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wtf is wrong with tumblr? now I can't even send asks anymore. not anonymous and not public and my notes are still not showing up
Tumblr doesn't let me reblog from you. You're ignoring the point that homosexual transsexuals are homosexual. That's why they were included. Heterosexual Transsexuals like most current identified transes are have no place in the LGB community since they're not homosexual. Transes do have something to do with sexuality when heterosexuals like "gay trans"men"" and "lesbian trans"women"" attack us homosexuals (TM) -yes real ones- for not fucking them and giving access to our bodies for their fetish
“If you’re not a pure unadulterated Kinsey 6 in your birth sex, FUCK YOU!”
Trust me, most trans people- screw that, most people, period- would not want to date someone as pretentious, female-supremacist, gay-supremacist, and just assholish as you are. This is why most of my friends are straight and not trans IRL- less fucking drama, less oppression Olympics bullshit.
If you don’t want me in “LG” spaces, I don’t fucking care. As I said before, I’m gonna go hang around my straight friends….but you’d still be mad at me for doing so for some reason or another. Plus I personally do not date ANYONE for a variety of reasons. You’re barking up the wrong tree here. Ask someone who actually cares about dating and/or is still insecure about being trans in the first place.
Bisexuals aren’t homosexual either. And please stop fucking pretending y’all include the B. You only ever show support of the B when it’s to paint this is whole bullshit as “LGB Vs the T” rather than “fringe transphobic ideology vs. the T.”
And again, historically, IT WAS NEVER JUST HOMOSEXUAL TRANSSEXUALS. A LOT OF THE ONES IDENTIFIED AS THAT WAY WEREN’T EVEN HOMOSEXUAL. BECAUSE YOUR STUPID ASS STANDARD FOR WHO GETS TO BE IN THIS COMMUNITY IS STUPID AND ALWAYS HAS BEEN.
All trans people belog in the LGBT+ community, regardless of sexual orientation. There’s a reason “Drop the T” failed and always will. Get the fuck over it. This isn’t some club you can kick people out of for not having the exact same experiences as you, this is a community formed before you were born by people who would be disgusted by you.
Wrong again. "Drop the T" didn't fail, our protest is still ongoing and I will not get over it. Especially when getting berated by a pedophile like you. Interesting that you identify as a trans"woman". And interesting that most transmales have a history of child abuse and sexual assault against women. Seems to be a correlation.
The B gets included because they share our same sex attraction but yes if bisexuals have a long term partner in a hetero relationship they undoubtedly benefit from this heteronormative society we live in and thus don't experience nor share the problems of homosexuals. If bi women want to talk about their male partner I don't really want to hear it since I as a lesbian don't need talk about the life of a hetero relationship and I and every other lesbian have a right to only have w/w spaces.
Yes this isn't some club. It's a safe space for people who are same sex attracted. That has no correlation whatsoever in whichever gender party you all engage in.
Yuck.
I am not a tehm, but honey I want dick. A big ass dick. Some other gay dude might be attracted to you, move along.
No gay man is into females, not a single one.
that last one is really something. notice how she rules out every individual opportunity to say no as unacceptable until there's nothing left. you can't give a preemptive blanket no. you can't say no upon disclosure. you can't even say no if it gets all the way to the bedroom because supposedly "it shouldn't matter" by then that you've been led to expect you'll be sleeping with someone of the same sex only to have the rug pulled out at the last minute. the takeaway of course being that it's never acceptable as a gay person to say no to someone of the opposite sex. ever.
Not only this, but also he’s talking about it like it’s a very okay thing to do. Spreading the idea that this is a “normal” way to think and to behave.
This isn’t okay ever, and it’s even dangerous for both parties. You DO have an obligation to tell someone you’re trans before you get to the bedroom, and you DO have to accept sexual orientation isn’t transphobic. Body parts DO matter.
I agree that you have to tell people, I agree that it's not transphobic if they just aren't into trans people, etc... but are we all just gonna ignore the dude who said "no gay man is into females", seemingly arguing against the dude who said another gay man will be potentially be into a transguy? There are plenty of gay and straight people who like trans people of their preferred gender, and saying that they're not allowed to like who they like is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like, whichever way around it is. Just find somebody who likes you and be happy, live and let live, etc... stop with these ridiculous arguments.
"I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like"
Lmao it's not a fascination, the transes are literally trying to change the meaning of homosexuality to include the opposite sex. No homosexual male is into females even if the alter their body to imitate another male. There is no amounts of surgeries or horsepiss-hormones that make a lesbian like a trans"woman". Because they're fucking male.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it's literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we're attracted to, so it's our damn right to defend our attraction.
These "plenty of gay and straight people who like people of their preferred gender (delusions)" are not homosexual. Some lesbians might be into trans"men" and some gay men into trans"women" (provided they don't care about being with a mentally deluded person who chose to butcher their private parts). But no homosexual male OR female is going to be with the opposite sex.
Homosexual males are not into fake-arm-tissue-dick and homosexual females will never touch an attempt of an inverted penis.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it’s literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we’re attracted to, so it’s our damn right to defend our attraction.
You understand that we have as much evidences supporting the fact that transsexualism is biological, as we have supporting homosexuality is biological, right? Saying this is kind of things is shooting yourself in the foot. I already know a lot of homophobes saying that since we didn’t remove the possibility that homosexuality could be due to social constructs (and never will), it could very well be “fluid” or simply constructed with the years. The same thing you claim for transsexualism, basically. So which is it? You can’t have both. Either both are biological, or either both are socially constructed. Cherry picking one that would be biological while the other isn’t just because it suits your ideology is dumb as fuck.
Study regarding sexuality and particularly trans women with males show that heterosexual males can be attracted to trans women pre-SRS and still be heterosexuals. So by definition, it doesn’t change their sexuality, it’s more complex than that, and only a minority of heterosexual males are actually interested in trans women pre-SRS. Gay men are also very rarely interested in trans women pre/post-SRS, from the same study. But you’re right, people can’t change their attraction, and we should defend our right to say no to anyone. I wish we could have more studies regarding this because it is interesting, but for now, that’s all we have and it doesn’t go your way. Don’t forget that paraphilias regarding cross-dressing, mismatching sex/body exist too and might be playing a bigger part than we know today.
Next time, please be more polite regarding the bodies of trans people, even if you don’t like us.
lmao I'm not gonna be more polite to troons who want to erase homosexuality. There are no exceptions. Homosexuals like the same SEX not gender "identity". And like you suprisingly correctly said how do we know that those participants of the studies that "supposedly" proved heterosexual men are into trans"women" are actually heterosexual and not homosexual or bisexual male feteshists who like the idea of femenized men (more often than not as a power play because they see feminity as an inferiour trait)? Or whatever else paraphilias they have.
And whatever are you talking about? What cherry picking? Homosexuality is definitively proven by science to be inborn and not "curable" by therapy. Transgenderism on the other hand is not well researched enough to definitively say it's inborn and that it's not induced by societies misogynistic influences.
It's really sad we live in a world where it's easier to escape by "changing your sex" instead of accepting your female body.
@ilililian damn right no one takes you seriously if the "rights" you demand are access to homosexual and female spaces and the right to have your little cosmetic surgeries covered by insurance. Try searching for a better therapist. All they want to do is make money that's why they prescribe you gullibles HRT so fast. For you it's not to late I see. You can still stop taking testosterone. 3 months normally don't inclict much harm on your female body.
Wow, you're highkey an asshole.
"troons who want to erase homosexuality" again, nobody's erasing homosexuality, even the people who want everyone to be attracted to trans people, but in this conversation the people who disagree with you are just saying "hey, some gay people like trans people"
there are exceptions, deal with it
People are attracted to sex characteristics, personality, other features of appearance, and so on, not chromosomes - so yes, you can be exclusively attracted to one set of sex characteristics, but that does not necessarily exclude trans people. It can. It often does. But it doesn't necessarily and those people's lives should not impact you or matter to you. Your fascination with dictating to other gays who they're allowed to like is honestly ridiculous - just like the fascination with insisting gay people like trans people is ridiculous. Like I said at the beginning, live and let live.
The cherrypicking is that gender dysphoria is neurological, it's inborn, it's not curable (transition is however the best treatment, it's definitely not treatable via "therapy"), and it's been proven such - to the same extent that homosexuality has been.
Society isn't misogynistic, it shits on men just as much as it shits on women, in some cases more.
It's not easier to "escape", it's easier to cure a condition that you have. Were a woman who was not suffering from gender dysphoria to transition to male, she would get gender dysphoria, because her sex characteristics would now not align with her neurology. It would, were you without that medical condition, be easier to live in western society than to transition.
You were a patronising fuck to that other person, you're not their doctor, you don't know shit about them, and it's not a "cosmetic surgery", it's a medical treatment for a neurological condition.
I glady am a "highkey asshole" if it means saying the truth. these "exceptions" sound pretty bisexual to me. Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can't change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females.
Ah yes. "Gender dysphoria" aka body dysmorphia. A mistake a lot of troons make. It's not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe.
How come "gender dysphoria" is just a first-world problem then? Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don't make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?
This "cure" is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life. And please society isn't misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex? Don't come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don't have more rights than men. Lmao who are you kidding?
I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice. You really think these "gender specialists" care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money. But hey I won't stop you @ilililian. Go ahead and mutilate your body if it feels right. You're still gonna be a female though, because you were born that way with all the parts: breasts, clitoris, uterus, you can menstruate (what trans"women" claim to be able to do never can).
Better accept than soon. A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies. You can't escape. You are female, that's a biological reality.
Ok incel
Ok homophobe
How selfish and/or insecure in your sexuality do you have to be to think that trans people existing- not hitting on you or anything, just existing- is enough to completely change your sexual orientation as if their only purpose was to be a walking conversion therapy machine?Â
I know some trans people are very pushy and/or don’t want to reveal their status even before they sleep with people, I get it. I’m not a fan of those people either. But someone standing right next to you, minding their own damn business- and who, BTW, may not even be REMOTELY attracted to you- is not an immediate threat. They’re transitioning for themselves and not for you (in fact, externally motivated transitioners tend to get rejected by psychologists for hormones/surgery). Or is it that you think that you’re such hot shit that someone would transition specifically to get in YOUR pants?
Because y'all act like trans"women" never invade lesbian spaces and demand us to include them into our dating pool -> same with trans"men" for gay males. It has nothing to do with insecurity or selfishness ?? You really call us selfish for wanting to date the same sex? none of you seem to understand what homosexuality means. It means same SEX attraction, for Christ's sake.
I've seen so many trans identifieds say "we know we can't actually change our sex" If you know then why do you still believe lesbians can like trans"women" = males or gay males can like trans"men" = females?
Why can't you just let homosexuals be? it's not difficult. If a woman likes men and trans"men" she's bi not hetero. Homosexuality is biological. Trans"men" and trans"women" are such useless terms by now. They still mean female and male.
"Is not an immediate threat" The whole movement is a threat and you don't even realize what harm you've done by changing all the meanings of words. The already homophobic society looks at us LGB"T"s as a joke because of the fucking "T".
Lastly seeing as many fetishists are trans"women" they DO transition to try to get in our pants. The doctors nowadays throw HRT prescriptions out like candy and even to 10 year olds for just showing gnc behavior who are you kidding?
hi, delete if it's too personal. I'm only 4 months on testosterone and literally nothing changed. I've heard of a few cases where some trans men are immune to testo. I know I'm probably freaking out about nothing but every trans man I talked to said "bottom growth in first week", " acne after 2 weeks" "more hair after a week", " deep voice after max. 3 months". I don't see any of it. I wish I got acne just to see that it takes effect. When did you notice the first changes? Am I overreacting?
Hi anon!
Everybody is different, I can't say if it is normal or not, because I'm not a doctor. I would advise you to get a blood test to check your T level because maybe there is too much of it and it transformed into estrogen?
If it's not a level problem (could be too low too), then it may be because your body reacts to it differently and/or takes more time to have the changes. While it may be very uncommon, I don't think it's impossible. It could also be the method of getting T. Patches are less effectives that shots.
For my part I think the first week I had the bottom growth, I know my fat repartition on my face also changed very fast. I think hair and voice can take a while before manifesting itself. Bottom growth is supposedly very sensitive to high level of testosterone so it's more suspicious.
So yeah reaching for a doc and making sure everything is okay would be a good step. At the same time, having very little changes after 4 months must not be impossible either. Statistically speaking, you must have people who change faster than other, on different things. I stopped having periods as soon as I took T, but I know a friend who still got them for a whole year and a half.
Changes are very subtles and some can take a long time for some people and for other very little time. For example, I still have typical female fat on the hips after more than a year on T! Very frustrating for sure, but we need to be patient.
I'm not sure it's possible to be insensitive (even partially) to testosterone if you're not intersex XY, and you would surely know by now about it I think. 🤔 I'm clearly not an expert but that sounds unlikely in my opinion.
Edit: after reading, it is possible in XX females to be that way. In this case you have a pack of body hair, delayed puberty and/or are talk, according to wikipedia. Would be interesting to check it up if nothing else work, I suppose.
I hope it helps! Thank you for the ask.
Ah yes. The female body defending herself from outside harm.
Yuck.
I am not a tehm, but honey I want dick. A big ass dick. Some other gay dude might be attracted to you, move along.
No gay man is into females, not a single one.
that last one is really something. notice how she rules out every individual opportunity to say no as unacceptable until there's nothing left. you can't give a preemptive blanket no. you can't say no upon disclosure. you can't even say no if it gets all the way to the bedroom because supposedly "it shouldn't matter" by then that you've been led to expect you'll be sleeping with someone of the same sex only to have the rug pulled out at the last minute. the takeaway of course being that it's never acceptable as a gay person to say no to someone of the opposite sex. ever.
Not only this, but also he’s talking about it like it’s a very okay thing to do. Spreading the idea that this is a “normal” way to think and to behave.
This isn’t okay ever, and it’s even dangerous for both parties. You DO have an obligation to tell someone you’re trans before you get to the bedroom, and you DO have to accept sexual orientation isn’t transphobic. Body parts DO matter.
I agree that you have to tell people, I agree that it's not transphobic if they just aren't into trans people, etc... but are we all just gonna ignore the dude who said "no gay man is into females", seemingly arguing against the dude who said another gay man will be potentially be into a transguy? There are plenty of gay and straight people who like trans people of their preferred gender, and saying that they're not allowed to like who they like is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like, whichever way around it is. Just find somebody who likes you and be happy, live and let live, etc... stop with these ridiculous arguments.
"I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like"
Lmao it's not a fascination, the transes are literally trying to change the meaning of homosexuality to include the opposite sex. No homosexual male is into females even if the alter their body to imitate another male. There is no amounts of surgeries or horsepiss-hormones that make a lesbian like a trans"woman". Because they're fucking male.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it's literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we're attracted to, so it's our damn right to defend our attraction.
These "plenty of gay and straight people who like people of their preferred gender (delusions)" are not homosexual. Some lesbians might be into trans"men" and some gay men into trans"women" (provided they don't care about being with a mentally deluded person who chose to butcher their private parts). But no homosexual male OR female is going to be with the opposite sex.
Homosexual males are not into fake-arm-tissue-dick and homosexual females will never touch an attempt of an inverted penis.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it’s literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we’re attracted to, so it’s our damn right to defend our attraction.
You understand that we have as much evidences supporting the fact that transsexualism is biological, as we have supporting homosexuality is biological, right? Saying this is kind of things is shooting yourself in the foot. I already know a lot of homophobes saying that since we didn’t remove the possibility that homosexuality could be due to social constructs (and never will), it could very well be “fluid” or simply constructed with the years. The same thing you claim for transsexualism, basically. So which is it? You can’t have both. Either both are biological, or either both are socially constructed. Cherry picking one that would be biological while the other isn’t just because it suits your ideology is dumb as fuck.
Study regarding sexuality and particularly trans women with males show that heterosexual males can be attracted to trans women pre-SRS and still be heterosexuals. So by definition, it doesn’t change their sexuality, it’s more complex than that, and only a minority of heterosexual males are actually interested in trans women pre-SRS. Gay men are also very rarely interested in trans women pre/post-SRS, from the same study. But you’re right, people can’t change their attraction, and we should defend our right to say no to anyone. I wish we could have more studies regarding this because it is interesting, but for now, that’s all we have and it doesn’t go your way. Don’t forget that paraphilias regarding cross-dressing, mismatching sex/body exist too and might be playing a bigger part than we know today.
Next time, please be more polite regarding the bodies of trans people, even if you don’t like us.
lmao I'm not gonna be more polite to troons who want to erase homosexuality. There are no exceptions. Homosexuals like the same SEX not gender "identity". And like you suprisingly correctly said how do we know that those participants of the studies that "supposedly" proved heterosexual men are into trans"women" are actually heterosexual and not homosexual or bisexual male feteshists who like the idea of femenized men (more often than not as a power play because they see feminity as an inferiour trait)? Or whatever else paraphilias they have.
And whatever are you talking about? What cherry picking? Homosexuality is definitively proven by science to be inborn and not "curable" by therapy. Transgenderism on the other hand is not well researched enough to definitively say it's inborn and that it's not induced by societies misogynistic influences.
It's really sad we live in a world where it's easier to escape by "changing your sex" instead of accepting your female body.
