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Today’s lesson

in Feminism. “Pussy-whipped” is not a term we use. There is no alternative to that, you don’t say “Dick-whipped” or “Cock-whipped”. It’s derogatory in the way “You run like/throw like a girl!” is. I understand and I’m sorry, I’m still learning. Everyday.

#Feminism #Lessons #Growing #Health #Thoughts

lisarayanne

#Truth #Last post #Closing up shop #Goodbye #Fin

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I wish someone would send something like this to me

#Please please just share a life with me #This one #Not the next one #You #Text

ravencocks

Relationship goals.

drdaisymarie

Is this not my life?????

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All men benefit from women’s reinforced fear of being hurt for saying no.

goodbyesocialconstructs

read it again and again

lierdumoa

Understand that this applies even to non-sexual situations. Women are more likely to be asked for favors from coworkers. Regular “can you file this for me” / “can you cover my shift” / “can you finish up this paperwork” workplace favors. Men are less likely to return those favors. Women are more likely to be seen as “difficult to work with” if they refuse to do favors when requested. Being viewed as ungenerous has negative social and professional consequences.

So yes, even gay men benefit. All men benefit from women’s reinforced fear of being hurt, not just physically, but also socially and professionally, for saying no to anything at all.

lierdumoa

Re: above; just in case it looks like I’m just pulling facts out of my ass, here are my sources:

http://blogs.wsj.com/atwork/2013/10/29/women-work-and-the-girl-scout-tax/

http://thinkprogress.org/economy/2013/10/30/2858091/women-workers-favors/

http://www.slate.com/blogs/moneybox/2013/01/06/women_do_favors_more_than_men.html

http://www.opposingviews.com/i/society/men-are-less-likely-be-asked-favors-workplace-get-more-appreciation-helping

postcardsfromspace

This is important.

Thinking a lot lately about how this stuff plays out in two circles where I spend a lot of time–the comics community, and the development / implementation of CoCs and harassment policies; and how it intersects with both of those for freelancers in particular.

Evening walk

1979 Kenwood KD-5077 turntable.

Flickr: https://flic.kr/p/vAa2JX

#Music

gosh

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I wonder if my dog always follows me into the bathroom when i have to go because I always follow him outside when he does and he just thinks that’s how it works

actualdogvines

so gentle

so kind

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