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Gents, you can holler ‘til you’re blue in the face about how much you respect women, but if you still think

-it’s shameful to cry

-it’s shameful to show any emotion besides anger

-“like a girl” is in the top ten most devestating insults

-acting feminine in any way is shameful

-losing to a girl is shameful

-manly things are better than womanly things

-there’s inherent shame associated with everything feminine

then, somewhere deep down inside, you still believe you’re better than them.

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then somewhere deep down inside you still believe you’re better than them

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Life lessons I’m learning in my 20s: Don’t spend your life trying to chase after or replicate feelings you get from other people or places. Happiness will find you again in a whole spectrum of different and even better forms.

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So true. And the reason is because You are Love always taking You with you wherever you go. It was never them in the first place making you feel anything, but SHOWING you a feeling already within.

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When cats stretch and spread their little toebeans out, reblog if you agree

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Check out this amazing hyper realistic painting!

Video by Yves The Cat

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Blowjob? or handjob?

full time job with health care benefits

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Mood

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And paid time off don’t forget that

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Imagine a world where nobody has kids unless they feel like it.

With the declining birth rates, everyone is needed and there is plenty of space for everyone.

Automation is honed to perfection, as human workers are too rare and valuable to be put into manual labour.

With less mouths to feed, basic income and a post-scarcity society are not only possible, but any other option would be unthinkable.

The few, rare children that are born are showered with not only the love and affection of parents and grandparents, but flocks of aunts and uncles and the parent’s/parents’ friends who chose not to reproduce, and have plenty of time and energy to invest in the little ones and give the parents a much-needed rest.

People who don’t like kids or do not get along with them have no trouble avoiding them, and children grow up without unpleasant experiences with them.

Cityscapes are broad and the people are scarce, no infrastructure is forced to hold more than it was intended to handle.

No-one is told they are less of a man, less of a woman or less of an adult for choosing to not have a child. Numerous childless adults pour their energy and devotion to developing a society of sparser and sparser, but happier people.

Humanity does not end with war, in a cramped, stressed nightmare suddenly ending with a bang, but by gently lulling into a soft sleep.

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Why can’t I stop watching this

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I swear to god I’ve watched this like fifty times and I can’t stop laughing

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He l p m e

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I forgot I reblogged this to my main and I’m dYING

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I made my cat watch this to show her how much of a drama queen she can be

#drama #cat #kitty #kitten

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Because abortions aren't the only way the patriarchy wants to control your junk

OBGYN: Yeah, you are exhibiting all the signs of Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. I’m so sorry.

Me: Huh? Oh, yeah. Insulin resistance, impossible weight loss, pre-disposition to type II diabetes, painful AF periods. Likelihood of bleed outs. Crap. That blows.

OBGYN: Yeah, well that too.

Me: *blinks* What?

OBGYN: Well, PCOS makes it very difficult for a woman to conceive and carry.

Me: BWHAHAHAHA. Yeah. No. No babies. Ever. Never wanted them. At all. Maternal instinct is not strong with this one. Only upside today.

OBGYN: Well then. Not exactly problem solved, but we’ll run with it.

Me: So about the MIND-SEARING PAIN and occasional HEAVY AF BLEEDING. When can we deal with that.

OBGYN: Not until you are 35.

Me: Dah fuq?

OBGYN: Not my rules. Hospitalization won’t even consider any treatment unless it’s life or death until you’re 35.

Me: Why?

OBGYN: Because you might want to have a baby.

Me: I’m 31. I didn’t want kids when I was 11, I didn’t want them at 21, and I sure as shit don’t want them now. Can’t I just sign a form that says “I don’t ever want a baby take it out, take it out now”?

OBGYN: Nope.

Me: Why?

OBGYN: Government rules. No removal of baby making parts before 35 unless your life is in immediate jeopardy.

TL;DR: The government knows better about your baby making parts than you do.

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This is just evil. They are literally refusing to treat a potentially life-threatening condition, not just without the patient’s consent but despite the patient’s protest. Evil.

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According to the National Women’s Health Network, there’s no legal age restriction- “Technically, any woman of legal age can consent to the procedure, but it should be medically justified. It’s incredibly unlikely that a doctor will perform a hysterectomy on women ages 18-35 unless it is absolutely necessary for their well-being and no other options will suffice.” Of course, this is in the US. Other countries may have different rules.

If you’re in the US and your OBGYN says “government says no,” look for a new one because they lied to you. If your OBGYN says that “hospital says no,” look for a new one because this one doesn’t respect your bodily autonomy. It is true that most surgeons don’t like to perform hysterectomies until you’re in your late 30s at the earliest, but a respectful surgeon will listen to their patient and not just write them off. Sexism in hospitals is alive and well- and it’s not just anecdotal evidence. There’s been a history of looking at it academically/professionally since the 70s (look into Mary Halas as a good place to start if you’re curious), and it crops up all the time in articles in the Journal of Women’s Health and Women’s Health Issues, and the International Journal of Women’s Health all of which are peer-reviewed, well-respected medical journals. It’s absolutely a real thing.

Anyways, I guess what I’m getting at is this: here’s a list of doctors (mostly US-centric) who perform different sterilization surgeries without giving their patients trouble. While even a surgeon on this list might caution anyone under 35 away from a hysterectomy, at the end of the day it’s your body and your pain. (And some of the docs here have been known to perform hysterectomies on people in their 20s with no fuss.) While this list won’t be practical for everyone- after all, medical treatment is ridiculously expensive in this country, it might help someone.

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Holy shit fam Holy S H I T

SIGN ME THE FUCK UP I’VE BEEN TOLD THIS IS NOT ALLOWED FOR YEARS

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Oh god

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I was told not until I was 30.

Shit, son.

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I’ve been told by many trans men that they cant get “baby making parts” removed till 35 as well, even if they have other surgeries planned for the area, they have to wait. So basically the government is controling transistions and our choices for our bodies.

(Apologies that the source above is just women as this is an issue for anyone with a uterus)

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