@ilililian damn right no one takes you seriously if the "rights" you demand are access to homosexual and female spaces and the right to have your little cosmetic surgeries covered by insurance. Try searching for a better therapist. All they want to do is make money that's why they prescribe you gullibles HRT so fast. For you it's not to late I see. You can still stop taking testosterone. 3 months normally don't inclict much harm on your female body.
Wow, you're highkey an asshole.
"troons who want to erase homosexuality" again, nobody's erasing homosexuality, even the people who want everyone to be attracted to trans people, but in this conversation the people who disagree with you are just saying "hey, some gay people like trans people"
there are exceptions, deal with it
People are attracted to sex characteristics, personality, other features of appearance, and so on, not chromosomes - so yes, you can be exclusively attracted to one set of sex characteristics, but that does not necessarily exclude trans people. It can. It often does. But it doesn't necessarily and those people's lives should not impact you or matter to you. Your fascination with dictating to other gays who they're allowed to like is honestly ridiculous - just like the fascination with insisting gay people like trans people is ridiculous. Like I said at the beginning, live and let live.
The cherrypicking is that gender dysphoria is neurological, it's inborn, it's not curable (transition is however the best treatment, it's definitely not treatable via "therapy"), and it's been proven such - to the same extent that homosexuality has been.
Society isn't misogynistic, it shits on men just as much as it shits on women, in some cases more.
It's not easier to "escape", it's easier to cure a condition that you have. Were a woman who was not suffering from gender dysphoria to transition to male, she would get gender dysphoria, because her sex characteristics would now not align with her neurology. It would, were you without that medical condition, be easier to live in western society than to transition.
You were a patronising fuck to that other person, you're not their doctor, you don't know shit about them, and it's not a "cosmetic surgery", it's a medical treatment for a neurological condition.
I glady am a "highkey asshole" if it means saying the truth. these "exceptions" sound pretty bisexual to me. Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can't change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females.
Ah yes. "Gender dysphoria" aka body dysmorphia. A mistake a lot of troons make. It's not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe.
How come "gender dysphoria" is just a first-world problem then? Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don't make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?
This "cure" is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life. And please society isn't misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex? Don't come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don't have more rights than men. Lmao who are you kidding?
I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice. You really think these "gender specialists" care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money. But hey I won't stop you @ilililian. Go ahead and mutilate your body if it feels right. You're still gonna be a female though, because you were born that way with all the parts: breasts, clitoris, uterus, you can menstruate (what trans"women" claim to be able to do never can).
Better accept than soon. A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies. You can't escape. You are female, that's a biological reality.
"these “exceptions” sound pretty bisexual to me."
Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner.
"Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can’t change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females."
Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid.
"Ah yes. “Gender dysphoria” aka body dysmorphia."
Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology.
"It’s not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe."
Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason.
"How come “gender dysphoria” is just a first-world problem then?"
It's not. People in other countries suffer from it.
"Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don’t make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?"
You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations.
"This “cure” is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life."
I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps.
"And please society isn’t misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex?"
Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit.
"Don’t come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don’t have more rights than men."
Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally.
"I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice."
Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals.
"You really think these “gender specialists” care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money."
Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not.
"A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies."
And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life.
Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you.
"You can’t escape. You are female, that’s a biological reality."
Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish.
"Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner."
- That's being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn't like males either.
"Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid."
- If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn't tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception.
"Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology."
- Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they're heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females.
"Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason."
- One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body.
"It's not. People in other countries suffer from it"
- Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their "felt gender"
"You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations."
- Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don't even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don't have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren't there. They try to fix things that weren't a problem to begin with.
"I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps."
- In case of these transes they don't have physical pain, they don't have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!
"Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit."
- Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can't be in favor of women if it's controlled by men they just can't hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it's no where near the numbers of female rape victims.
"Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally. "
- Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights.
"Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals."
- My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do.
"Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not."
- Then you don't know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many "scientific studies" are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She's skilled in that department.
"And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life."
- Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next.
"Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you."
- As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than "don't trigger my dysphoria uwu". That's pathetic. The only thing she's triggered off is that I don't cater to her role play.
"Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish."
- Transition doesn't change anything. It's literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It's not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don't think I'm spooky I'm telling the truth.
"That’s being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn’t like males either."
She doesn't like women. She likes men and transmen. That's not bisexual or lesbian. It would be misleading to call herself bisexual.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
It's wrong to sleep with someone without telling them of your status, but you're incorrect when you say that every single gay person loses their attraction at the point of being told. You're simply incorrect.
"Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they’re heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females."
They are different conditions with different criteria. Go actually study psychology and learn the medical definitions of words before you go throwing them around willy-nilly.
"One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body."
Gay men and bisexuals can all also experience corrective rape. So can trans people. And it's not just "reconnecting with their natural body", it's ineffective, often torture like, practices that do not do anything to treat the underlying condition - gender dysphoria.
"Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their “felt gender”"
Genetically Modified Skeptic did a video a little while ago about fundamentalism in Israel, and his guide was a trans person who lives there iirc. There are lots of trans people around the world, including in war torn countries. Gender dysphoria isn't just about daydreaming about gender, it's a persistent discomfort due to one's sex characteristics.
"Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don’t even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don’t have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren’t there. They try to fix things that weren’t a problem to begin with."
Gender dysphoria is treated by transition, and once it's been properly assessed and diagnosed then that's what any "proper therapist" will refer you for. That is what trans people are, and your degrading assumptions that most trans people are doing it for attention, fetish, or loneliness are based on internet arguments with teenagers, who of course have a lot of other shit going on in their lives and aren't the most emotionally well equipped. There are sometimes people who are wrong, who don't have the condition, and a proper therapist can figure out the difference and refer people to the correct treatment for them - to disregard all trans people over the mistakes of a few struggling teenagers is dumb.
"In case of these transes they don’t have physical pain, they don’t have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!"
Physical pain is not the only kind of pain, and gender dysphoria is a serious condition with dangerous consequences and a lot of pain if left untreated. The suicide rate does not increase - if you're basing that nonsense on the Swedish study or that study where people mistakenly thought a lifetime rate was a post-treatment rate, then I've already debunked that. I'm assuming it's the latter, since that's the one that most people defer to... I hope you know the difference between lifetime rates and post-treatment rates.
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/129625828802/have-you-done-stuff-on-how-most-post-op-trans
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/132497292602/no-the-swedish-study-does-not-say-that
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438812697/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183501276652/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438300362/eeveelutionsforequality
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183425718332/i-forgot-to-mention-in-that-chart-the-rate-of
"Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can’t be in favor of women if it’s controlled by men they just can’t hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it’s no where near the numbers of female rape victims."
I literally just told you that even CDC stats show men as victims more when you account for prison and made to penetrate, and with my own country not even counting men victimised by women as rape... is it any wonder that the stats often don't include male victims for bullshit reasons, and therefore inflate the difference. Men are victims of all the stuff you said - street harassment, rape, and murder - as well as being more likely to be victims of violent crime, to receive harsher sentences, to not have their rape even legally recognised as rape, genital mutilation as babies and children being legal. Do you think a little boy being raped by a woman and then it not even legally counting as rape, her getting a lesser sentence, and even potentially her being able to claim child support, is not as bad as some mean words being yelled at you in the street? Because that was what your argument at the beginning of that paragraph seemed to be.
"Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights."
Women can get abortions in my country. Men and women can both have or lose bodily autonomy in medical situations, that's the same for everyone. Women have the same wages as men, once you account for hours worked, jobs chosen, etc. Men are sexualised in media too. Men are expected to be sexually available even as fucking children - have you not seen all of the disgusting people who say that teenage boys raped by women are lucky, wanted it, etc?? Again, I talked about rape laws not even including male victims, and you brought the repeatedly debunked wage gap to the table to claim that women have it worse... wow.
"My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do."
He's happy with his choice, so leave him be. It's not your job to convert people. Politely advise people to talk to therapists and make sure they've made the right choice, sure, but that's not what you did and you were far from polite. You talked about his private body parts, you badgered him, you keep tagging him after he asked to be left alone, etc.
"Then you don’t know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many “scientific studies” are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She’s skilled in that department."
Me and insidious don't get along iirc. Besides, where I live there's a national health service - now, I don't trust the faceless bureaucrats in charge, I don't trust administration, etc, but I know that the doctors aren't making bank off this, there's not enough centers, there's not enough doctors, they're stretched thin and doing their best to figure out who needs help and give the right help to them. You keep demanding I give you studies, yet you keep saying that you refuse to trust those studies... I've seen that trick from anti-vaxxers and woo salesmen and cultists before, and I'm not an idiot. You don't trust anything that I'd provide you with, and you will twist the wording any which way you like, but you'll keep demanding more sources, more energy, more time, because you think eventually one of them will actually have a flaw and I'll actually buy your snakeoil.
"Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next."
You said, in your earlier reply, that escaping via transition was better than living as a woman, and that was why people transitioned... now you're changing your tune and it's actually better to live as a woman, because that's what currently suits your narrative? It's not body destroying. It's a hormone not uranium. If you genuinely have gender dysphoria, treating it actually does feel better.
"As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than “don’t trigger my dysphoria uwu”. That’s pathetic. The only thing she’s triggered off is that I don’t cater to her role play."
Stop tagging him when he asked you to leave him alone, you hag. You described body parts that you know cause dysphoria, that's intentionally triggering somebody. Not catering to somebody's dysphoria is one thing, outright setting out to aggravate it by listing things that trigger it is another.
"Transition doesn’t change anything. It’s literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It’s not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don’t think I’m spooky I’m telling the truth."
Transition literally changes the hormones in your body, your body fat distribution, your muscle mass, your red blood cell count, and I could go on. It's a lot more than a cosmetic surgery, and it's a medical treatment for a medical condition. You're the one trying to redefine words (bisexual, delusion, gender dysphoria, and body dysmorphia, to give a few examples), trying to dictate people's sexuality to them, talking over bisexuals on what their sexuality means, talking over gay people who like trans people, and trying to convert trans people. Nobody here is trying to convert anyone - my argument has consistently been that some do and some don't and that's that. Nowhere on this post did anyone support transition before somebody is old enough to make drastic life decisions. You're not telling the truth, you're preaching an incorrect gospel.
Anyway, I think I'm done arguing with this brick wall, it's pointless.
@eeveelutionsforequality
“She doesn’t like women. She likes men and transmen. That’s not bisexual or lesbian. It would be misleading to call herself bisexual.“
-         If she likes only men AND trans”men” she’s not heterosexual since trans”men” are female and humans can’t change sex. You cling so hard to the notion that homosexuals can like the opposite or heterosexuals can like the same sex when it’s dead wrong. She may be attracted to a trans”man” by her looks if she “passes” well enough but there are tons of problems with this relationship. The trans”man” since she’s female doesn’t have a penis, most trans”men” don’t get “bottom surgery” and the ones who do end up with a tube sewn over their uterus. It looks nothing like a real penis and doesn’t function like one. She (the trans”man”) can’t give her partner children and can’t satisfy her sexually since she isn’t into vagina when she’s heterosexual. For many people  a sexual relationship is important and don’t want to repress their sexual desires.
“It’s wrong to sleep with someone without telling them of your status, but you’re incorrect when you say that every single gay person loses their attraction at the point of being told. You’re simply incorrect.“
-         If they don’t lose their attraction at the point of being told they’re not homosexuals. Homosexuals date the same SEX you homophobe.
“They are different conditions with different criteria. Go actually study psychology and learn the medical definitions of words before you go throwing them around willy-nilly.”
-         You don’t have to study psychology to understand how biology works. What different criteria are you talking about?
“Gay men and bisexuals can all also experience corrective rape. So can trans people. And it’s not just “reconnecting with their natural body”, it’s ineffective, often torture like, practices that do not do anything to treat the underlying condition - gender dysphoria.”
-         Yes they can also experience corrective rape I didn’t mention it since it doesn’t happen on the same scale but yes it happens. How is it ineffective if I personally know dysphoric females who treated their dysphoria? Luckily there are more and more gender critical therapist rising in the US who actually help gender confused children and teenagers. What torture like practices exactly? Unrolling the possible underlying trauma that comes with growing up a female in a misogynistic society? Helping them with body dysmorphia which is also a common occurrence in trans identifieds since they project their body issues on their gender. There is no scientific study that proves “gender dysphoria” is neurological and untreatable by therapy.
“Genetically Modified Skeptic did a video a little while ago about fundamentalism in Israel, and his guide was a trans person who lives there iirc. There are lots of trans people around the world, including in war torn countries. Gender dysphoria isn’t just about daydreaming about gender, it’s a persistent discomfort due to one’s sex characteristics.“
-         Why are all of this “trans” people appearing now? Where are the historical “trans” persons? “It’s a persistent discomfort due to ones’s sex characteristic” Gee I wonder if it’s because especially in war torn countries women and children are the main victims of rape and thus disconnect from their body to escape the reality. You can’t deny that identifying as trans became a trend in western countries.
“Gender dysphoria is treated by transition, and once it’s been properly assessed and diagnosed then that’s what any “proper therapist” will refer you for. That is what trans people are, and your degrading assumptions that most trans people are doing it for attention, fetish, or loneliness are based on internet arguments with teenagers, who of course have a lot of other shit going on in their lives and aren’t the most emotionally well equipped. There are sometimes people who are wrong, who don’t have the condition, and a proper therapist can figure out the difference and refer people to the correct treatment for them - to disregard all trans people over the mistakes of a few struggling teenagers is dumb.”
-         “Proper therapists” usually try to treat a condition without relying on harmful meds. Comparable with depression. They try to unroll the trauma of the patient and find a possible cause for depression and help the person on basis of that. I’m not saying antidepressant can’t help before you put words in my mouth. They DO help and are sometimes necessary, but only as a last resort since antidepressants have high risks and side effects.
“Physical pain is not the only kind of pain, and gender dysphoria is a serious condition with dangerous consequences and a lot of pain if left untreated. The suicide rate does not increase - if you’re basing that nonsense on the Swedish study or that study where people mistakenly thought a lifetime rate was a post-treatment rate, then I’ve already debunked that. I’m assuming it’s the latter, since that’s the one that most people defer to… I hope you know the difference between lifetime rates and post-treatment rates.”
-         Then why don’t more people “fully transition” if it’s so helpful? Most trans identifieds are not even taking opposite sex hormones and less are getting some kind of surgery.
“Women can get abortions in my country. Men and women can both have or lose bodily autonomy in medical situations, that’s the same for everyone. Women have the same wages as men, once you account for hours worked, jobs chosen, etc. Men are sexualised in media too. Men are expected to be sexually available even as fucking children - have you not seen all of the disgusting people who say that teenage boys raped by women are lucky, wanted it, etc?? Again, I talked about rape laws not even including male victims, and you brought the repeatedly debunked wage gap to the table to claim that women have it worse… wow.“
-         The wage gap isn’t a fucking myth. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/no-the-gender-pay-gap-isnt-a-myth-and-heres-why_n_5703cb8de4b0a06d5806e03f?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly9kdWNrZHVja2dvLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAADFJuXb4rZKSKVNdVUJ01jcqle9h4Kwzxp7-j2jEzbAajphxXauiq9Q1y316BORWy24fKu90_WJajjai3yM_yaphSfQwJsn_J0gvmravgBWIJnQLW0-hOS0jnyFYJyHjEj0Ya2d2gUg2T4QFujFDvbHNZIir8m9tm6UVpZPeMzbX
-         Men aren’t sexualized the same way as women. Women are portrayed as fuck objects when men are literally portraying their power fantasy in all of these superhero movies. They don’t make them this way because women demand it, no one in the media gives a shit about what women like anyway since they’re again male dominated.
-         Women in the US can’t get their tubes tied without their male partners approval– even if they’re single –  and they need to be at least 25. That’s not bodily autonomy. Maybe I should pretend to be a fucking trans”man” so I can get my uterus removed.
“He’s happy with his choice, so leave him be. It’s not your job to convert people. Politely advise people to talk to therapists and make sure they’ve made the right choice, sure, but that’s not what you did and you were far from polite. You talked about his private body parts, you badgered him, you keep tagging him after he asked to be left alone, etc.“
-         I was polite before I was accepting of all you transes and actually supporting you, but you’ve crossed so many lines. Redefining womanhood, completely erasing biological sex and demanding homosexuals to give up their spaces. I’m done with polite. I’ve reached peak trans. “his private body parts” lmao. That’s what I’m talking about. You all are so engaged in your little role play and deny your own biological sex. She has FEMALE GENITALS because she is FEMALE and no one can ever change that. Trans identifieds like her who pursue “sex change” are not harmless. They further normalize the idea that identifying as trans should be supported when it’s harmful. Harmful for children, unnecessarily confusing them, projecting issues on their gender, normalizing escaping from femaleness, invading homosexual and female spaces, normalizing body mutilation, convincing everyone that humans can change sex when they can’t. She never “was” female, she is and always will be, no matter how many surgeries she gets.
“Me and insidious don’t get along iirc. Besides, where I live there’s a national health service - now, I don’t trust the faceless bureaucrats in charge, I don’t trust administration, etc, but I know that the doctors aren’t making bank off this, there’s not enough centers, there’s not enough doctors, they’re stretched thin and doing their best to figure out who needs help and give the right help to them. You keep demanding I give you studies, yet you keep saying that you refuse to trust those studies… I’ve seen that trick from anti-vaxxers and woo salesmen and cultists before, and I’m not an idiot. You don’t trust anything that I’d provide you with, and you will twist the wording any which way you like, but you’ll keep demanding more sources, more energy, more time, because you think eventually one of them will actually have a flaw and I’ll actually buy your snakeoil.”
