Given the nature of my personality and my ambitions, I’ve thought about the possibility of blackmail extensively. I was conducting research on this topic night after night, to see what came up and what the history of former sex workers was in the media. What if one day, after becoming successful or achieving some level of fame, I had a sex scandal regarding my past? What if a former client or sponsor was seeking revenge and wanted to sabotage my success? I’ve also received other questions from other sex workers and girls in the bowl, curious about whether this would do long-term damage.
After extensive consideration, I’ve dismissed this possibility entirely. If you take the right steps to secure your privacy, you shouldn’t have anything to fear.Â
I actually think this is a myth spread by salts in order to instill fear into sex workers, as I don’t see this actually occurring. There are women who are known for having legitimate contracts with agencies and there are legal records - but they simply choose not to speak about it, and over time, rumors have dwindled down and their past is largely invisible. If you 1) protect your real identity - meaning your real name and social medias and 2) make sure there is no virtual or physical record connected to you, then I am certain this is pretty much impossible. There have been many posts on protecting your identity and the necessary steps to take, so I won’t delve into that, but here are some considerations to keep in mind:
1) If the man is wealthy, high-status, or relatively important, than he most likely has more to lose than you do. There are plenty of famous women who had a previous history in sex work (especially celebrities and businesswomen), and they still have achieved significant levels of success, if anything. It’s the opposite case for men - especially if it’s clear that they’ve paid for an act of sex. For instance, Eliot Spitzer, the former governor of New York, with the emphasis on former. He had a series of streaks that demonstrated his incompetence, dealt with low popularity, and had a number of unrelated scandals, but what caused the ultimate death of his political career was his use of campaign funds to hire elite escorts. Even then, if he had just used his personal assets rather than leaving a public record, perhaps he could’ve salvaged himself.
2) Another point of consideration is that if you’re successful and relatively attractive as a woman, of course men will be wanting to sleep with you and many will falsely claim to do so. If he’s aging, if he’s useless, or if he’s relatively anonymous, then who will believe him? No one. Especially if you carry yourself as having high relationship standards or are married/are in a long-term relationship. Even if he were to attempt to try to accuse you, those accusations would hold no merit - and would most likely be largely dismissed. He will most likely not have any proof if you’ve taken appropriate security measures and protected your identity. Now obviously this follows suit with having an alternate identity, hiding the details of your real life, having a burner phone, and making sure records of your vanilla life are kept separate.Â
3) The other case is to have an alternate persona or a separate alibi. Lie, always, and make sure you have points of reference who can vouch for you. This follows suit with keeping some level of anonymity of what you acquire through sex work and in the bowl, and choosing not to show off your purchases. Make sure everything can be explained and also ensure there is no legal documentation. For instance, when you’re filing your taxes, don’t claim that you were an escort, say that you were a consultant, an art collector, etc that can explain your expenditures. If you’ve achieved some level of fame, ideally you’ll make powerful allies and have legal security - this will do a good job of making sure people don’t speak out against you.Â
4) The only issue I can think of in which a past history of sex work would be an issue is when you don’t protect your personal identity. Obviously, the Clermont twins come to mind - and that was just an extremely poor method of making sure you’re not traced back to being involved. I’ve had clearances conducted by both the CIA and FBI and was able to pass through both of them because there is no real record present. If you don’t give up information up about yourself, no one will have to know. Furthermore, always know that you never have to respond to anything.
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