Love Me, Hate Me,Say What You Want About Me

[weeinterpreter]

Butler: Don't break someone's heart, they only have one.

Juliet: Break one of their bones instead, they have 206 of them.

[sarainissan]

Four of Swords

Void Tarot

by Sarai Nissan

[adivinationwitch]

Lilith. First Woman. First Witch. Born of Paradise. Queen of Hell. 

[thegaytofu]

𝕭𝖎𝖌 𝕯 𝕰𝖓𝖊𝖗𝖌𝖞 🚬

[thelestrangebrat]

[just-antithings]

Just Anti Things: the duality of man

[just-antithings]

I know that this should really piss me off but tbh I kind of love it when I can find such a perfect example of the hypocrisy of the anti movement while barely trying

[peacesmovingcabaret]

Well, looks like another psycho in this site to block and report.

[azurowle]

“I’m legally obligated to kill you”

Then try, asshole.

[antis-are-stupid]

“I’m legally obligated to kill you” Bring it on motherfucker!

[thelestrangebrat]

Joke's on you: my head's detachable!

[mishtho]

kill 👏 off 👏 rowena 👏 and 👏 i’ll 👏 kill 👏 you

[thelestrangebrat]

☺

🗡🔨⛏🏹🔫💉

[thelestrangebrat]

On one hand, I feel like dancing. Ballet. On the other, with my lack of complete control, I worry I'll fall. In a hilarious tangle of limbs. Quite like a marionette whose strings broke in the middle of a jump or spin.

[thelestrangebrat]

I am either drunk or tipsy. Either way, when I move the world spins, as if unable to catch up with me and yet desperately trying to. Also, my eloquence has increased a notch or two. I'm not sure if that is due to an altered state of mind, or the lack of a filter/90% of my inhibitions.

Either way, I love it!

[royalrowena-deactivated20200127]

–Nikita Gill (insp. x)

@ruthiesconnells @emilyymichelle @rowenaisfabulous @collectorofsecretsandsouls @victoriasagittariablack

[cherrypierowena]

Such an accurate reflection of what Rowena has been through.😢💗

[shadowgirl-vsb]

💔😭😭

[thelestrangebrat]

[kiahexploration]

[thelestrangebrat]

I'm surprised Supernatural isn't on here.

On that note, I'm right here demons! Crowley, invite Lilith and anyone else who wants to come to the party!

Woohoo!🎉

[thelestrangebrat]

Gerald’s Game

Is a good movie. But it hurts. And I should not be watching it. Just… no.

[thelestrangebrat]

Finished it. Good, indeed. Still clawed at buried thoughts but the ending gave a good lesson. A reminder.

[thelestrangebrat]

Gerald's Game

Is a good movie. But it hurts. And I should not be watching it. Just... no.

[demonologist-in-denim]

Just watched the Netflix mini-documentary “Witches: A Century of Murder,” about the witch hunting hysteria in Scotland and England in the 1590’s-1740’s. It’s horrific and historically fascinating all on its own. For a Supernatural fan, it brings up a lot of interesting points, among them a glimpse into Rowena’s early life and Crowley’s human years. More importantly, it’s a good reminder that hunters can be as monstrous as the things they claim to be hunting.

[thelestrangebrat]

Saw similar videos on medieval witch hunts and thought, 'any witch or immortal to have survived those times and didn't turn evil must be a saint'. Because I certainly would have turned into a cruel, cold hearted, merciless terror if it had been me.

[thisiswhymomworries]

when u have period cramps but u haven’t actually started yet like ur uterus is legit just humming the fucken Jaws theme song

[ascrolluponthemoon-deactivated2]

Oh god XD Legit the best description of this XD The thing is my cramps start like a week before. I hate it dx

[thelestrangebrat]

"This is warm up, bitch."

[siasepet-deactivated20190208]

Run and escape reality.

[thelestrangebrat]

Sound advice

[thelestrangebrat]

Those Who Live in Desert Lands

When shadows coat the desert lands

And figures move in yellow sands

So must you lock yourself at home

And stay silent till morning sun has shone

  For what lurks outside has no name

And ne’er in history have they ever been tamed

Like animals we trust and teach

So unfortunate are those who meet

These vicious creatures who only pray

For their next meal of juicy red meat

  Even natives who are skilled and wise

Have had no mercy from their frightening cries

So what think you, foolish traveler

Be spared from their terrible plight

 Older than a burning star

And long have they travelled far

Valleys, hills, and mountain trails

From cold white snows to infinite days

Until, last, they have reached our land

And made their home in the glowing sand

  For centuries they have fed and nested

Like common creatures, though more detested

And centuries more they will survive

For none has wits and strength to kill their kind

[eviltessmacher]

As a parent, you don’t get privacy until you are on your own. My house, my rules, my money, my decision.