-         Don’t along since she’s another intellectual you can’t argue with and someone who actually has knowledge in the medical and genetic fields? Why don’t you provide some sources then if you’re convinced they don’t have a flaw? Give me actual peer reviewed studies that unmistakably show that “gender dysphoria” exists and “transition” is the only cure for it.
“You said, in your earlier reply, that escaping via transition was better than living as a woman, and that was why people transitioned… now you’re changing your tune and it’s actually better to live as a woman, because that’s what currently suits your narrative? It’s not body destroying. It’s a hormone not uranium. If you genuinely have gender dysphoria, treating it actually does feel better.”
-         It’s better to live in a healthy body and fight for women rights is what I’m saying. Detransitioned females realized these meds are harming their bodies and because of that detransitioned. Pumping opposite sex hormones in a body that doesn’t naturally produce them IS harmful. Trans”men” will have higher risks of heart attack – I know females also produce testosterone before you again try to lecture me, but not on the same scale and proportion as males-
“Stop tagging him when he asked you to leave him alone, you hag. You described body parts that you know cause dysphoria, that’s intentionally triggering somebody. Not catering to somebody’s dysphoria is one thing, outright setting out to aggravate it by listing things that trigger it is another.”
-         Gender dysphoria doesn’t fucking exist. You can’t trigger something that doesn’t exist. So we females can never talk about our periods, uterus and female body parts just because it upsets the feeling of some troons? We have to keep shut because it triggers trans”women” because they’re jealous they don’t have these parts and we have to keep shut because trans”men” have them? You just admit you want to silence women.
“Transition literally changes the hormones in your body, your body fat distribution, your muscle mass, your red blood cell count, and I could go on. It’s a lot more than a cosmetic surgery, and it’s a medical treatment for a medical condition. You’re the one trying to redefine words (bisexual, delusion, gender dysphoria, and body dysmorphia, to give a few examples), trying to dictate people’s sexuality to them, talking over bisexuals on what their sexuality means, talking over gay people who like trans people, and trying to convert trans people. Nobody here is trying to convert anyone - my argument has consistently been that some do and some don’t and that’s that. Nowhere on this post did anyone support transition before somebody is old enough to make drastic life decisions. You’re not telling the truth, you’re preaching an incorrect gospel.”
-         Gay people can like trans identifieds. We even have a long history together. Homosexual transsexuals ring a bell? Trans”women” have dated gay men and Trans”men” have dated lesbians.  And no one tries to convert anyone? Look at any receipt blog, opabinawillreturn has a fucking list of all you troons who demand lesbians to try dick and gay men to try pussy.
@transsexual-power
I had to make a new post since tumblr for some reason won't let me reblog from you.
In addition to this post:
https://transsexual-power.tumblr.com/post/190938338153/theeviltervenwitch-transsexual-power
I'm the android sent by big pharma           The day we see a lesbian couple being beaten up every week will be the day I'll take your seriously regarding this. Males who are feminine a                 I'm the android sent by big pharma      Â
Lesbians DO get beaten up quite often and on top of that have to endure the over sexualization portrayed by the media, in porn and general society AND fall victim to corrective rape FAR more often than male homosexuals
And I never said lesbians have it worse than gay males. each of us experience unique discrimination but transes will never know what it feels like. Every "trans discrimination" is a product of our homophobic and misogynistic society. If we solve those "transphobia" wouldn't exist and neither would "trans people"
Token gays like adaar and hello-im-a-homosexual who don't date "dickless people" aka females but are fine with trans"men" with arm-tissue-dicks. Right. Â
Trans"men" are female and no real male homosexuals will ever date a female just because she got a fake phallo sewn over her vagina. Also judging from hello-im-a-homosexuals bio it seems like he's dating the girl I argued with before - @ilililian who's only 3 months on testosterone. So she doesn't even have a fake dick. -> Not a homosexual
And did you forget or conveniently ignore the over reporting of trans deaths by the media. "Shocking numbers of trans deaths, Why are so many trans people dying?" as the headlines . 18. Only 18 "trans people" in 2018 in the US of whom all but one were black. So it's definitely a racism problem and not because of "trans discrimination"
Yuck.
I am not a tehm, but honey I want dick. A big ass dick. Some other gay dude might be attracted to you, move along.
No gay man is into females, not a single one.
that last one is really something. notice how she rules out every individual opportunity to say no as unacceptable until there's nothing left. you can't give a preemptive blanket no. you can't say no upon disclosure. you can't even say no if it gets all the way to the bedroom because supposedly "it shouldn't matter" by then that you've been led to expect you'll be sleeping with someone of the same sex only to have the rug pulled out at the last minute. the takeaway of course being that it's never acceptable as a gay person to say no to someone of the opposite sex. ever.
Not only this, but also he’s talking about it like it’s a very okay thing to do. Spreading the idea that this is a “normal” way to think and to behave.
This isn’t okay ever, and it’s even dangerous for both parties. You DO have an obligation to tell someone you’re trans before you get to the bedroom, and you DO have to accept sexual orientation isn’t transphobic. Body parts DO matter.
I agree that you have to tell people, I agree that it's not transphobic if they just aren't into trans people, etc... but are we all just gonna ignore the dude who said "no gay man is into females", seemingly arguing against the dude who said another gay man will be potentially be into a transguy? There are plenty of gay and straight people who like trans people of their preferred gender, and saying that they're not allowed to like who they like is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like, whichever way around it is. Just find somebody who likes you and be happy, live and let live, etc... stop with these ridiculous arguments.
"I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like"
Lmao it's not a fascination, the transes are literally trying to change the meaning of homosexuality to include the opposite sex. No homosexual male is into females even if the alter their body to imitate another male. There is no amounts of surgeries or horsepiss-hormones that make a lesbian like a trans"woman". Because they're fucking male.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it's literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we're attracted to, so it's our damn right to defend our attraction.
These "plenty of gay and straight people who like people of their preferred gender (delusions)" are not homosexual. Some lesbians might be into trans"men" and some gay men into trans"women" (provided they don't care about being with a mentally deluded person who chose to butcher their private parts). But no homosexual male OR female is going to be with the opposite sex.
Homosexual males are not into fake-arm-tissue-dick and homosexual females will never touch an attempt of an inverted penis.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it’s literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we’re attracted to, so it’s our damn right to defend our attraction.
You understand that we have as much evidences supporting the fact that transsexualism is biological, as we have supporting homosexuality is biological, right? Saying this is kind of things is shooting yourself in the foot. I already know a lot of homophobes saying that since we didn’t remove the possibility that homosexuality could be due to social constructs (and never will), it could very well be “fluid” or simply constructed with the years. The same thing you claim for transsexualism, basically. So which is it? You can’t have both. Either both are biological, or either both are socially constructed. Cherry picking one that would be biological while the other isn’t just because it suits your ideology is dumb as fuck.
Study regarding sexuality and particularly trans women with males show that heterosexual males can be attracted to trans women pre-SRS and still be heterosexuals. So by definition, it doesn’t change their sexuality, it’s more complex than that, and only a minority of heterosexual males are actually interested in trans women pre-SRS. Gay men are also very rarely interested in trans women pre/post-SRS, from the same study. But you’re right, people can’t change their attraction, and we should defend our right to say no to anyone. I wish we could have more studies regarding this because it is interesting, but for now, that’s all we have and it doesn’t go your way. Don’t forget that paraphilias regarding cross-dressing, mismatching sex/body exist too and might be playing a bigger part than we know today.
Next time, please be more polite regarding the bodies of trans people, even if you don’t like us.
lmao I'm not gonna be more polite to troons who want to erase homosexuality. There are no exceptions. Homosexuals like the same SEX not gender "identity". And like you suprisingly correctly said how do we know that those participants of the studies that "supposedly" proved heterosexual men are into trans"women" are actually heterosexual and not homosexual or bisexual male feteshists who like the idea of femenized men (more often than not as a power play because they see feminity as an inferiour trait)? Or whatever else paraphilias they have.
And whatever are you talking about? What cherry picking? Homosexuality is definitively proven by science to be inborn and not "curable" by therapy. Transgenderism on the other hand is not well researched enough to definitively say it's inborn and that it's not induced by societies misogynistic influences.
It's really sad we live in a world where it's easier to escape by "changing your sex" instead of accepting your female body.
@ilililian damn right no one takes you seriously if the "rights" you demand are access to homosexual and female spaces and the right to have your little cosmetic surgeries covered by insurance. Try searching for a better therapist. All they want to do is make money that's why they prescribe you gullibles HRT so fast. For you it's not to late I see. You can still stop taking testosterone. 3 months normally don't inclict much harm on your female body.
Wow, you're highkey an asshole.
"troons who want to erase homosexuality" again, nobody's erasing homosexuality, even the people who want everyone to be attracted to trans people, but in this conversation the people who disagree with you are just saying "hey, some gay people like trans people"
there are exceptions, deal with it
People are attracted to sex characteristics, personality, other features of appearance, and so on, not chromosomes - so yes, you can be exclusively attracted to one set of sex characteristics, but that does not necessarily exclude trans people. It can. It often does. But it doesn't necessarily and those people's lives should not impact you or matter to you. Your fascination with dictating to other gays who they're allowed to like is honestly ridiculous - just like the fascination with insisting gay people like trans people is ridiculous. Like I said at the beginning, live and let live.
The cherrypicking is that gender dysphoria is neurological, it's inborn, it's not curable (transition is however the best treatment, it's definitely not treatable via "therapy"), and it's been proven such - to the same extent that homosexuality has been.
Society isn't misogynistic, it shits on men just as much as it shits on women, in some cases more.
It's not easier to "escape", it's easier to cure a condition that you have. Were a woman who was not suffering from gender dysphoria to transition to male, she would get gender dysphoria, because her sex characteristics would now not align with her neurology. It would, were you without that medical condition, be easier to live in western society than to transition.
You were a patronising fuck to that other person, you're not their doctor, you don't know shit about them, and it's not a "cosmetic surgery", it's a medical treatment for a neurological condition.
I glady am a "highkey asshole" if it means saying the truth. these "exceptions" sound pretty bisexual to me. Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can't change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females.
Ah yes. "Gender dysphoria" aka body dysmorphia. A mistake a lot of troons make. It's not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe.
How come "gender dysphoria" is just a first-world problem then? Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don't make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?
This "cure" is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life. And please society isn't misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex? Don't come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don't have more rights than men. Lmao who are you kidding?
I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice. You really think these "gender specialists" care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money. But hey I won't stop you @ilililian. Go ahead and mutilate your body if it feels right. You're still gonna be a female though, because you were born that way with all the parts: breasts, clitoris, uterus, you can menstruate (what trans"women" claim to be able to do never can).
Better accept than soon. A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies. You can't escape. You are female, that's a biological reality.
"these “exceptions” sound pretty bisexual to me."
Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner.
"Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can’t change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females."
Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid.
"Ah yes. “Gender dysphoria” aka body dysmorphia."
Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology.
"It’s not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe."
Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason.
"How come “gender dysphoria” is just a first-world problem then?"
It's not. People in other countries suffer from it.
"Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don’t make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?"
You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations.
"This “cure” is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life."
I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps.
"And please society isn’t misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex?"
Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit.
"Don’t come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don’t have more rights than men."
Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally.
"I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice."
Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals.
"You really think these “gender specialists” care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money."
Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not.
"A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies."
And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life.
Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you.
"You can’t escape. You are female, that’s a biological reality."
Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish.
"Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner."
- That's being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn't like males either.
"Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid."
- If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn't tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception.
"Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology."
- Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they're heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females.
"Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason."
- One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body.
"It's not. People in other countries suffer from it"
- Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their "felt gender"
"You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations."
- Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don't even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don't have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren't there. They try to fix things that weren't a problem to begin with.
"I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps."
- In case of these transes they don't have physical pain, they don't have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!
"Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit."
- Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can't be in favor of women if it's controlled by men they just can't hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it's no where near the numbers of female rape victims.
"Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally. "
- Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights.
"Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals."
- My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do.
"Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not."
- Then you don't know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many "scientific studies" are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She's skilled in that department.
"And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life."
- Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next.
"Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you."
- As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than "don't trigger my dysphoria uwu". That's pathetic. The only thing she's triggered off is that I don't cater to her role play.
"Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish."
- Transition doesn't change anything. It's literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It's not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don't think I'm spooky I'm telling the truth.
"That’s being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn’t like males either."
She doesn't like women. She likes men and transmen. That's not bisexual or lesbian. It would be misleading to call herself bisexual.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
It's wrong to sleep with someone without telling them of your status, but you're incorrect when you say that every single gay person loses their attraction at the point of being told. You're simply incorrect.
"Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they’re heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females."
They are different conditions with different criteria. Go actually study psychology and learn the medical definitions of words before you go throwing them around willy-nilly.
"One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body."
Gay men and bisexuals can all also experience corrective rape. So can trans people. And it's not just "reconnecting with their natural body", it's ineffective, often torture like, practices that do not do anything to treat the underlying condition - gender dysphoria.
"Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their “felt gender”"
Genetically Modified Skeptic did a video a little while ago about fundamentalism in Israel, and his guide was a trans person who lives there iirc. There are lots of trans people around the world, including in war torn countries. Gender dysphoria isn't just about daydreaming about gender, it's a persistent discomfort due to one's sex characteristics.
"Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don’t even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don’t have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren’t there. They try to fix things that weren’t a problem to begin with."
Gender dysphoria is treated by transition, and once it's been properly assessed and diagnosed then that's what any "proper therapist" will refer you for. That is what trans people are, and your degrading assumptions that most trans people are doing it for attention, fetish, or loneliness are based on internet arguments with teenagers, who of course have a lot of other shit going on in their lives and aren't the most emotionally well equipped. There are sometimes people who are wrong, who don't have the condition, and a proper therapist can figure out the difference and refer people to the correct treatment for them - to disregard all trans people over the mistakes of a few struggling teenagers is dumb.
"In case of these transes they don’t have physical pain, they don’t have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!"
Physical pain is not the only kind of pain, and gender dysphoria is a serious condition with dangerous consequences and a lot of pain if left untreated. The suicide rate does not increase - if you're basing that nonsense on the Swedish study or that study where people mistakenly thought a lifetime rate was a post-treatment rate, then I've already debunked that. I'm assuming it's the latter, since that's the one that most people defer to... I hope you know the difference between lifetime rates and post-treatment rates.
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/129625828802/have-you-done-stuff-on-how-most-post-op-trans
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/132497292602/no-the-swedish-study-does-not-say-that
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438812697/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183501276652/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438300362/eeveelutionsforequality
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183425718332/i-forgot-to-mention-in-that-chart-the-rate-of
"Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can’t be in favor of women if it’s controlled by men they just can’t hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it’s no where near the numbers of female rape victims."
I literally just told you that even CDC stats show men as victims more when you account for prison and made to penetrate, and with my own country not even counting men victimised by women as rape... is it any wonder that the stats often don't include male victims for bullshit reasons, and therefore inflate the difference. Men are victims of all the stuff you said - street harassment, rape, and murder - as well as being more likely to be victims of violent crime, to receive harsher sentences, to not have their rape even legally recognised as rape, genital mutilation as babies and children being legal. Do you think a little boy being raped by a woman and then it not even legally counting as rape, her getting a lesser sentence, and even potentially her being able to claim child support, is not as bad as some mean words being yelled at you in the street? Because that was what your argument at the beginning of that paragraph seemed to be.
"Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights."
Women can get abortions in my country. Men and women can both have or lose bodily autonomy in medical situations, that's the same for everyone. Women have the same wages as men, once you account for hours worked, jobs chosen, etc. Men are sexualised in media too. Men are expected to be sexually available even as fucking children - have you not seen all of the disgusting people who say that teenage boys raped by women are lucky, wanted it, etc?? Again, I talked about rape laws not even including male victims, and you brought the repeatedly debunked wage gap to the table to claim that women have it worse... wow.
"My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do."
He's happy with his choice, so leave him be. It's not your job to convert people. Politely advise people to talk to therapists and make sure they've made the right choice, sure, but that's not what you did and you were far from polite. You talked about his private body parts, you badgered him, you keep tagging him after he asked to be left alone, etc.
"Then you don’t know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many “scientific studies” are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She’s skilled in that department."
Me and insidious don't get along iirc. Besides, where I live there's a national health service - now, I don't trust the faceless bureaucrats in charge, I don't trust administration, etc, but I know that the doctors aren't making bank off this, there's not enough centers, there's not enough doctors, they're stretched thin and doing their best to figure out who needs help and give the right help to them. You keep demanding I give you studies, yet you keep saying that you refuse to trust those studies... I've seen that trick from anti-vaxxers and woo salesmen and cultists before, and I'm not an idiot. You don't trust anything that I'd provide you with, and you will twist the wording any which way you like, but you'll keep demanding more sources, more energy, more time, because you think eventually one of them will actually have a flaw and I'll actually buy your snakeoil.
"Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next."
You said, in your earlier reply, that escaping via transition was better than living as a woman, and that was why people transitioned... now you're changing your tune and it's actually better to live as a woman, because that's what currently suits your narrative? It's not body destroying. It's a hormone not uranium. If you genuinely have gender dysphoria, treating it actually does feel better.
