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How to love a broken girl

How to love a broken girl. How many would benefit from an instruction book for that? Its easy to love the carefree girls, the “normal” girls, the confident girls next door, but what about the broken girls? The girls with fortresses around their heart and shields in their eyes? The girls whose souls have aged beyond their earthly years? The girls with bodies and minds that have survived wars which would break the strongest of men? Sometimes these girls should come with a warning label. The warning pendulum swings both ways. This warning is not only for how you must treat her but for all the ways she will ruin you.

1. You cannot love her gently. She does not realize she deserves to be loved. You must love her with a force that can crush mountains. You must burn her soul so hot with your love that doubt melts away. Your love must be unconditional and you must show her on her very worst days.

2. She doesnt know shes beautiful. She can get compliments all day and she wont believe it. There is a demon on her shoulder whispering that its not true. It takes a dozen compliments to erase one hurtful torment from her past. Shower her with compliments, be her cheerleader, until your words are her heartbeat instead of her doubts.

3. Chase her. I know we often have the attitude of not chasing anyone. I know it is said to be weak if we chase someone who walks away, but we need to see you are weak for us. Sometimes a broken girl needs to see how much you need her. She needs to.see that vulnerability in your eyes to feel ok. We need you to need us.

4. She needs routine. Broken girls over analyze everything. They notice everything, too. Did you stop asking her for pictures after some time passes? Did you stop using a pet name? Every broken pattern to us means the end of the only thing we have ever wanted and it terrifies us.

5. Smother us with affection. Touch us. Kiss us. Touch us some more. Broken girls have not experienced enough positive affection in their life. We will absorb every ounce as a person dying of thirst demands water. You cannot shower us with enough of a good touch.

6. Be honest and keep promises. Broken girls have not dared to dream much. Every vow made to us has been broken. Every promise has been a lie. We would rather you never let a promise escape your lips than have you utter false ones.

7. Prepare to drown. If we let you inside our chaotic soul, you will be immersed in a madness you will not understand. We sometimes walk the balance beam of insanity and sometimes we fall. The biggest warning we should have is this.. if we love you, it is forever. We will love you with a loyalty that will amaze you. We will be committed and our heart will beat your name. While we are still broken we will try to devour all of your pain. We will be perceptive to your wounds and eager to heal your soul. If we love you, please be prepared that we will forever stay.

***This was not written by me, but by Lady-Savant on fet, she gave me permission to post, and asked no links be added.

silkandfirewordsmith73-deactiva

I love this and I will continue reblogging this

sublittlestuff

^^^^^^^

sheknewsomeone

Baby I will do all of this for you because you are my everything 💙

thegrrlwhowaited

so completely accurate

softandsnarky

I just love the idea of preventative maintenance. A firm spanking in the morning just to set the tone for the day. Clamp my nipples after lunch to keep me focused. A good hard fuck up the ass and a plug to keep me stretched before we go out for the evening so I remember who I belong to.

It's the little things.

talking-to-the-sun

i don’t know how you don’t see what you’ve done to me.

emoboy-cunt

pussy being taped up or locked is the cutest thing in the world to me… it’s like, sorry, no cumming for this stupid whore! <3 it really reminds you that its pleasure doesn’t matter even a little bit, because the slut it’s attached to has two other perfectly good holes to use. mmm, but maybe I’d free that poor pussy every once in a while just to overstimulate it. it’s probably so much easier to make a denied cunt squirt everywhere ^q^ and then it’d be back under wraps for at least a month

fatherfiguredom

The last time I tamed a brat she was pissing me off honestly, and we had nothing to do that night. So rather than letting her get her way, she got spanked, paddled, and caned until her ass was red and purple. Then she was tied to the bed, ankles and wrists. Legs spread, and I edged her with my tongue, fingers, toys, vibes, everything available to me. Every time she got close, she would beg, her brat facade fell away after the first ten minutes. Even if she wouldn't tell me she was close, it was obvious from the way her cunt shuddered. I would stop immediately. It started off with me getting cussed at, then moved to the begging, then it was back to cussing, genuine anger, then the tears. The tears were what I was really after. She was there for an hour, in the cycle of being edged, right until she started shaking, then having it immediately pulled away. When she was finally allowed to cum, it was hard, fast, and not merciful. This would be a punishment too as she quickly learned, cumming first with my fingers and me sucking her clit. When my cock entered she came even harder, she started squirting which was not something she normally does, and came around 10 times before she couldn't anymore and started crying again. I made her cum another 4 times after that by eating her ass as a treat, I am a kind dom at heart after all.

#bd/sm humiliation #bd/sm master #bd/sm edging #edge and obey #edging slave #Edge play #overstim

insatiablenick

God i loveeeee it when they make me ask for permission to cum n Even more when i can't hold it n it leads to getting bent over their lap n spanked for it

narcissistichedonist

you’re sobbing by the fifth edge, voice hoarse and broken, body shaking uncontrollably as i keep you teetering right there. your cunt is swollen and dripping everywhere, but i refuse to let you tip over. every time you get close i stop and watch you fall apart a little more

“poor thing,” i murmur condescendingly, stroking your thigh while you cry. “so pathetic and desperate. all that pride gone… reduced to this leaking mess just because i won’t let you cum.”

i slide my fingers back in slowly, building you up again. “keep crying for me, angel. you’re so much prettier when you’re this desperate.”

thegrrlwhowaited

🥵

#edge play #edgeslut #edging and denial #denial kink #bd/sm dom #bd/sm community #bd/sm brat

kindinb00

narcissistichedonist

forcing her to beg for forgiveness while i sadistically edge for being such a brat

"you thought acting like a brat was cute, didn’t you ? now look at you : spread open, dripping, and shaking while i keep you right on the edge like the pathetic little slut you are."

"beg. beg properly for my forgiveness. and don’t you dare stop humping my hand while you do it."

"aww, what’s wrong, angel ? can’t form full sentences anymore ? every time you get close i stop… and you start sobbing even louder. how adorable."

"louder, darling. tell me exactly what a spoiled, bratty whore you’ve been. let me hear how sorry you are while your cunt throbs and leaks all over my fingers."

"that’s not good enough. i want real desperation. beg like you mean it or i’ll keep edging you silly for another hour. go on, tell me who this tight pussy belongs to."

"listen to yourself. crying and pleading while you grind against my hand like a dumb animal. this is what brats get. edged until their mind breaks and all that’s left is pathetic begging."

"good girl… keep begging so sweetly. maybe if you sound sorry enough i’ll let you cum. maybe. or maybe i’ll just enjoy watching you suffer a little longer for being such a naughty little thing."

daannyx666xx

stonerslutt2000

heavennn is a belt around your neck🤤🤤

femininedomminance

Do you remember when you used to beg me for orgasms? You'd whine and whimper, telling me how you needed the release. You'd say your desperation was too much - you needed to cum.

But I would always say no, of course.

And you would cry in frustration as I forced you to edge over and over, denying you the ultimate pleasure.

Look at you now, little slut.

You haven't asked for an orgasm in months. Did you realize that?

No, you know better now. You understand that orgasms aren't for girls like you.

Now you beg for permission to edge.

You understand that your denial pleases me. That my pleasure is the only pleasure you are allowed. My pleasure is the only pleasure that matters.

Have you realized that I've replaced your orgasms with edges? And you thank me every time.

You throw yourself at me in gratitude each time I deny you an orgasm with another edge, humbly thanking me for keeping you desperate, needy, and ready for me to use at any time.

How pathetic.

thegrrlwhowaited

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