Don’t like it?

Too bad.

I am the parent here. I’m not your friend. I’m your father.

[justfunnyreblogs-deactivated201]

Literally kids are not your prisoner??? There’s a difference between being protective and being controlling.

[a-kir-a-deactivated20191025]

“You don’t get privacy until you’re an adult” like what the fuck. You’re one of those piece of shit parents that thinks taking away bedroom doors and making their kids hold sandwich board signs on busy roads is appropriate punishment aren’t you? Children and teens are still fucking people and still deserve respect. If you can’t even respect your child how do you expect to teach them to respect others?

[florafen]

The mindset parents have of “my house my rules / I bought you that phonecomputertabletetc so I can go through it” is a huge contributer to anxiety, depression, self harm, and suicide in kids and teens and if anyone is defending, condoning, or practicing that behavior I hope to god they get their kids taken away from them. Nobody deserves to grow up under an iron fist of emotional abuse.

So my dad took away my laptop because I wouldn’t give him the password. I wasn’t even allowed to type it in, he demanded to know the password to my personal computer because he thinks I’m “ doing things I’m not supposed to do. ” My sister is not, and never has been, held to the same standard when it came to passwords on her own phone etc. But my parents always suspect me of being “up to something” and will randomly ask to use my computer/ know the password, and when I say no, they get mad at me. In the past, they have taken away my devices and looked through them, which cased me a lot of anxiety and is part of the reason I don’t like it when people use my computer or go through the camera roll on my phone. Even as I type this, I’m being asked what I’m doing. If you think parents demanding to know the passwords to their child’s personal devices is a breach of privacy please reblog

[ghostedarmy-deactivated-deactiv]

My dad threatens to take my door away from me for having it closed. I’m a seventeen year old female, and he has threatened to take away my door.

[2oulle22-lover]

when i was a teenager, i wasn’t allowed to have a cellphone, so my father would hand me a little bag of change and force me to call home from a payphone every single time i left somewhere and again when i arrived at the next place. that means if i went to the mall, i called when i got there. then if i wanted to go across the street to the Walmart i had to call and tell him so. then i had to call again when i got to the Walmart! if i had a bunch of stuff to do, i could go through the entire bag of change in one weekend - if i could even find enough payphones to call him from. his explanation for this lunacy was that he wanted to be able to find me anytime, anywhere. he also liked to randomly show up at my job to make sure i was there, and the first time i spent the night at my best friend’s after i got a car, he drove past the house no less than eight times, and called no less than four times. one of those calls was to ask where i was because my car wasn’t visible from the road - and when i explained the turnaround i was parked in was behind the house, he told me we’d “better not go anywhere or have friends over”. like, what the hell were we going to do? have a drunken orgy while my friend’s grandma was sitting in the next room? we ended up playing chess in the front parlor all night with all the lights on and the curtains open so he could see us if he drove by.

and what, exactly, did i do to deserve this? not a fucking thing. i didn’t drink, didn’t smoke, didn’t sneak out, didn’t do drugs, didn’t skip school, nothing. in 13 years of public school, i had one detention - for being late too many times. that’s it. i never did a single thing to make him think i was untrustworthy and i got stalked for it.

when i graduated high school, my father told me if i was going to go to art college on his dime, he was going to have a say in the classes i took and what i did with my free time - he even went so far as to tell me if he ever dropped by the campus, i’d better be in my dorm doing homework or in class, and if i got a grade he didn’t like, he was going to pull me out of school, bring me home, and basically keep me a prisoner with no phone, no tv, no visits with friends until i graduated from the local community college. faced with another four years of stalking and abuse, i moved out and worked in a factory until i could be considered an independent student, then went to the art college i’d always wanted to - on my terms.

my father died last May and i hadn’t talked to him for a year, hadn’t seen him for two, and before that i hadn’t had any communication with him at all for four.

the moral of the story for you “my house, my rules, you don’t get any rights” parents is: stop treating your children like shit or you’re going to die alone, and you’ll deserve it.

[shrineart]

My father didn’t do it to this extreme but he listened in on my calls, he constantly accused me of having sex or doing pot.

Guess what parents?

Most kids that got constantly accused of bullshit that I KNEW? INCLUDING MYSELF? Ended up doing those things because “Fuck it, might as well if they’re not going to believe me!”

For me, I had sex way before I planned to (19. I was planning on waiting til marriage). Why? Because fuck it, he acted like I was trying to be a whore all the damn time, I was going to do whatever I damn well pleased.

I moved out at age 19. I have never moved back in. I barely talk to him. I talk almost exclusively to my mom.

When I moved out he said I’d be pregnant by the end of the year.

I’m 30. I have no kids. I don’t plan on having kids. Ever. Because I watched every other person in my family have kids when they couldn’t afford them and I’m not doing that to a child.