"As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than “don’t trigger my dysphoria uwu”. That’s pathetic. The only thing she’s triggered off is that I don’t cater to her role play."
Stop tagging him when he asked you to leave him alone, you hag. You described body parts that you know cause dysphoria, that's intentionally triggering somebody. Not catering to somebody's dysphoria is one thing, outright setting out to aggravate it by listing things that trigger it is another.
"Transition doesn’t change anything. It’s literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It’s not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don’t think I’m spooky I’m telling the truth."
Transition literally changes the hormones in your body, your body fat distribution, your muscle mass, your red blood cell count, and I could go on. It's a lot more than a cosmetic surgery, and it's a medical treatment for a medical condition. You're the one trying to redefine words (bisexual, delusion, gender dysphoria, and body dysmorphia, to give a few examples), trying to dictate people's sexuality to them, talking over bisexuals on what their sexuality means, talking over gay people who like trans people, and trying to convert trans people. Nobody here is trying to convert anyone - my argument has consistently been that some do and some don't and that's that. Nowhere on this post did anyone support transition before somebody is old enough to make drastic life decisions. You're not telling the truth, you're preaching an incorrect gospel.
Anyway, I think I'm done arguing with this brick wall, it's pointless.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
This makes no sense. If it’s true that homosexual men and women can’t be attracted to trans men and women respectively, then they wouldn’t be attracted at all in the first place, without ever getting told. Im not attracted to women, guess what, I’ve never experienced being attracted to a woman til she tells me oh, I’m a woman btw.
Sexuality is based on percieved sex. Hence why a lesbian and a hetrosexual man can be attracted to a trans woman. Because she appears, to all your senses, to be female.
Certain things can completely erase your attraction to someone, but that doesn’t change your sexuality. Just because you’re a lesbian doesn’t mean you’re attracted to all women, just that you’re attracted to women. Just because I’m straight af, doesnt mean I’m attracted to all men, just that I’m attracted to men.
@theeviltervenwitch​ troon is mysogynistic anti gender noncomformity slur used against women that didn’t fit patriarchal standards of natural feminine appaearance and was then revived by the alt-rught as a insult for trans people that don’t pass, so idk my gay ass doesn’t really give a fuck about your whinning about who is erasing what when you can fall that easy on using barely erased mysogyny because you priritize being a unapologetic mean girl over using slurs
Being not interested in trans people or having someone’s trans status be a personal dealbreaker: I’m fine with that.
Telling everyone else how they MUST experience their sexuality (or their own gender politics, in this case as well) and just generally being a sexist, ableist, transphobic asshole: NOT COOL.
Telling people they MUST date trans people or they’re a transphobe regardless, or setting them up on a date with a trans friend as a “favor” regardless of how they feel about it: Also not cool.
(I’m actually more disturbed by this person saying that neurological issues/mental health issues are a CHOICE than I am the trans stuff and the policing everyone else’s sexuality. Fuck you and the horse you rode in on.)
We homosexuals are telling you to stop turning our sexuality into something else, to change the definition as something “flexible” enough to include the opposite sex. Just because the person mutilated themself enough to “pass” -> more like imitate the other sex doesn’t make them the other sex. You can’t change sex.
I didn’t say mental health issues are a choice, most females who identify as trans"men" do so because of severe trauma in that case they need to address their issues with a therapist and not seek out harmful meds. You think “gender” dysphoria is something neurological and unchangeable, but many females overcome their dysphoria and reidentified with their womanhood and accepted their body as everyone should. This dysphoria is often just body dysmorphia or other underlying trauma by e.g sexual assault.
Yuck.
I am not a tehm, but honey I want dick. A big ass dick. Some other gay dude might be attracted to you, move along.
No gay man is into females, not a single one.
that last one is really something. notice how she rules out every individual opportunity to say no as unacceptable until there's nothing left. you can't give a preemptive blanket no. you can't say no upon disclosure. you can't even say no if it gets all the way to the bedroom because supposedly "it shouldn't matter" by then that you've been led to expect you'll be sleeping with someone of the same sex only to have the rug pulled out at the last minute. the takeaway of course being that it's never acceptable as a gay person to say no to someone of the opposite sex. ever.
Not only this, but also he’s talking about it like it’s a very okay thing to do. Spreading the idea that this is a “normal” way to think and to behave.
This isn’t okay ever, and it’s even dangerous for both parties. You DO have an obligation to tell someone you’re trans before you get to the bedroom, and you DO have to accept sexual orientation isn’t transphobic. Body parts DO matter.
I agree that you have to tell people, I agree that it's not transphobic if they just aren't into trans people, etc... but are we all just gonna ignore the dude who said "no gay man is into females", seemingly arguing against the dude who said another gay man will be potentially be into a transguy? There are plenty of gay and straight people who like trans people of their preferred gender, and saying that they're not allowed to like who they like is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like, whichever way around it is. Just find somebody who likes you and be happy, live and let live, etc... stop with these ridiculous arguments.
"I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like"
Lmao it's not a fascination, the transes are literally trying to change the meaning of homosexuality to include the opposite sex. No homosexual male is into females even if the alter their body to imitate another male. There is no amounts of surgeries or horsepiss-hormones that make a lesbian like a trans"woman". Because they're fucking male.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it's literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we're attracted to, so it's our damn right to defend our attraction.
These "plenty of gay and straight people who like people of their preferred gender (delusions)" are not homosexual. Some lesbians might be into trans"men" and some gay men into trans"women" (provided they don't care about being with a mentally deluded person who chose to butcher their private parts). But no homosexual male OR female is going to be with the opposite sex.
Homosexual males are not into fake-arm-tissue-dick and homosexual females will never touch an attempt of an inverted penis.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it’s literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we’re attracted to, so it’s our damn right to defend our attraction.
You understand that we have as much evidences supporting the fact that transsexualism is biological, as we have supporting homosexuality is biological, right? Saying this is kind of things is shooting yourself in the foot. I already know a lot of homophobes saying that since we didn’t remove the possibility that homosexuality could be due to social constructs (and never will), it could very well be “fluid” or simply constructed with the years. The same thing you claim for transsexualism, basically. So which is it? You can’t have both. Either both are biological, or either both are socially constructed. Cherry picking one that would be biological while the other isn’t just because it suits your ideology is dumb as fuck.
Study regarding sexuality and particularly trans women with males show that heterosexual males can be attracted to trans women pre-SRS and still be heterosexuals. So by definition, it doesn’t change their sexuality, it’s more complex than that, and only a minority of heterosexual males are actually interested in trans women pre-SRS. Gay men are also very rarely interested in trans women pre/post-SRS, from the same study. But you’re right, people can’t change their attraction, and we should defend our right to say no to anyone. I wish we could have more studies regarding this because it is interesting, but for now, that’s all we have and it doesn’t go your way. Don’t forget that paraphilias regarding cross-dressing, mismatching sex/body exist too and might be playing a bigger part than we know today.
Next time, please be more polite regarding the bodies of trans people, even if you don’t like us.
lmao I'm not gonna be more polite to troons who want to erase homosexuality. There are no exceptions. Homosexuals like the same SEX not gender "identity". And like you suprisingly correctly said how do we know that those participants of the studies that "supposedly" proved heterosexual men are into trans"women" are actually heterosexual and not homosexual or bisexual male feteshists who like the idea of femenized men (more often than not as a power play because they see feminity as an inferiour trait)? Or whatever else paraphilias they have.
And whatever are you talking about? What cherry picking? Homosexuality is definitively proven by science to be inborn and not "curable" by therapy. Transgenderism on the other hand is not well researched enough to definitively say it's inborn and that it's not induced by societies misogynistic influences.
It's really sad we live in a world where it's easier to escape by "changing your sex" instead of accepting your female body.
@ilililian damn right no one takes you seriously if the "rights" you demand are access to homosexual and female spaces and the right to have your little cosmetic surgeries covered by insurance. Try searching for a better therapist. All they want to do is make money that's why they prescribe you gullibles HRT so fast. For you it's not to late I see. You can still stop taking testosterone. 3 months normally don't inclict much harm on your female body.
Wow, you're highkey an asshole.
"troons who want to erase homosexuality" again, nobody's erasing homosexuality, even the people who want everyone to be attracted to trans people, but in this conversation the people who disagree with you are just saying "hey, some gay people like trans people"
there are exceptions, deal with it
People are attracted to sex characteristics, personality, other features of appearance, and so on, not chromosomes - so yes, you can be exclusively attracted to one set of sex characteristics, but that does not necessarily exclude trans people. It can. It often does. But it doesn't necessarily and those people's lives should not impact you or matter to you. Your fascination with dictating to other gays who they're allowed to like is honestly ridiculous - just like the fascination with insisting gay people like trans people is ridiculous. Like I said at the beginning, live and let live.
The cherrypicking is that gender dysphoria is neurological, it's inborn, it's not curable (transition is however the best treatment, it's definitely not treatable via "therapy"), and it's been proven such - to the same extent that homosexuality has been.
Society isn't misogynistic, it shits on men just as much as it shits on women, in some cases more.
It's not easier to "escape", it's easier to cure a condition that you have. Were a woman who was not suffering from gender dysphoria to transition to male, she would get gender dysphoria, because her sex characteristics would now not align with her neurology. It would, were you without that medical condition, be easier to live in western society than to transition.
You were a patronising fuck to that other person, you're not their doctor, you don't know shit about them, and it's not a "cosmetic surgery", it's a medical treatment for a neurological condition.
I glady am a "highkey asshole" if it means saying the truth. these "exceptions" sound pretty bisexual to me. Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can't change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females.
Ah yes. "Gender dysphoria" aka body dysmorphia. A mistake a lot of troons make. It's not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe.
How come "gender dysphoria" is just a first-world problem then? Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don't make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?
This "cure" is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life. And please society isn't misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex? Don't come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don't have more rights than men. Lmao who are you kidding?
I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice. You really think these "gender specialists" care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money. But hey I won't stop you @ilililian. Go ahead and mutilate your body if it feels right. You're still gonna be a female though, because you were born that way with all the parts: breasts, clitoris, uterus, you can menstruate (what trans"women" claim to be able to do never can).
Better accept than soon. A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies. You can't escape. You are female, that's a biological reality.
"these “exceptions” sound pretty bisexual to me."
Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner.
"Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can’t change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females."
Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid.
"Ah yes. “Gender dysphoria” aka body dysmorphia."
Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology.
"It’s not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe."
Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason.
"How come “gender dysphoria” is just a first-world problem then?"
It's not. People in other countries suffer from it.
"Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don’t make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?"
You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations.
"This “cure” is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life."
I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps.
"And please society isn’t misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex?"
Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit.
"Don’t come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don’t have more rights than men."
Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally.
"I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice."
Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals.
"You really think these “gender specialists” care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money."
Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not.
"A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies."
And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life.
Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you.
"You can’t escape. You are female, that’s a biological reality."
Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish.
"Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner."
- That's being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn't like males either.
"Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid."
- If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn't tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception.
"Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology."
- Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they're heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females.
"Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason."
- One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body.
"It's not. People in other countries suffer from it"
- Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their "felt gender"
"You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations."
- Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don't even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don't have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren't there. They try to fix things that weren't a problem to begin with.
"I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps."
- In case of these transes they don't have physical pain, they don't have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!
"Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit."
- Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can't be in favor of women if it's controlled by men they just can't hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it's no where near the numbers of female rape victims.
"Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally. "
- Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights.
"Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals."
- My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do.
"Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not."
- Then you don't know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many "scientific studies" are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She's skilled in that department.
"And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life."
- Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next.
"Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you."
- As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than "don't trigger my dysphoria uwu". That's pathetic. The only thing she's triggered off is that I don't cater to her role play.
"Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish."
- Transition doesn't change anything. It's literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It's not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don't think I'm spooky I'm telling the truth.
"That’s being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn’t like males either."
She doesn't like women. She likes men and transmen. That's not bisexual or lesbian. It would be misleading to call herself bisexual.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
It's wrong to sleep with someone without telling them of your status, but you're incorrect when you say that every single gay person loses their attraction at the point of being told. You're simply incorrect.
"Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they’re heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females."
They are different conditions with different criteria. Go actually study psychology and learn the medical definitions of words before you go throwing them around willy-nilly.
"One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body."
Gay men and bisexuals can all also experience corrective rape. So can trans people. And it's not just "reconnecting with their natural body", it's ineffective, often torture like, practices that do not do anything to treat the underlying condition - gender dysphoria.
"Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their “felt gender”"
Genetically Modified Skeptic did a video a little while ago about fundamentalism in Israel, and his guide was a trans person who lives there iirc. There are lots of trans people around the world, including in war torn countries. Gender dysphoria isn't just about daydreaming about gender, it's a persistent discomfort due to one's sex characteristics.
"Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don’t even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don’t have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren’t there. They try to fix things that weren’t a problem to begin with."
Gender dysphoria is treated by transition, and once it's been properly assessed and diagnosed then that's what any "proper therapist" will refer you for. That is what trans people are, and your degrading assumptions that most trans people are doing it for attention, fetish, or loneliness are based on internet arguments with teenagers, who of course have a lot of other shit going on in their lives and aren't the most emotionally well equipped. There are sometimes people who are wrong, who don't have the condition, and a proper therapist can figure out the difference and refer people to the correct treatment for them - to disregard all trans people over the mistakes of a few struggling teenagers is dumb.
"In case of these transes they don’t have physical pain, they don’t have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!"
Physical pain is not the only kind of pain, and gender dysphoria is a serious condition with dangerous consequences and a lot of pain if left untreated. The suicide rate does not increase - if you're basing that nonsense on the Swedish study or that study where people mistakenly thought a lifetime rate was a post-treatment rate, then I've already debunked that. I'm assuming it's the latter, since that's the one that most people defer to... I hope you know the difference between lifetime rates and post-treatment rates.
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/129625828802/have-you-done-stuff-on-how-most-post-op-trans
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/132497292602/no-the-swedish-study-does-not-say-that
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438812697/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183501276652/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438300362/eeveelutionsforequality
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183425718332/i-forgot-to-mention-in-that-chart-the-rate-of
"Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can’t be in favor of women if it’s controlled by men they just can’t hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it’s no where near the numbers of female rape victims."
I literally just told you that even CDC stats show men as victims more when you account for prison and made to penetrate, and with my own country not even counting men victimised by women as rape... is it any wonder that the stats often don't include male victims for bullshit reasons, and therefore inflate the difference. Men are victims of all the stuff you said - street harassment, rape, and murder - as well as being more likely to be victims of violent crime, to receive harsher sentences, to not have their rape even legally recognised as rape, genital mutilation as babies and children being legal. Do you think a little boy being raped by a woman and then it not even legally counting as rape, her getting a lesser sentence, and even potentially her being able to claim child support, is not as bad as some mean words being yelled at you in the street? Because that was what your argument at the beginning of that paragraph seemed to be.
"Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights."
Women can get abortions in my country. Men and women can both have or lose bodily autonomy in medical situations, that's the same for everyone. Women have the same wages as men, once you account for hours worked, jobs chosen, etc. Men are sexualised in media too. Men are expected to be sexually available even as fucking children - have you not seen all of the disgusting people who say that teenage boys raped by women are lucky, wanted it, etc?? Again, I talked about rape laws not even including male victims, and you brought the repeatedly debunked wage gap to the table to claim that women have it worse... wow.
"My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do."
He's happy with his choice, so leave him be. It's not your job to convert people. Politely advise people to talk to therapists and make sure they've made the right choice, sure, but that's not what you did and you were far from polite. You talked about his private body parts, you badgered him, you keep tagging him after he asked to be left alone, etc.
"Then you don’t know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many “scientific studies” are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She’s skilled in that department."
Me and insidious don't get along iirc. Besides, where I live there's a national health service - now, I don't trust the faceless bureaucrats in charge, I don't trust administration, etc, but I know that the doctors aren't making bank off this, there's not enough centers, there's not enough doctors, they're stretched thin and doing their best to figure out who needs help and give the right help to them. You keep demanding I give you studies, yet you keep saying that you refuse to trust those studies... I've seen that trick from anti-vaxxers and woo salesmen and cultists before, and I'm not an idiot. You don't trust anything that I'd provide you with, and you will twist the wording any which way you like, but you'll keep demanding more sources, more energy, more time, because you think eventually one of them will actually have a flaw and I'll actually buy your snakeoil.
"Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next."
You said, in your earlier reply, that escaping via transition was better than living as a woman, and that was why people transitioned... now you're changing your tune and it's actually better to live as a woman, because that's what currently suits your narrative? It's not body destroying. It's a hormone not uranium. If you genuinely have gender dysphoria, treating it actually does feel better.
"As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than “don’t trigger my dysphoria uwu”. That’s pathetic. The only thing she’s triggered off is that I don’t cater to her role play."
Stop tagging him when he asked you to leave him alone, you hag. You described body parts that you know cause dysphoria, that's intentionally triggering somebody. Not catering to somebody's dysphoria is one thing, outright setting out to aggravate it by listing things that trigger it is another.
"Transition doesn’t change anything. It’s literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It’s not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don’t think I’m spooky I’m telling the truth."
