watching her get drooled and hit on pretty regularly, you grow to trust that these interactions are not going to shake the love and focus you have for each other.

We also are very polyamorous in our thinking and relationshipping over here. I actively encourage Pip to find other people to love and love her in return besides myself. I am currently open to finding another partner as well, so enjoying a good flirt or bouncing ourselves off other people to explore a connection is kind of expected on this side of the screen.

All that said, I didn’t have the confidence, love, or tools to think or feel the way I do today 20, or even 10 years ago, so time and experience are certainly a base that helps me work with the jealousy that may come up via our daily interactions online.

Thanks for the curious question.

JD