When I lived with my parents I had nearly all A’s, I had an 8pm curfew at the age of 19, I was never allowed to leave town, leave state, anything like that for school trips or what have you. When I was in college I wasn’t allowed to go to any colleges more than 30 minutes away. My parents didn’t trust others and they instilled that in me and it took me YEARS to fix it.

My therapist pinned down exactly what that does to it a kid too. It’s isolating. You’re isolating your kid. You’re telling them you don’t trust them. You’re telling them you inherently think they’re bad.

And that has huge ramifications on your bond with them.

Hope you’re ready for it.

[rattlecat]

Dear Parents who approve of the lack of privacy until a certain age: You are engaging in child abuse. Emotional child abuse.

Preventing a child from having privacy is a punishable offense in the United States (many countries actually) and you can be penalized for it.

What is that?

Rejecting or ignoring: telling a child he or she is unwanted or unloved, showing little interest in child, not initiating or returning affection, not listening to the child, not validating the child’s feelings, breaking promises, cutting child off in conversation

Shaming or humiliating: calling a child names, criticizing, belittling, demeaning, berating, mocking, using language or taking action that takes aim at child’s feelings of self-worth

Terrorizing: accusing, blaming, insulting, punishing with or threatening abandonment, harm or death, setting a child up for failure, manipulating, taking advantage of a child’s weakness or reliance on adults, slandering; screaming; yelling

Isolating: keeping child from peers and positive activities, confining child to small area, forbidding play or other stimulating experiences

Corrupting: engaging child in criminal acts, telling lies to justify actions or ideas, encouraging misbehavior

If you are an abusive parent, you probably have one of these (if not all) of these red flags:

Routinely ignores, criticizes, yells at or blames child

Plays favorites with one sibling over another

Poor anger management or emotional self-regulation

Stormy relationships with other adults, disrespect for authority

History of violence or abuse

Untreated mental illness, alcoholism or substance abuse

Children who suffer from your abuse, experience these emotional and behavioral issues:

Habits like sucking, biting, rocking

Learning disabilities and developmental delays

Overly compliant or defensive

Extreme emotions, aggression, withdrawal

Anxieties, phobias, sleep disorders

Destructive or anti-social behaviors (violence, cruelty, vandalism, stealing, cheating, lying)

Behavior that is inappropriate for age (too adult, too infantile)

Suicidal thoughts and behaviors

In summary, there is no “my house, my rules”. If you actively promote this type of behavior as parents, you are committing a crime, and you can be fined and imprisoned for it, as well as having your kids taken away, which, if they are experiencing this behavior from you, shouldn’t be your kids to begin with.

Children are not your property, regardless of relation.

If you want to guarantee your children never consider you a part of their life or interact with you ever again, continuing these behaviors will absolutely do that. 

As someone who has a support group of nearly 80 kids ranging from the ages of 14 to 27, I can tell you so many horror stories of parental abuse and the shit it fucks up the kids with as a result. My wife experienced and survived her own form of parental abuse, as have I. 

We do not tolerate it, and neither should your kids.

[the-wondersmith-deactivated2019]

I am so very thankful I had reasonable, understanding parents.

[dalniente]

Literally all you’re doing with this shit is making ABSOLUTELY DAMNED SURE that, when your child eventually has a problem they could use your help with, they will do everything in their power to keep you from finding out.  You’re destroying their trust in you.  

[throckmortonianfluid]

My mom made a Tumblr so she could follow me and monitor what I posted. She refused to tell me her url because she was concerned I would block her. That isn’t being a concerned parent. That’s STALKING. If it had been anyone else, it would have been called STALKING and I would have blocked the person who did it. No one gets special treatment just because they had unprotected sex, intentional or otherwise.

[sushinfood]

can i just say how damning it is to hear “i’m not your friend; i’m your father”

parents can sometimes be the very best friends you have

it’s just so heartbreaking

[lottafandoms]

The sad part it, even if you’d tell them to stop. You will either A, have everything taken away from you and constantly monitored. And B, kicked out onto the streets or shoved off to some other family member. There’s nothing we can do unless we speak out to a person who would most likely bring in legal laws and also possibly get put somewhere else… I’d sadly rather deal with my abuse than go through all of that shit…

[jsemproblem]

It always terrifies me how some people think that they have right to abuse their children. It’s sad how often it happens and how people tend ro justify it.

P.S. I didn’t know taking doors away was the real thing, I always assumed it was something that only ever happened in teen dramas. It scares me to even think about it, I can’t imagine how someone going through this feels.

[thelestrangebrat]

To summarise all of these:

Parents? Don't be a dick to your children. Don't do to them what you wouldn't want your own parents to do to you.

It's that simple.