Transition literally changes the hormones in your body, your body fat distribution, your muscle mass, your red blood cell count, and I could go on. It's a lot more than a cosmetic surgery, and it's a medical treatment for a medical condition. You're the one trying to redefine words (bisexual, delusion, gender dysphoria, and body dysmorphia, to give a few examples), trying to dictate people's sexuality to them, talking over bisexuals on what their sexuality means, talking over gay people who like trans people, and trying to convert trans people. Nobody here is trying to convert anyone - my argument has consistently been that some do and some don't and that's that. Nowhere on this post did anyone support transition before somebody is old enough to make drastic life decisions. You're not telling the truth, you're preaching an incorrect gospel.
Anyway, I think I'm done arguing with this brick wall, it's pointless.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
This makes no sense. If it’s true that homosexual men and women can’t be attracted to trans men and women respectively, then they wouldn’t be attracted at all in the first place, without ever getting told. Im not attracted to women, guess what, I’ve never experienced being attracted to a woman til she tells me oh, I’m a woman btw.
Sexuality is based on percieved sex. Hence why a lesbian and a hetrosexual man can be attracted to a trans woman. Because she appears, to all your senses, to be female.
Certain things can completely erase your attraction to someone, but that doesn’t change your sexuality. Just because you’re a lesbian doesn’t mean you’re attracted to all women, just that you’re attracted to women. Just because I’m straight af, doesnt mean I’m attracted to all men, just that I’m attracted to men.
@theeviltervenwitch​ troon is mysogynistic anti gender noncomformity slur used against women that didn’t fit patriarchal standards of natural feminine appaearance and was then revived by the alt-rught as a insult for trans people that don’t pass, so idk my gay ass doesn’t really give a fuck about your whinning about who is erasing what when you can fall that easy on using barely erased mysogyny because you priritize being a unapologetic mean girl over using slurs
It’s not a slur, it’s a discriptor for transes who yes don’t pass because the majority don’t and who think the world has to bow before them. so I keep using it. If you don’t give a fuck why respond?
Gay culture is lesbians and gay men unconsciously training our eyes and ears to recognise first glance the signs that someone is actually a trans person from the opposite sex therefore not in our dating pool, we gotta recognise, and some of them pass very well, but the more years pass the more we recognise. Liberal homophobes stay mad. ✨
honestly this is one thing that scares me about getting older/cataracts, because faces all look rather small from accross a room. its easy as hell to tell with 20/20 vision, but when that fails? at least the body shapes are radically different (hip/shoulder/height)
Have you guys, idk, tried speaking with people? Not fucking strangers on you met on the streets the same day you met them can also help with that, but whatever floats y'all's boats
Have you also considered not treating everyone of the same gender/sex as you like a slab of meat? But what do I know, genitals equal personality and all that. And friendship does not exist. Everyone is automatically in the fuck zone if they have the right set of genitals- personality or personal preferences be damned.
Imagine a straight man claiming an integral part of heterosexual dating is clocking potential trans women. I'm pretty sure you all would get pissed at him for saying the exact same thing you are.
@millennialsfabwlw
what the actual fuck. gay culture is not whatever new level of paranoia you seem to have reached. "we gotta recognize" ? Really like really what the fuck went wrong in your life to be that paranoid, because whatever it is it's not healthy and it sounds like you build your entire life around avoiding, demonizing and fearing the day you merely "see" a trans person.
Not to mention the fact that with your "clocking methods" you could actually put cis men and women in the "trans category" since you rely on what "hip/shoulder/weight" ? Seems like my childhood friend is actually a fucking man. I've never noticed that the 1.90m tall girl with huge shoulder blades and non-existent hips I've known since birth is actually a guy. Mind = blown.
What are you gonna do if you actually meet one? I'm pretty sure you already have since most of them live stealth. And what's up with the entitlement to think - like even if you accidently put them in your dating pool, no trans person would want to fuck you with your personality.
@cantanopeshitthatwastaken I actually wish I'd loose my sight right now to never ever read any shit like that.
This "level of paranoia" wouldn't be necessary if these hets would just leave us the fuck alone! rape by deception isn't a fucking joke!
And males and females have fundamentally different anatomy. What @cantanopeshitthatwastaken meant with "hip/shoulder/height" is scientifically proven. These differences were and still are used to determine the sex of skeletons. And the chromosomes in their cells don't change either.
You say youre a homosexual male, would you personally want to be with a trans"man" like this? Tell me you don't see a fucking female?
wtf, did you even get the approval to sent this picture??
That’s not even representative of most trans people anyway. TERFs only see the loud, obnoxious ones, teenagers/young adults who haven’t started their transition or just started, or old trans women who just started and think that’s how all of us look/are. They see any of us actually passing and they presume we’re trans but the other way. I’ve seen it happen before - a passing trans man was told he’d never be a woman.Â
These people are absolutely off their rocker and they need to really get over thinking the world revolves around them. Trans people aren’t going around trying to deceive anyone - we’re just trying to live our lives without wanting to kill ourselves constantly. On top of that, lots of us aren’t even gay and the ones that are, are still a teeny tiny barely existent blip of the population.Â
Sure, there’s trenders who want to appropriate our medical condition and claim they’re (usually) gay men but don’t even attempt to pass any anything other than a regular cis girl, but they’re easy to spot as are the loud, obnoxious ones. They’re the ones that support lying to others and everything else. The actual trans people though? We’re not out to get you. We just wanna live our lives and we’re not hurting you any. TERFs are under a different impression - it’s wrong.
"That's not even representative of most trans people anyway" I dare you to spend 5 min in the 'trans boy' tag and then tell me how many of them don't look like a twin to that girl.
"Terfs only see the loud, obnoxious ones, teenagers/ young adults..., old trans women..." you're literally listing of every possible age a trans identified person could be in ... the self-awarness lmao.
Just because some can almost perfectly imitate a natal man (only speaking about trans"men" because let's be honest when have you seen a perfectly passing trans"woman"? I've never) doesn't mean she (the trans"man") is one. Looking like something =/= being something. You can't change sex.
"Trans people aren't going around trying to decieve anyone" - girl, there are many posts of trans"men" alone on tumblr (I don't even wanna start with twitter) crying about wanting a boyfriend who validates their "gender identity" while looking like the picture I provided above.
Or trans"men" getting angry because no one in gay clubs wants to hit on them. Trans"women" asking around for advice how to pass and get themselves a lesbian girlfriend and making "suprise meat" memes about it.
"We just want to live our lives without wanting to kill us constantly" Cool, and we homosexuals want to live our lives without being coerced to like the opposite sex and literally having to assimilate to every transes desires. And btw threatening to commit suicide is not an argument it's guilt tripping. "Tell me I'm valid or I'll commit suicide" that's how y'all sound.
Transition doesn't "cure" "gender" dysphoria either. The suicide rate actually increases after transition so don't even come with that.
"We're not hurting any" Yes you do by changing the meaning of what being a woman, being a man is and what homosexuality is.
And @hello-im-a-homosexual still no answer? I'm starting to think you're actually not a homosexual male at all with the obnoxious url you have there :/
Really that desperate for my answer aren't you? First of all my URL is a reference to a youtube-comedy sketch, it has nothing to do with "trying to be obnoxious". You have no room to talk when your URL is "theeviltervenwitch".
And to finally answer your question: No I would not date the trans man in the picture (and I actually think the one in the picture is not a trender. Isn't that a transmed pin on his left side?). Why? Well first of all I can't make a judgement from a picture alone if I'd have to I would say no I don't want to date the person in the picture.
And since we're throwing around with cherry picked pictures from the internet let me ask you if you would like to date this adorable female right there (since you're a lesbian and all there should be no problem right?) Looks perfectly female to me.
And just a piece of advice maybe try typing in "trans men" and not "transboy" in the tags or "actuallyftm" since the transmed community knows there is a bunch of confused teens appropriating the trans label they made their own.
nice try that's still a female. just because she looks like a male doesn't mean she is one. you can't change your sex. i wouldn't date her though, because i make it a point to never date delusionals who mutilate themselves to escape misogyny.
Ah yes that's why you wouldn't date him. Not the fact that he looks nothing like a woman. Okay okay okay lmao
Looking like something =/= being something. Also she probably still has an uterus. And if not surgery can never replicate a male penis just imitate. That’s what this whole person is. An imitation of a male.
I thought political lesbianism had died out years ago, but boomers gonna boom. Anyway, you’re a creepy incel, and nothing you say sets you apart from dudes at the bar hitting on women, your vagina doesn’t make you special.
How am I like an incel? By saying lesbians can't like dick? Words have meanings and if some people playing gender try to erase these actual meanings I gonna speak up, because those role plays are starting to effect everyone.
And cranky because I have a vagina? Never said I was special for it. I said it's the reason we women are oppressed. Because of SEX based oppression. trans"women" aka males will never experience it because they don't have one and never will.
There are literal cases of gender dysphoria all over the world and in different time periods. Documented cases. I know radical feminists are just privileged little girls who like to pretend that their blatant ignoring of scientific fact, predator behavior and internalized misogyny is somehow powerful, but you? You REALLY take the cake. You should move to 4chan, because god you’d fit in.
Finally I can read anons. Works better on PC.
Well go on then, show me these "cases of "gender" dysphoria all over the world and in different time periods". I'd love to read them. If you come at me with James Berry and the like though, that were historical women who used to disguise themselves to survive and to have a proper profession in this misogynistic society. Another instance were transes try to erase successful women by convincing everyone they're actually men.
Please enlighten me of the "scientific fact" I ignore.
"Predator behavior and internalized misogyny is somewhat powerful" Sounds like you talk about transes. Saying homosexual means same sex attracted and that women are adult human females is predator behavior. Got it. Totally comparable with the hundreds of trans"women" who want lesbians to try their "girldick".
And internalized misogyny really? I've overcome it, it's trans"men" who deulded themselves enough to think they can escape female oppression.
The Tumblr App is really fucking weird. Notifications keep showing up but there are no messages. Whoever is sending me anons or tagging me or reblogging from me, I can't read the posts for some reason. I also can't reblog from other blogs beside my own. Hope this gets fixed soon.
Yuck.
I am not a tehm, but honey I want dick. A big ass dick. Some other gay dude might be attracted to you, move along.
No gay man is into females, not a single one.
that last one is really something. notice how she rules out every individual opportunity to say no as unacceptable until there's nothing left. you can't give a preemptive blanket no. you can't say no upon disclosure. you can't even say no if it gets all the way to the bedroom because supposedly "it shouldn't matter" by then that you've been led to expect you'll be sleeping with someone of the same sex only to have the rug pulled out at the last minute. the takeaway of course being that it's never acceptable as a gay person to say no to someone of the opposite sex. ever.
Not only this, but also he’s talking about it like it’s a very okay thing to do. Spreading the idea that this is a “normal” way to think and to behave.
This isn’t okay ever, and it’s even dangerous for both parties. You DO have an obligation to tell someone you’re trans before you get to the bedroom, and you DO have to accept sexual orientation isn’t transphobic. Body parts DO matter.
I agree that you have to tell people, I agree that it's not transphobic if they just aren't into trans people, etc... but are we all just gonna ignore the dude who said "no gay man is into females", seemingly arguing against the dude who said another gay man will be potentially be into a transguy? There are plenty of gay and straight people who like trans people of their preferred gender, and saying that they're not allowed to like who they like is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like, whichever way around it is. Just find somebody who likes you and be happy, live and let live, etc... stop with these ridiculous arguments.
"I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like"
Lmao it's not a fascination, the transes are literally trying to change the meaning of homosexuality to include the opposite sex. No homosexual male is into females even if the alter their body to imitate another male. There is no amounts of surgeries or horsepiss-hormones that make a lesbian like a trans"woman". Because they're fucking male.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it's literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we're attracted to, so it's our damn right to defend our attraction.
These "plenty of gay and straight people who like people of their preferred gender (delusions)" are not homosexual. Some lesbians might be into trans"men" and some gay men into trans"women" (provided they don't care about being with a mentally deluded person who chose to butcher their private parts). But no homosexual male OR female is going to be with the opposite sex.
Homosexual males are not into fake-arm-tissue-dick and homosexual females will never touch an attempt of an inverted penis.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it’s literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we’re attracted to, so it’s our damn right to defend our attraction.
You understand that we have as much evidences supporting the fact that transsexualism is biological, as we have supporting homosexuality is biological, right? Saying this is kind of things is shooting yourself in the foot. I already know a lot of homophobes saying that since we didn’t remove the possibility that homosexuality could be due to social constructs (and never will), it could very well be “fluid” or simply constructed with the years. The same thing you claim for transsexualism, basically. So which is it? You can’t have both. Either both are biological, or either both are socially constructed. Cherry picking one that would be biological while the other isn’t just because it suits your ideology is dumb as fuck.
Study regarding sexuality and particularly trans women with males show that heterosexual males can be attracted to trans women pre-SRS and still be heterosexuals. So by definition, it doesn’t change their sexuality, it’s more complex than that, and only a minority of heterosexual males are actually interested in trans women pre-SRS. Gay men are also very rarely interested in trans women pre/post-SRS, from the same study. But you’re right, people can’t change their attraction, and we should defend our right to say no to anyone. I wish we could have more studies regarding this because it is interesting, but for now, that’s all we have and it doesn’t go your way. Don’t forget that paraphilias regarding cross-dressing, mismatching sex/body exist too and might be playing a bigger part than we know today.
Next time, please be more polite regarding the bodies of trans people, even if you don’t like us.
lmao I'm not gonna be more polite to troons who want to erase homosexuality. There are no exceptions. Homosexuals like the same SEX not gender "identity". And like you suprisingly correctly said how do we know that those participants of the studies that "supposedly" proved heterosexual men are into trans"women" are actually heterosexual and not homosexual or bisexual male feteshists who like the idea of femenized men (more often than not as a power play because they see feminity as an inferiour trait)? Or whatever else paraphilias they have.
And whatever are you talking about? What cherry picking? Homosexuality is definitively proven by science to be inborn and not "curable" by therapy. Transgenderism on the other hand is not well researched enough to definitively say it's inborn and that it's not induced by societies misogynistic influences.
It's really sad we live in a world where it's easier to escape by "changing your sex" instead of accepting your female body.
@ilililian damn right no one takes you seriously if the "rights" you demand are access to homosexual and female spaces and the right to have your little cosmetic surgeries covered by insurance. Try searching for a better therapist. All they want to do is make money that's why they prescribe you gullibles HRT so fast. For you it's not to late I see. You can still stop taking testosterone. 3 months normally don't inclict much harm on your female body.
Wow, you're highkey an asshole.
"troons who want to erase homosexuality" again, nobody's erasing homosexuality, even the people who want everyone to be attracted to trans people, but in this conversation the people who disagree with you are just saying "hey, some gay people like trans people"
there are exceptions, deal with it
People are attracted to sex characteristics, personality, other features of appearance, and so on, not chromosomes - so yes, you can be exclusively attracted to one set of sex characteristics, but that does not necessarily exclude trans people. It can. It often does. But it doesn't necessarily and those people's lives should not impact you or matter to you. Your fascination with dictating to other gays who they're allowed to like is honestly ridiculous - just like the fascination with insisting gay people like trans people is ridiculous. Like I said at the beginning, live and let live.
The cherrypicking is that gender dysphoria is neurological, it's inborn, it's not curable (transition is however the best treatment, it's definitely not treatable via "therapy"), and it's been proven such - to the same extent that homosexuality has been.
Society isn't misogynistic, it shits on men just as much as it shits on women, in some cases more.
It's not easier to "escape", it's easier to cure a condition that you have. Were a woman who was not suffering from gender dysphoria to transition to male, she would get gender dysphoria, because her sex characteristics would now not align with her neurology. It would, were you without that medical condition, be easier to live in western society than to transition.
You were a patronising fuck to that other person, you're not their doctor, you don't know shit about them, and it's not a "cosmetic surgery", it's a medical treatment for a neurological condition.
I glady am a "highkey asshole" if it means saying the truth. these "exceptions" sound pretty bisexual to me. Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can't change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females.
Ah yes. "Gender dysphoria" aka body dysmorphia. A mistake a lot of troons make. It's not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe.
How come "gender dysphoria" is just a first-world problem then? Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don't make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?
This "cure" is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life. And please society isn't misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex? Don't come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don't have more rights than men. Lmao who are you kidding?
I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice. You really think these "gender specialists" care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money. But hey I won't stop you @ilililian. Go ahead and mutilate your body if it feels right. You're still gonna be a female though, because you were born that way with all the parts: breasts, clitoris, uterus, you can menstruate (what trans"women" claim to be able to do never can).
Better accept than soon. A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies. You can't escape. You are female, that's a biological reality.
"these “exceptions” sound pretty bisexual to me."
Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner.
"Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can’t change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females."
Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid.
"Ah yes. “Gender dysphoria” aka body dysmorphia."
Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology.
"It’s not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe."
Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason.
"How come “gender dysphoria” is just a first-world problem then?"
It's not. People in other countries suffer from it.
"Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don’t make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?"
You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations.
"This “cure” is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life."
I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps.
"And please society isn’t misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex?"
Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit.
"Don’t come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don’t have more rights than men."
Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally.
"I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice."
Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals.
"You really think these “gender specialists” care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money."
Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not.
"A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies."
And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life.
Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you.
"You can’t escape. You are female, that’s a biological reality."
Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish.
"Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner."
- That's being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn't like males either.
"Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid."
- If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn't tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception.
"Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology."
- Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they're heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females.
"Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason."
- One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body.
"It's not. People in other countries suffer from it"
- Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their "felt gender"
"You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations."
- Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don't even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don't have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren't there. They try to fix things that weren't a problem to begin with.
"I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps."
- In case of these transes they don't have physical pain, they don't have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!
"Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit."
- Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can't be in favor of women if it's controlled by men they just can't hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it's no where near the numbers of female rape victims.
"Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally. "
- Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights.
"Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals."
- My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do.
"Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not."
- Then you don't know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many "scientific studies" are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She's skilled in that department.
"And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life."
- Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next.
"Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you."
- As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than "don't trigger my dysphoria uwu". That's pathetic. The only thing she's triggered off is that I don't cater to her role play.
"Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish."
- Transition doesn't change anything. It's literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It's not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don't think I'm spooky I'm telling the truth.
"That’s being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn’t like males either."
She doesn't like women. She likes men and transmen. That's not bisexual or lesbian. It would be misleading to call herself bisexual.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
It's wrong to sleep with someone without telling them of your status, but you're incorrect when you say that every single gay person loses their attraction at the point of being told. You're simply incorrect.
"Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they’re heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females."
They are different conditions with different criteria. Go actually study psychology and learn the medical definitions of words before you go throwing them around willy-nilly.
"One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body."
Gay men and bisexuals can all also experience corrective rape. So can trans people. And it's not just "reconnecting with their natural body", it's ineffective, often torture like, practices that do not do anything to treat the underlying condition - gender dysphoria.
"Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their “felt gender”"
Genetically Modified Skeptic did a video a little while ago about fundamentalism in Israel, and his guide was a trans person who lives there iirc. There are lots of trans people around the world, including in war torn countries. Gender dysphoria isn't just about daydreaming about gender, it's a persistent discomfort due to one's sex characteristics.
"Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don’t even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don’t have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren’t there. They try to fix things that weren’t a problem to begin with."
Gender dysphoria is treated by transition, and once it's been properly assessed and diagnosed then that's what any "proper therapist" will refer you for. That is what trans people are, and your degrading assumptions that most trans people are doing it for attention, fetish, or loneliness are based on internet arguments with teenagers, who of course have a lot of other shit going on in their lives and aren't the most emotionally well equipped. There are sometimes people who are wrong, who don't have the condition, and a proper therapist can figure out the difference and refer people to the correct treatment for them - to disregard all trans people over the mistakes of a few struggling teenagers is dumb.
"In case of these transes they don’t have physical pain, they don’t have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!"
Physical pain is not the only kind of pain, and gender dysphoria is a serious condition with dangerous consequences and a lot of pain if left untreated. The suicide rate does not increase - if you're basing that nonsense on the Swedish study or that study where people mistakenly thought a lifetime rate was a post-treatment rate, then I've already debunked that. I'm assuming it's the latter, since that's the one that most people defer to... I hope you know the difference between lifetime rates and post-treatment rates.
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/129625828802/have-you-done-stuff-on-how-most-post-op-trans
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/132497292602/no-the-swedish-study-does-not-say-that
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438812697/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183501276652/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438300362/eeveelutionsforequality
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183425718332/i-forgot-to-mention-in-that-chart-the-rate-of
"Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can’t be in favor of women if it’s controlled by men they just can’t hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it’s no where near the numbers of female rape victims."
I literally just told you that even CDC stats show men as victims more when you account for prison and made to penetrate, and with my own country not even counting men victimised by women as rape... is it any wonder that the stats often don't include male victims for bullshit reasons, and therefore inflate the difference. Men are victims of all the stuff you said - street harassment, rape, and murder - as well as being more likely to be victims of violent crime, to receive harsher sentences, to not have their rape even legally recognised as rape, genital mutilation as babies and children being legal. Do you think a little boy being raped by a woman and then it not even legally counting as rape, her getting a lesser sentence, and even potentially her being able to claim child support, is not as bad as some mean words being yelled at you in the street? Because that was what your argument at the beginning of that paragraph seemed to be.
"Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights."
Women can get abortions in my country. Men and women can both have or lose bodily autonomy in medical situations, that's the same for everyone. Women have the same wages as men, once you account for hours worked, jobs chosen, etc. Men are sexualised in media too. Men are expected to be sexually available even as fucking children - have you not seen all of the disgusting people who say that teenage boys raped by women are lucky, wanted it, etc?? Again, I talked about rape laws not even including male victims, and you brought the repeatedly debunked wage gap to the table to claim that women have it worse... wow.
"My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do."
He's happy with his choice, so leave him be. It's not your job to convert people. Politely advise people to talk to therapists and make sure they've made the right choice, sure, but that's not what you did and you were far from polite. You talked about his private body parts, you badgered him, you keep tagging him after he asked to be left alone, etc.
"Then you don’t know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many “scientific studies” are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She’s skilled in that department."
Me and insidious don't get along iirc. Besides, where I live there's a national health service - now, I don't trust the faceless bureaucrats in charge, I don't trust administration, etc, but I know that the doctors aren't making bank off this, there's not enough centers, there's not enough doctors, they're stretched thin and doing their best to figure out who needs help and give the right help to them. You keep demanding I give you studies, yet you keep saying that you refuse to trust those studies... I've seen that trick from anti-vaxxers and woo salesmen and cultists before, and I'm not an idiot. You don't trust anything that I'd provide you with, and you will twist the wording any which way you like, but you'll keep demanding more sources, more energy, more time, because you think eventually one of them will actually have a flaw and I'll actually buy your snakeoil.
"Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next."
You said, in your earlier reply, that escaping via transition was better than living as a woman, and that was why people transitioned... now you're changing your tune and it's actually better to live as a woman, because that's what currently suits your narrative? It's not body destroying. It's a hormone not uranium. If you genuinely have gender dysphoria, treating it actually does feel better.
"As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than “don’t trigger my dysphoria uwu”. That’s pathetic. The only thing she’s triggered off is that I don’t cater to her role play."
Stop tagging him when he asked you to leave him alone, you hag. You described body parts that you know cause dysphoria, that's intentionally triggering somebody. Not catering to somebody's dysphoria is one thing, outright setting out to aggravate it by listing things that trigger it is another.
"Transition doesn’t change anything. It’s literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It’s not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don’t think I’m spooky I’m telling the truth."
Transition literally changes the hormones in your body, your body fat distribution, your muscle mass, your red blood cell count, and I could go on. It's a lot more than a cosmetic surgery, and it's a medical treatment for a medical condition. You're the one trying to redefine words (bisexual, delusion, gender dysphoria, and body dysmorphia, to give a few examples), trying to dictate people's sexuality to them, talking over bisexuals on what their sexuality means, talking over gay people who like trans people, and trying to convert trans people. Nobody here is trying to convert anyone - my argument has consistently been that some do and some don't and that's that. Nowhere on this post did anyone support transition before somebody is old enough to make drastic life decisions. You're not telling the truth, you're preaching an incorrect gospel.
Anyway, I think I'm done arguing with this brick wall, it's pointless.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
This makes no sense. If it’s true that homosexual men and women can’t be attracted to trans men and women respectively, then they wouldn’t be attracted at all in the first place, without ever getting told. Im not attracted to women, guess what, I’ve never experienced being attracted to a woman til she tells me oh, I’m a woman btw.
Sexuality is based on percieved sex. Hence why a lesbian and a hetrosexual man can be attracted to a trans woman. Because she appears, to all your senses, to be female.
Certain things can completely erase your attraction to someone, but that doesn’t change your sexuality. Just because you’re a lesbian doesn’t mean you’re attracted to all women, just that you’re attracted to women. Just because I’m straight af, doesnt mean I’m attracted to all men, just that I’m attracted to men.
@theeviltervenwitch​ troon is mysogynistic anti gender noncomformity slur used against women that didn’t fit patriarchal standards of natural feminine appaearance and was then revived by the alt-rught as a insult for trans people that don’t pass, so idk my gay ass doesn’t really give a fuck about your whinning about who is erasing what when you can fall that easy on using barely erased mysogyny because you priritize being a unapologetic mean girl over using slurs
Being not interested in trans people or having someone’s trans status be a personal dealbreaker: I’m fine with that.
Telling everyone else how they MUST experience their sexuality (or their own gender politics, in this case as well) and just generally being a sexist, ableist, transphobic asshole: NOT COOL.
Telling people they MUST date trans people or they’re a transphobe regardless, or setting them up on a date with a trans friend as a “favor” regardless of how they feel about it: Also not cool.
(I’m actually more disturbed by this person saying that neurological issues/mental health issues are a CHOICE than I am the trans stuff and the policing everyone else’s sexuality. Fuck you and the horse you rode in on.)
We homosexuals are telling you to stop turning our sexuality into something else, to change the definition as something "flexible" enough to include the opposite sex. Just because the person mutilated themself enough to "pass" -> more like imitate the other sex doesn't make them the other sex. You can't change sex.
I didn't say mental health issues are a choice, most females who identify as trans"men" do so because of severe trauma in that case they need to address their issues with a therapist and not seek out harmful meds. You think "gender" dysphoria is something neurological and unchangeable, but many females overcome their dysphoria and reidentified with their womanhood and accepted their body as everyone should. This dysphoria is often just body dysmorphia or other underlying trauma by e.g sexual assault.
Yuck.
I am not a tehm, but honey I want dick. A big ass dick. Some other gay dude might be attracted to you, move along.
No gay man is into females, not a single one.
that last one is really something. notice how she rules out every individual opportunity to say no as unacceptable until there's nothing left. you can't give a preemptive blanket no. you can't say no upon disclosure. you can't even say no if it gets all the way to the bedroom because supposedly "it shouldn't matter" by then that you've been led to expect you'll be sleeping with someone of the same sex only to have the rug pulled out at the last minute. the takeaway of course being that it's never acceptable as a gay person to say no to someone of the opposite sex. ever.
Not only this, but also he’s talking about it like it’s a very okay thing to do. Spreading the idea that this is a “normal” way to think and to behave.
This isn’t okay ever, and it’s even dangerous for both parties. You DO have an obligation to tell someone you’re trans before you get to the bedroom, and you DO have to accept sexual orientation isn’t transphobic. Body parts DO matter.
I agree that you have to tell people, I agree that it's not transphobic if they just aren't into trans people, etc... but are we all just gonna ignore the dude who said "no gay man is into females", seemingly arguing against the dude who said another gay man will be potentially be into a transguy? There are plenty of gay and straight people who like trans people of their preferred gender, and saying that they're not allowed to like who they like is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like, whichever way around it is. Just find somebody who likes you and be happy, live and let live, etc... stop with these ridiculous arguments.
"I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like"
Lmao it's not a fascination, the transes are literally trying to change the meaning of homosexuality to include the opposite sex. No homosexual male is into females even if the alter their body to imitate another male. There is no amounts of surgeries or horsepiss-hormones that make a lesbian like a trans"woman". Because they're fucking male.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it's literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we're attracted to, so it's our damn right to defend our attraction.
These "plenty of gay and straight people who like people of their preferred gender (delusions)" are not homosexual. Some lesbians might be into trans"men" and some gay men into trans"women" (provided they don't care about being with a mentally deluded person who chose to butcher their private parts). But no homosexual male OR female is going to be with the opposite sex.
Homosexual males are not into fake-arm-tissue-dick and homosexual females will never touch an attempt of an inverted penis.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it’s literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we’re attracted to, so it’s our damn right to defend our attraction.
You understand that we have as much evidences supporting the fact that transsexualism is biological, as we have supporting homosexuality is biological, right? Saying this is kind of things is shooting yourself in the foot. I already know a lot of homophobes saying that since we didn’t remove the possibility that homosexuality could be due to social constructs (and never will), it could very well be “fluid” or simply constructed with the years. The same thing you claim for transsexualism, basically. So which is it? You can’t have both. Either both are biological, or either both are socially constructed. Cherry picking one that would be biological while the other isn’t just because it suits your ideology is dumb as fuck.
Study regarding sexuality and particularly trans women with males show that heterosexual males can be attracted to trans women pre-SRS and still be heterosexuals. So by definition, it doesn’t change their sexuality, it’s more complex than that, and only a minority of heterosexual males are actually interested in trans women pre-SRS. Gay men are also very rarely interested in trans women pre/post-SRS, from the same study. But you’re right, people can’t change their attraction, and we should defend our right to say no to anyone. I wish we could have more studies regarding this because it is interesting, but for now, that’s all we have and it doesn’t go your way. Don’t forget that paraphilias regarding cross-dressing, mismatching sex/body exist too and might be playing a bigger part than we know today.
Next time, please be more polite regarding the bodies of trans people, even if you don’t like us.
lmao I'm not gonna be more polite to troons who want to erase homosexuality. There are no exceptions. Homosexuals like the same SEX not gender "identity". And like you suprisingly correctly said how do we know that those participants of the studies that "supposedly" proved heterosexual men are into trans"women" are actually heterosexual and not homosexual or bisexual male feteshists who like the idea of femenized men (more often than not as a power play because they see feminity as an inferiour trait)? Or whatever else paraphilias they have.
And whatever are you talking about? What cherry picking? Homosexuality is definitively proven by science to be inborn and not "curable" by therapy. Transgenderism on the other hand is not well researched enough to definitively say it's inborn and that it's not induced by societies misogynistic influences.
It's really sad we live in a world where it's easier to escape by "changing your sex" instead of accepting your female body.
@ilililian damn right no one takes you seriously if the "rights" you demand are access to homosexual and female spaces and the right to have your little cosmetic surgeries covered by insurance. Try searching for a better therapist. All they want to do is make money that's why they prescribe you gullibles HRT so fast. For you it's not to late I see. You can still stop taking testosterone. 3 months normally don't inclict much harm on your female body.
Wow, you're highkey an asshole.
"troons who want to erase homosexuality" again, nobody's erasing homosexuality, even the people who want everyone to be attracted to trans people, but in this conversation the people who disagree with you are just saying "hey, some gay people like trans people"
there are exceptions, deal with it
People are attracted to sex characteristics, personality, other features of appearance, and so on, not chromosomes - so yes, you can be exclusively attracted to one set of sex characteristics, but that does not necessarily exclude trans people. It can. It often does. But it doesn't necessarily and those people's lives should not impact you or matter to you. Your fascination with dictating to other gays who they're allowed to like is honestly ridiculous - just like the fascination with insisting gay people like trans people is ridiculous. Like I said at the beginning, live and let live.
The cherrypicking is that gender dysphoria is neurological, it's inborn, it's not curable (transition is however the best treatment, it's definitely not treatable via "therapy"), and it's been proven such - to the same extent that homosexuality has been.
Society isn't misogynistic, it shits on men just as much as it shits on women, in some cases more.
It's not easier to "escape", it's easier to cure a condition that you have. Were a woman who was not suffering from gender dysphoria to transition to male, she would get gender dysphoria, because her sex characteristics would now not align with her neurology. It would, were you without that medical condition, be easier to live in western society than to transition.
You were a patronising fuck to that other person, you're not their doctor, you don't know shit about them, and it's not a "cosmetic surgery", it's a medical treatment for a neurological condition.
I glady am a "highkey asshole" if it means saying the truth. these "exceptions" sound pretty bisexual to me. Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can't change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females.
Ah yes. "Gender dysphoria" aka body dysmorphia. A mistake a lot of troons make. It's not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe.
How come "gender dysphoria" is just a first-world problem then? Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don't make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?
This "cure" is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life. And please society isn't misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex? Don't come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don't have more rights than men. Lmao who are you kidding?
I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice. You really think these "gender specialists" care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money. But hey I won't stop you @ilililian. Go ahead and mutilate your body if it feels right. You're still gonna be a female though, because you were born that way with all the parts: breasts, clitoris, uterus, you can menstruate (what trans"women" claim to be able to do never can).
Better accept than soon. A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies. You can't escape. You are female, that's a biological reality.
"these “exceptions” sound pretty bisexual to me."
Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner.
"Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can’t change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females."
Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid.
"Ah yes. “Gender dysphoria” aka body dysmorphia."
Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology.
"It’s not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe."
Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason.
"How come “gender dysphoria” is just a first-world problem then?"
It's not. People in other countries suffer from it.
"Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don’t make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?"
You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations.
"This “cure” is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life."
I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps.
"And please society isn’t misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex?"
Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit.
"Don’t come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don’t have more rights than men."
Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally.
"I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice."
Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals.
"You really think these “gender specialists” care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money."
Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not.
"A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies."
And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life.
Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you.
"You can’t escape. You are female, that’s a biological reality."
Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish.
"Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner."
- That's being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn't like males either.
"Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid."
- If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn't tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception.
"Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology."
- Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they're heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females.
"Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason."
- One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body.
"It's not. People in other countries suffer from it"
- Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their "felt gender"
"You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations."
- Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don't even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don't have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren't there. They try to fix things that weren't a problem to begin with.
"I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps."
- In case of these transes they don't have physical pain, they don't have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!
"Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit."
- Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can't be in favor of women if it's controlled by men they just can't hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it's no where near the numbers of female rape victims.
"Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally. "
- Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights.
"Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals."
- My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do.
"Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not."
- Then you don't know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many "scientific studies" are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She's skilled in that department.
"And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life."
- Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next.
"Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you."
- As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than "don't trigger my dysphoria uwu". That's pathetic. The only thing she's triggered off is that I don't cater to her role play.
"Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish."
- Transition doesn't change anything. It's literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It's not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don't think I'm spooky I'm telling the truth.
"That’s being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn’t like males either."
She doesn't like women. She likes men and transmen. That's not bisexual or lesbian. It would be misleading to call herself bisexual.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
It's wrong to sleep with someone without telling them of your status, but you're incorrect when you say that every single gay person loses their attraction at the point of being told. You're simply incorrect.
"Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they’re heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females."
They are different conditions with different criteria. Go actually study psychology and learn the medical definitions of words before you go throwing them around willy-nilly.
"One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body."
Gay men and bisexuals can all also experience corrective rape. So can trans people. And it's not just "reconnecting with their natural body", it's ineffective, often torture like, practices that do not do anything to treat the underlying condition - gender dysphoria.
"Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their “felt gender”"
Genetically Modified Skeptic did a video a little while ago about fundamentalism in Israel, and his guide was a trans person who lives there iirc. There are lots of trans people around the world, including in war torn countries. Gender dysphoria isn't just about daydreaming about gender, it's a persistent discomfort due to one's sex characteristics.
"Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don’t even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don’t have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren’t there. They try to fix things that weren’t a problem to begin with."
Gender dysphoria is treated by transition, and once it's been properly assessed and diagnosed then that's what any "proper therapist" will refer you for. That is what trans people are, and your degrading assumptions that most trans people are doing it for attention, fetish, or loneliness are based on internet arguments with teenagers, who of course have a lot of other shit going on in their lives and aren't the most emotionally well equipped. There are sometimes people who are wrong, who don't have the condition, and a proper therapist can figure out the difference and refer people to the correct treatment for them - to disregard all trans people over the mistakes of a few struggling teenagers is dumb.
"In case of these transes they don’t have physical pain, they don’t have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!"
Physical pain is not the only kind of pain, and gender dysphoria is a serious condition with dangerous consequences and a lot of pain if left untreated. The suicide rate does not increase - if you're basing that nonsense on the Swedish study or that study where people mistakenly thought a lifetime rate was a post-treatment rate, then I've already debunked that. I'm assuming it's the latter, since that's the one that most people defer to... I hope you know the difference between lifetime rates and post-treatment rates.
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/129625828802/have-you-done-stuff-on-how-most-post-op-trans
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/132497292602/no-the-swedish-study-does-not-say-that
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438812697/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183501276652/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438300362/eeveelutionsforequality
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183425718332/i-forgot-to-mention-in-that-chart-the-rate-of
"Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can’t be in favor of women if it’s controlled by men they just can’t hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it’s no where near the numbers of female rape victims."
I literally just told you that even CDC stats show men as victims more when you account for prison and made to penetrate, and with my own country not even counting men victimised by women as rape... is it any wonder that the stats often don't include male victims for bullshit reasons, and therefore inflate the difference. Men are victims of all the stuff you said - street harassment, rape, and murder - as well as being more likely to be victims of violent crime, to receive harsher sentences, to not have their rape even legally recognised as rape, genital mutilation as babies and children being legal. Do you think a little boy being raped by a woman and then it not even legally counting as rape, her getting a lesser sentence, and even potentially her being able to claim child support, is not as bad as some mean words being yelled at you in the street? Because that was what your argument at the beginning of that paragraph seemed to be.
"Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights."
Women can get abortions in my country. Men and women can both have or lose bodily autonomy in medical situations, that's the same for everyone. Women have the same wages as men, once you account for hours worked, jobs chosen, etc. Men are sexualised in media too. Men are expected to be sexually available even as fucking children - have you not seen all of the disgusting people who say that teenage boys raped by women are lucky, wanted it, etc?? Again, I talked about rape laws not even including male victims, and you brought the repeatedly debunked wage gap to the table to claim that women have it worse... wow.
"My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do."
He's happy with his choice, so leave him be. It's not your job to convert people. Politely advise people to talk to therapists and make sure they've made the right choice, sure, but that's not what you did and you were far from polite. You talked about his private body parts, you badgered him, you keep tagging him after he asked to be left alone, etc.
"Then you don’t know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many “scientific studies” are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She’s skilled in that department."
Me and insidious don't get along iirc. Besides, where I live there's a national health service - now, I don't trust the faceless bureaucrats in charge, I don't trust administration, etc, but I know that the doctors aren't making bank off this, there's not enough centers, there's not enough doctors, they're stretched thin and doing their best to figure out who needs help and give the right help to them. You keep demanding I give you studies, yet you keep saying that you refuse to trust those studies... I've seen that trick from anti-vaxxers and woo salesmen and cultists before, and I'm not an idiot. You don't trust anything that I'd provide you with, and you will twist the wording any which way you like, but you'll keep demanding more sources, more energy, more time, because you think eventually one of them will actually have a flaw and I'll actually buy your snakeoil.
"Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next."
You said, in your earlier reply, that escaping via transition was better than living as a woman, and that was why people transitioned... now you're changing your tune and it's actually better to live as a woman, because that's what currently suits your narrative? It's not body destroying. It's a hormone not uranium. If you genuinely have gender dysphoria, treating it actually does feel better.
"As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than “don’t trigger my dysphoria uwu”. That’s pathetic. The only thing she’s triggered off is that I don’t cater to her role play."
Stop tagging him when he asked you to leave him alone, you hag. You described body parts that you know cause dysphoria, that's intentionally triggering somebody. Not catering to somebody's dysphoria is one thing, outright setting out to aggravate it by listing things that trigger it is another.
"Transition doesn’t change anything. It’s literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It’s not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don’t think I’m spooky I’m telling the truth."
Transition literally changes the hormones in your body, your body fat distribution, your muscle mass, your red blood cell count, and I could go on. It's a lot more than a cosmetic surgery, and it's a medical treatment for a medical condition. You're the one trying to redefine words (bisexual, delusion, gender dysphoria, and body dysmorphia, to give a few examples), trying to dictate people's sexuality to them, talking over bisexuals on what their sexuality means, talking over gay people who like trans people, and trying to convert trans people. Nobody here is trying to convert anyone - my argument has consistently been that some do and some don't and that's that. Nowhere on this post did anyone support transition before somebody is old enough to make drastic life decisions. You're not telling the truth, you're preaching an incorrect gospel.
Anyway, I think I'm done arguing with this brick wall, it's pointless.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
This makes no sense. If it’s true that homosexual men and women can’t be attracted to trans men and women respectively, then they wouldn’t be attracted at all in the first place, without ever getting told. Im not attracted to women, guess what, I’ve never experienced being attracted to a woman til she tells me oh, I’m a woman btw.
Sexuality is based on percieved sex. Hence why a lesbian and a hetrosexual man can be attracted to a trans woman. Because she appears, to all your senses, to be female.
Certain things can completely erase your attraction to someone, but that doesn’t change your sexuality. Just because you’re a lesbian doesn’t mean you’re attracted to all women, just that you’re attracted to women. Just because I’m straight af, doesnt mean I’m attracted to all men, just that I’m attracted to men.
@theeviltervenwitch​ troon is mysogynistic anti gender noncomformity slur used against women that didn’t fit patriarchal standards of natural feminine appaearance and was then revived by the alt-rught as a insult for trans people that don’t pass, so idk my gay ass doesn’t really give a fuck about your whinning about who is erasing what when you can fall that easy on using barely erased mysogyny because you priritize being a unapologetic mean girl over using slurs
It's not a slur, it's a discriptor for transes who yes don't pass because the majority don't and who think the world has to bow before them. so I keep using it. If you don't give a fuck why respond?
Gay culture is lesbians and gay men unconsciously training our eyes and ears to recognise first glance the signs that someone is actually a trans person from the opposite sex therefore not in our dating pool, we gotta recognise, and some of them pass very well, but the more years pass the more we recognise. Liberal homophobes stay mad. ✨
honestly this is one thing that scares me about getting older/cataracts, because faces all look rather small from accross a room. its easy as hell to tell with 20/20 vision, but when that fails? at least the body shapes are radically different (hip/shoulder/height)
Have you guys, idk, tried speaking with people? Not fucking strangers on you met on the streets the same day you met them can also help with that, but whatever floats y'all's boats
Have you also considered not treating everyone of the same gender/sex as you like a slab of meat? But what do I know, genitals equal personality and all that. And friendship does not exist. Everyone is automatically in the fuck zone if they have the right set of genitals- personality or personal preferences be damned.
Imagine a straight man claiming an integral part of heterosexual dating is clocking potential trans women. I'm pretty sure you all would get pissed at him for saying the exact same thing you are.
@millennialsfabwlw
what the actual fuck. gay culture is not whatever new level of paranoia you seem to have reached. "we gotta recognize" ? Really like really what the fuck went wrong in your life to be that paranoid, because whatever it is it's not healthy and it sounds like you build your entire life around avoiding, demonizing and fearing the day you merely "see" a trans person.
Not to mention the fact that with your "clocking methods" you could actually put cis men and women in the "trans category" since you rely on what "hip/shoulder/weight" ? Seems like my childhood friend is actually a fucking man. I've never noticed that the 1.90m tall girl with huge shoulder blades and non-existent hips I've known since birth is actually a guy. Mind = blown.
What are you gonna do if you actually meet one? I'm pretty sure you already have since most of them live stealth. And what's up with the entitlement to think - like even if you accidently put them in your dating pool, no trans person would want to fuck you with your personality.
@cantanopeshitthatwastaken I actually wish I'd loose my sight right now to never ever read any shit like that.
This "level of paranoia" wouldn't be necessary if these hets would just leave us the fuck alone! rape by deception isn't a fucking joke!
And males and females have fundamentally different anatomy. What @cantanopeshitthatwastaken meant with "hip/shoulder/height" is scientifically proven. These differences were and still are used to determine the sex of skeletons. And the chromosomes in their cells don't change either.
You say youre a homosexual male, would you personally want to be with a trans"man" like this? Tell me you don't see a fucking female?
wtf, did you even get the approval to sent this picture??
That’s not even representative of most trans people anyway. TERFs only see the loud, obnoxious ones, teenagers/young adults who haven’t started their transition or just started, or old trans women who just started and think that’s how all of us look/are. They see any of us actually passing and they presume we’re trans but the other way. I’ve seen it happen before - a passing trans man was told he’d never be a woman.Â
These people are absolutely off their rocker and they need to really get over thinking the world revolves around them. Trans people aren’t going around trying to deceive anyone - we’re just trying to live our lives without wanting to kill ourselves constantly. On top of that, lots of us aren’t even gay and the ones that are, are still a teeny tiny barely existent blip of the population.Â
Sure, there’s trenders who want to appropriate our medical condition and claim they’re (usually) gay men but don’t even attempt to pass any anything other than a regular cis girl, but they’re easy to spot as are the loud, obnoxious ones. They’re the ones that support lying to others and everything else. The actual trans people though? We’re not out to get you. We just wanna live our lives and we’re not hurting you any. TERFs are under a different impression - it’s wrong.
"That's not even representative of most trans people anyway" I dare you to spend 5 min in the 'trans boy' tag and then tell me how many of them don't look like a twin to that girl.
"Terfs only see the loud, obnoxious ones, teenagers/ young adults..., old trans women..." you're literally listing of every possible age a trans identified person could be in ... the self-awarness lmao.
Just because some can almost perfectly imitate a natal man (only speaking about trans"men" because let's be honest when have you seen a perfectly passing trans"woman"? I've never) doesn't mean she (the trans"man") is one. Looking like something =/= being something. You can't change sex.
"Trans people aren't going around trying to decieve anyone" - girl, there are many posts of trans"men" alone on tumblr (I don't even wanna start with twitter) crying about wanting a boyfriend who validates their "gender identity" while looking like the picture I provided above.
Or trans"men" getting angry because no one in gay clubs wants to hit on them. Trans"women" asking around for advice how to pass and get themselves a lesbian girlfriend and making "suprise meat" memes about it.
"We just want to live our lives without wanting to kill us constantly" Cool, and we homosexuals want to live our lives without being coerced to like the opposite sex and literally having to assimilate to every transes desires. And btw threatening to commit suicide is not an argument it's guilt tripping. "Tell me I'm valid or I'll commit suicide" that's how y'all sound.
Transition doesn't "cure" "gender" dysphoria either. The suicide rate actually increases after transition so don't even come with that.
"We're not hurting any" Yes you do by changing the meaning of what being a woman, being a man is and what homosexuality is.
And @hello-im-a-homosexual still no answer? I'm starting to think you're actually not a homosexual male at all with the obnoxious url you have there :/
Really that desperate for my answer aren't you? First of all my URL is a reference to a youtube-comedy sketch, it has nothing to do with "trying to be obnoxious". You have no room to talk when your URL is "theeviltervenwitch".
And to finally answer your question: No I would not date the trans man in the picture (and I actually think the one in the picture is not a trender. Isn't that a transmed pin on his left side?). Why? Well first of all I can't make a judgement from a picture alone if I'd have to I would say no I don't want to date the person in the picture.
And since we're throwing around with cherry picked pictures from the internet let me ask you if you would like to date this adorable female right there (since you're a lesbian and all there should be no problem right?) Looks perfectly female to me.
And just a piece of advice maybe try typing in "trans men" and not "transboy" in the tags or "actuallyftm" since the transmed community knows there is a bunch of confused teens appropriating the trans label they made their own.
nice try that's still a female. just because she looks like a male doesn't mean she is one. you can't change your sex. i wouldn't date her though, because i make it a point to never date delusionals who mutilate themselves to escape misogyny.
Ah yes that's why you wouldn't date him. Not the fact that he looks nothing like a woman. Okay okay okay lmao
Looking like something =/= being something. Also she probably still has an uterus. And if not surgery can never replicate a male penis just imitate. That's what this whole person is: An imitation of a male.
Yuck.
I am not a tehm, but honey I want dick. A big ass dick. Some other gay dude might be attracted to you, move along.
No gay man is into females, not a single one.
that last one is really something. notice how she rules out every individual opportunity to say no as unacceptable until there's nothing left. you can't give a preemptive blanket no. you can't say no upon disclosure. you can't even say no if it gets all the way to the bedroom because supposedly "it shouldn't matter" by then that you've been led to expect you'll be sleeping with someone of the same sex only to have the rug pulled out at the last minute. the takeaway of course being that it's never acceptable as a gay person to say no to someone of the opposite sex. ever.
Not only this, but also he’s talking about it like it’s a very okay thing to do. Spreading the idea that this is a “normal” way to think and to behave.
This isn’t okay ever, and it’s even dangerous for both parties. You DO have an obligation to tell someone you’re trans before you get to the bedroom, and you DO have to accept sexual orientation isn’t transphobic. Body parts DO matter.
I agree that you have to tell people, I agree that it's not transphobic if they just aren't into trans people, etc... but are we all just gonna ignore the dude who said "no gay man is into females", seemingly arguing against the dude who said another gay man will be potentially be into a transguy? There are plenty of gay and straight people who like trans people of their preferred gender, and saying that they're not allowed to like who they like is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like, whichever way around it is. Just find somebody who likes you and be happy, live and let live, etc... stop with these ridiculous arguments.
"I don't understand this fascination with dictating to gay and straight people who they are and aren't allowed to like"
Lmao it's not a fascination, the transes are literally trying to change the meaning of homosexuality to include the opposite sex. No homosexual male is into females even if the alter their body to imitate another male. There is no amounts of surgeries or horsepiss-hormones that make a lesbian like a trans"woman". Because they're fucking male.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it's literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we're attracted to, so it's our damn right to defend our attraction.
These "plenty of gay and straight people who like people of their preferred gender (delusions)" are not homosexual. Some lesbians might be into trans"men" and some gay men into trans"women" (provided they don't care about being with a mentally deluded person who chose to butcher their private parts). But no homosexual male OR female is going to be with the opposite sex.
Homosexual males are not into fake-arm-tissue-dick and homosexual females will never touch an attempt of an inverted penis.
Those are not ridiculous arguments, it’s literally biology. Homosexuality is inborn (transgenderism is not), we cannot change who we’re attracted to, so it’s our damn right to defend our attraction.
You understand that we have as much evidences supporting the fact that transsexualism is biological, as we have supporting homosexuality is biological, right? Saying this is kind of things is shooting yourself in the foot. I already know a lot of homophobes saying that since we didn’t remove the possibility that homosexuality could be due to social constructs (and never will), it could very well be “fluid” or simply constructed with the years. The same thing you claim for transsexualism, basically. So which is it? You can’t have both. Either both are biological, or either both are socially constructed. Cherry picking one that would be biological while the other isn’t just because it suits your ideology is dumb as fuck.
Study regarding sexuality and particularly trans women with males show that heterosexual males can be attracted to trans women pre-SRS and still be heterosexuals. So by definition, it doesn’t change their sexuality, it’s more complex than that, and only a minority of heterosexual males are actually interested in trans women pre-SRS. Gay men are also very rarely interested in trans women pre/post-SRS, from the same study. But you’re right, people can’t change their attraction, and we should defend our right to say no to anyone. I wish we could have more studies regarding this because it is interesting, but for now, that’s all we have and it doesn’t go your way. Don’t forget that paraphilias regarding cross-dressing, mismatching sex/body exist too and might be playing a bigger part than we know today.
Next time, please be more polite regarding the bodies of trans people, even if you don’t like us.
lmao I'm not gonna be more polite to troons who want to erase homosexuality. There are no exceptions. Homosexuals like the same SEX not gender "identity". And like you suprisingly correctly said how do we know that those participants of the studies that "supposedly" proved heterosexual men are into trans"women" are actually heterosexual and not homosexual or bisexual male feteshists who like the idea of femenized men (more often than not as a power play because they see feminity as an inferiour trait)? Or whatever else paraphilias they have.
And whatever are you talking about? What cherry picking? Homosexuality is definitively proven by science to be inborn and not "curable" by therapy. Transgenderism on the other hand is not well researched enough to definitively say it's inborn and that it's not induced by societies misogynistic influences.
It's really sad we live in a world where it's easier to escape by "changing your sex" instead of accepting your female body.
@ilililian damn right no one takes you seriously if the "rights" you demand are access to homosexual and female spaces and the right to have your little cosmetic surgeries covered by insurance. Try searching for a better therapist. All they want to do is make money that's why they prescribe you gullibles HRT so fast. For you it's not to late I see. You can still stop taking testosterone. 3 months normally don't inclict much harm on your female body.
Wow, you're highkey an asshole.
"troons who want to erase homosexuality" again, nobody's erasing homosexuality, even the people who want everyone to be attracted to trans people, but in this conversation the people who disagree with you are just saying "hey, some gay people like trans people"
there are exceptions, deal with it
People are attracted to sex characteristics, personality, other features of appearance, and so on, not chromosomes - so yes, you can be exclusively attracted to one set of sex characteristics, but that does not necessarily exclude trans people. It can. It often does. But it doesn't necessarily and those people's lives should not impact you or matter to you. Your fascination with dictating to other gays who they're allowed to like is honestly ridiculous - just like the fascination with insisting gay people like trans people is ridiculous. Like I said at the beginning, live and let live.
The cherrypicking is that gender dysphoria is neurological, it's inborn, it's not curable (transition is however the best treatment, it's definitely not treatable via "therapy"), and it's been proven such - to the same extent that homosexuality has been.
Society isn't misogynistic, it shits on men just as much as it shits on women, in some cases more.
It's not easier to "escape", it's easier to cure a condition that you have. Were a woman who was not suffering from gender dysphoria to transition to male, she would get gender dysphoria, because her sex characteristics would now not align with her neurology. It would, were you without that medical condition, be easier to live in western society than to transition.
You were a patronising fuck to that other person, you're not their doctor, you don't know shit about them, and it's not a "cosmetic surgery", it's a medical treatment for a neurological condition.
I glady am a "highkey asshole" if it means saying the truth. these "exceptions" sound pretty bisexual to me. Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can't change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females.
Ah yes. "Gender dysphoria" aka body dysmorphia. A mistake a lot of troons make. It's not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe.
How come "gender dysphoria" is just a first-world problem then? Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don't make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?
This "cure" is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life. And please society isn't misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex? Don't come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don't have more rights than men. Lmao who are you kidding?
I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice. You really think these "gender specialists" care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money. But hey I won't stop you @ilililian. Go ahead and mutilate your body if it feels right. You're still gonna be a female though, because you were born that way with all the parts: breasts, clitoris, uterus, you can menstruate (what trans"women" claim to be able to do never can).
Better accept than soon. A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies. You can't escape. You are female, that's a biological reality.
"these “exceptions” sound pretty bisexual to me."
Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner.
"Again homosexuals like the same sex -> you can’t change your sex -> homosexuals males/ females can only be attracted to natal males/ females."
Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid.
"Ah yes. “Gender dysphoria” aka body dysmorphia."
Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology.
"It’s not comparable with conversion therapy at all, you homophobe."
Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason.
"How come “gender dysphoria” is just a first-world problem then?"
It's not. People in other countries suffer from it.
"Maybe because people in the third world have real problems and don’t make themselves new ones out of boredom and loneliness?"
You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations.
"This “cure” is not a cure if involves mutilating your body and being dependent on meds your whole life."
I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps.
"And please society isn’t misogynistic? Take a look around you, sexualization, objectification, rape threats from males pretending to be women, getting fired from work just because you acknowledge biological sex?"
Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit.
"Don’t come at me with the only non-western women are oppressed. Women as a class are oppressed and don’t have more rights than men."
Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally.
"I was not patronizing her, I was giving a honest advice."
Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals.
"You really think these “gender specialists” care about you? They just see this whole trans trend as a way to make quick money."
Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not.
"A lot of detransitioners are female who just wanted to escape misogyny and their sexualized bodies."
And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life.
Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you.
"You can’t escape. You are female, that’s a biological reality."
Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish.
"Well you're wrong. Bisexuality is not a catch-all "other" section for sexuality, and it doesn't mean "people I don't wanna call gay". If you were at a bar and a woman told you she was bisexual, it would be rather sucky to find out that she actually meant "I am never and will never be attracted to women, I just like transmen and men." because these words communicate certain things, and that is not what the word "bisexual" communicates. She only likes men and she does not like women, she's straight. You're advocating to erase what bisexuality is and for people to use words in a misleading manner."
- That's being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn't like males either.
"Nobody can see chromosomes. People are attracted to, as I've said, sex characteristics, personality, other physical characteristics, etc - some gay people are indeed attracted to trans people of their preferred gender, and to erase that is stupid."
- If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn't tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception.
"Gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are two different things, both medically defined, and once again you are misusing medical terminology."
- Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they're heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females.
"Things can be comparable without being identical - both are attempts at "curing" something that cannot be cured in that manner, neither work, and that is the only basis on which I compared them. I'm not a homophobe, neither for that nor any other reason."
- One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body.
"It's not. People in other countries suffer from it"
- Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their "felt gender"
"You believe, as you said, that gender dysphoria is body dysmorphia, so even excluding the vast inaccuracy of claiming that a neurological condition is chosen, you're also claiming that a mental health condition is chosen to "make problems" for oneself out of "boredom and loneliness", which is both incorrect and ableist. Congratulations."
- Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don't even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don't have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren't there. They try to fix things that weren't a problem to begin with.
"I called it a treatment, not a cure. A treatment can require you to make changes to your body (removing tonsils or appendix) or be dependent on medication for your whole life (many physical and mental health conditions require this) - neither of those things disqualifies it from being a treatment, especially given all of the evidence that it helps."
- In case of these transes they don't have physical pain, they don't have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!
"Sexualization and objectification and rape threats all happen to men too, in fact men are more at risk for violence, and men are raped more often according to many stats, once you include prison and "forced to penetrate" amongst the definition. While we're on the subject of prison, men are more likely to be sent to prison and more likely to receive a sentence, even when you account for the same crime. While we're on the subject of rape, my own country doesn't recognise the rape of a man by a woman as rape legally... including if the male is a child. Everyone gets shit."
- Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can't be in favor of women if it's controlled by men they just can't hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it's no where near the numbers of female rape victims.
"Women have more rights in many countries than men, legally speaking, see my last point about my own country's (and many other country's) definitions of rape legally. "
- Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights.
"Your advice was awful, irresponsible, and at odds with that of the involved medical professionals."
- My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do.
"Hunny, you don't know a thing about me or what I think. I'm well aware that nobody cares about me, but they're not in it to make money, and I'm only here to express the facts, not to pick sides based on who apparently cares about me. Even if I was, you definitely do not."
- Then you don't know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many "scientific studies" are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She's skilled in that department.
"And would you look at that, as I said if a woman transitioned to "escape" then they would get dysphoria, and subsequently detransition... if it were truly easier, as you claimed, to transition to "escape" then why would they have detransitioned? Why wouldn't they be happy in their lives now free from all this "oppression"? Oh right, it's because it's not easier to take a medical treatment for a condition that you don't have than to live your life."
- Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next.
"Also, I'm not going to quote your previous part that was obviously intended to trigger someone's dysphoria, that was pathetic of you."
- As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than "don't trigger my dysphoria uwu". That's pathetic. The only thing she's triggered off is that I don't cater to her role play.
"Ehh... Mostly. Transition definitely changes some sex characteristics (like hormone levels), but it can't change chromosomes... but to invalidate somebody over something so irrelevant to you personally, something that's between them, their partner, and medical professionals, is downright ridiculous. You think you're being spooky with this "you can't escape" stuff or something? It just sounds childish."
- Transition doesn't change anything. It's literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It's not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don't think I'm spooky I'm telling the truth.
"That’s being bisexual with a preference not heterosexuality. a woman who likes other females is a bisexual or lesbian if she doesn’t like males either."
She doesn't like women. She likes men and transmen. That's not bisexual or lesbian. It would be misleading to call herself bisexual.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
It's wrong to sleep with someone without telling them of your status, but you're incorrect when you say that every single gay person loses their attraction at the point of being told. You're simply incorrect.
"Proof? -if you come at me with brain sex studies you already lost since they’re heavily biased and try to justify the inferiority of females."
They are different conditions with different criteria. Go actually study psychology and learn the medical definitions of words before you go throwing them around willy-nilly.
"One is trying to change an innate attraction often by manipulation, in some countries torture or corrective rape for lesbians and the other is trying to get them reconnect with their natural body."
Gay men and bisexuals can all also experience corrective rape. So can trans people. And it's not just "reconnecting with their natural body", it's ineffective, often torture like, practices that do not do anything to treat the underlying condition - gender dysphoria.
"Where exactly? Because all I see are entitled white teens with attention issues who try be part of the LGB community. I doubt that people in countries where a fucking war is going on worry about their “felt gender”"
Genetically Modified Skeptic did a video a little while ago about fundamentalism in Israel, and his guide was a trans person who lives there iirc. There are lots of trans people around the world, including in war torn countries. Gender dysphoria isn't just about daydreaming about gender, it's a persistent discomfort due to one's sex characteristics.
"Transes with body dysmorphia need a real therapist. Most trans identifieds don’t even have dysmorphia, they just do it for the attention and/ or to fullfill their fetishes. As for the troons who make themselves problems. Yes, if you have nothing significant going on in your life, don’t have friends, a hobby, you start to search for something to do -> you start finding problems that aren’t there. They try to fix things that weren’t a problem to begin with."
Gender dysphoria is treated by transition, and once it's been properly assessed and diagnosed then that's what any "proper therapist" will refer you for. That is what trans people are, and your degrading assumptions that most trans people are doing it for attention, fetish, or loneliness are based on internet arguments with teenagers, who of course have a lot of other shit going on in their lives and aren't the most emotionally well equipped. There are sometimes people who are wrong, who don't have the condition, and a proper therapist can figure out the difference and refer people to the correct treatment for them - to disregard all trans people over the mistakes of a few struggling teenagers is dumb.
"In case of these transes they don’t have physical pain, they don’t have a medical need to remove their uterus or breasts like actual cancer victims do. What evidence is there that it helps? The suicide rate actually increases after transition!"
Physical pain is not the only kind of pain, and gender dysphoria is a serious condition with dangerous consequences and a lot of pain if left untreated. The suicide rate does not increase - if you're basing that nonsense on the Swedish study or that study where people mistakenly thought a lifetime rate was a post-treatment rate, then I've already debunked that. I'm assuming it's the latter, since that's the one that most people defer to... I hope you know the difference between lifetime rates and post-treatment rates.
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/129625828802/have-you-done-stuff-on-how-most-post-op-trans
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/132497292602/no-the-swedish-study-does-not-say-that
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438812697/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183501276652/i-really-think-we-should-research-treatments-for
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183438300362/eeveelutionsforequality
https://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/183425718332/i-forgot-to-mention-in-that-chart-the-rate-of
"Are you seriously trying to tell me that the shit we females have to go through from basic street harassement, over enduring on TV-groping and rape fantasies in porn to real rape and murder is in anyway comparable with male victims? The system can’t be in favor of women if it’s controlled by men they just can’t hide the shocking numbers of male crimes anymore so the truth comes to light. I know males can get raped but it’s no where near the numbers of female rape victims."
I literally just told you that even CDC stats show men as victims more when you account for prison and made to penetrate, and with my own country not even counting men victimised by women as rape... is it any wonder that the stats often don't include male victims for bullshit reasons, and therefore inflate the difference. Men are victims of all the stuff you said - street harassment, rape, and murder - as well as being more likely to be victims of violent crime, to receive harsher sentences, to not have their rape even legally recognised as rape, genital mutilation as babies and children being legal. Do you think a little boy being raped by a woman and then it not even legally counting as rape, her getting a lesser sentence, and even potentially her being able to claim child support, is not as bad as some mean words being yelled at you in the street? Because that was what your argument at the beginning of that paragraph seemed to be.
"Until women get the right for abortion, anatomy over their own bodies in medical situations, the same wage, are not potrayed in a sexualizing way in media or demanded to be sexuually available to men I start to believe we have more rights."
Women can get abortions in my country. Men and women can both have or lose bodily autonomy in medical situations, that's the same for everyone. Women have the same wages as men, once you account for hours worked, jobs chosen, etc. Men are sexualised in media too. Men are expected to be sexually available even as fucking children - have you not seen all of the disgusting people who say that teenage boys raped by women are lucky, wanted it, etc?? Again, I talked about rape laws not even including male victims, and you brought the repeatedly debunked wage gap to the table to claim that women have it worse... wow.
"My advice helped other dysphoric females before and prevented them from going through a life-long of painful medication that destroys their body. If she wants to butcher her body she should go ahead though. Nothing I can do."
He's happy with his choice, so leave him be. It's not your job to convert people. Politely advise people to talk to therapists and make sure they've made the right choice, sure, but that's not what you did and you were far from polite. You talked about his private body parts, you badgered him, you keep tagging him after he asked to be left alone, etc.
"Then you don’t know as much about the pharma industry as I do and how many “scientific studies” are actually not believable at all with all the tricks they use. Go on insidiouswife blog to read more about it. She’s skilled in that department."
Me and insidious don't get along iirc. Besides, where I live there's a national health service - now, I don't trust the faceless bureaucrats in charge, I don't trust administration, etc, but I know that the doctors aren't making bank off this, there's not enough centers, there's not enough doctors, they're stretched thin and doing their best to figure out who needs help and give the right help to them. You keep demanding I give you studies, yet you keep saying that you refuse to trust those studies... I've seen that trick from anti-vaxxers and woo salesmen and cultists before, and I'm not an idiot. You don't trust anything that I'd provide you with, and you will twist the wording any which way you like, but you'll keep demanding more sources, more energy, more time, because you think eventually one of them will actually have a flaw and I'll actually buy your snakeoil.
"Because living with body-destroying medication is worse than actually accepting your female body. Next."
You said, in your earlier reply, that escaping via transition was better than living as a woman, and that was why people transitioned... now you're changing your tune and it's actually better to live as a woman, because that's what currently suits your narrative? It's not body destroying. It's a hormone not uranium. If you genuinely have gender dysphoria, treating it actually does feel better.
"As I already told @ilililian she needs to find a better excuse than “don’t trigger my dysphoria uwu”. That’s pathetic. The only thing she’s triggered off is that I don’t cater to her role play."
Stop tagging him when he asked you to leave him alone, you hag. You described body parts that you know cause dysphoria, that's intentionally triggering somebody. Not catering to somebody's dysphoria is one thing, outright setting out to aggravate it by listing things that trigger it is another.
"Transition doesn’t change anything. It’s literally cosmetic surgery to immitate the opposite sex. It’s not something personal anymore if you try to redefine words, trans children and convert homosexuals. I don’t think I’m spooky I’m telling the truth."
Transition literally changes the hormones in your body, your body fat distribution, your muscle mass, your red blood cell count, and I could go on. It's a lot more than a cosmetic surgery, and it's a medical treatment for a medical condition. You're the one trying to redefine words (bisexual, delusion, gender dysphoria, and body dysmorphia, to give a few examples), trying to dictate people's sexuality to them, talking over bisexuals on what their sexuality means, talking over gay people who like trans people, and trying to convert trans people. Nobody here is trying to convert anyone - my argument has consistently been that some do and some don't and that's that. Nowhere on this post did anyone support transition before somebody is old enough to make drastic life decisions. You're not telling the truth, you're preaching an incorrect gospel.
Anyway, I think I'm done arguing with this brick wall, it's pointless.
"If a male/ female is really a homosexual the male/ female will loose their attraction as soon as they find out the person is of the opposite sex. And if the trans identified person didn’t tell them of their trans status they committed rape by deception."
This makes no sense. If it’s true that homosexual men and women can’t be attracted to trans men and women respectively, then they wouldn’t be attracted at all in the first place, without ever getting told. Im not attracted to women, guess what, I’ve never experienced being attracted to a woman til she tells me oh, I’m a woman btw.
Sexuality is based on percieved sex. Hence why a lesbian and a hetrosexual man can be attracted to a trans woman. Because she appears, to all your senses, to be female.
Certain things can completely erase your attraction to someone, but that doesn’t change your sexuality. Just because you’re a lesbian doesn’t mean you’re attracted to all women, just that you’re attracted to women. Just because I’m straight af, doesnt mean I’m attracted to all men, just that I’m attracted to men.
@theeviltervenwitch​ troon is mysogynistic anti gender noncomformity slur used against women that didn’t fit patriarchal standards of natural feminine appaearance and was then revived by the alt-rught as a insult for trans people that don’t pass, so idk my gay ass doesn’t really give a fuck about your whinning about who is erasing what when you can fall that easy on using barely erased mysogyny because you priritize being a unapologetic mean girl over using slurs
It's not a slur, it's a discriptor for transes who yes don't pass because the majority don't and who think the world has to bow before them. so I keep using it. If you don't give a fuck why respond?