Simon. 27. They/Them Welcome.

There are no happy endings. Endings are the saddest part, So just give me a happy middle, and a very happy start.

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Hey guys just a reminder that this blog is no longer active! If you’d like to continue following me, shoot me a message and I’ll let you know where I’m at these days!

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Just a quick reminder that I”m not on this blog anymore!  If anyone wants to follow my new blog, message me and I’ll let you know where to find me :)

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Due to personal reasons, this blog will be shifting to a new blog.

If you want to follow my new blog, please send me a message and I will give you the url.

This blog will eventually be deleted.

I’ll reblog this a few times but I’ll be deleting pretty quickly, so hit me up while you can.

[themaddestofthemad]

This will most likely finish by Sunday night. I may not fully delete this blog, as moving everything over may be difficult and there’s a lot of stuff I’d like to keep, we’ll see. But this blog will no longer be active. If you’d like the url of my new blog, once again, just message me!

[themaddestofthemad]

Due to personal reasons, this blog will be shifting to a new blog.

If you want to follow my new blog, please send me a message and I will give you the url.

This blog will eventually be deleted.

I’ll reblog this a few times but I’ll be deleting pretty quickly, so hit me up while you can.

[themaddestofthemad]

Due to personal reasons, this blog will be shifting to a new blog.

If you want to follow my new blog, please send me a message and I will give you the url.

This blog will eventually be deleted.

I’ll reblog this a few times but I’ll be deleting pretty quickly, so hit me up while you can.

[themaddestofthemad]

Due to personal reasons, this blog will be shifting to a new blog.

If you want to follow my new blog, please send me a message and I will give you the url.

This blog will eventually be deleted.

I’ll reblog this a few times but I’ll be deleting pretty quickly, so hit me up while you can.

[themaddestofthemad]

Alright guys, this is the last post that’ll be on here for awhile - today begins my hiatus.

I dunno how long it’s gonna be, but I’m hoping a decent time.  I’m thinking the end of the semester might be a good line, that way the next time you guys here from me I’ll be in my new place (which I haven’t mentioned I don’t think), this semester will be over, I’ll have just gotten back from a trip to see a very good friend, and I’ll be gearing up for the holidays.

I love you all, and those of you that got contact info from me are more than welcome to message me whenever you like.

Otherwise, I’ll see you all on the other side <3

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Hey guys, just wanted to give you a heads up that I may be going on hiatus for a little while.  I’ve got a lot going on and the baseline tumblr drama is getting to me a little.  I haven’t decided for sure yet, but it’ll probably be sometime in the next week or two.

If you want contact info for me and don’t have it yet, hit me up and I’ll make sure you get it before I peace out for awhile.

[themaddestofthemad]

Yeah so this is definitely gonna happen.  I’ll probably hop off by the end of the week.

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This is taking effect tomorrow!

[themaddestofthemad]

Hey guys, just wanted to give you a heads up that I may be going on hiatus for a little while.  I’ve got a lot going on and the baseline tumblr drama is getting to me a little.  I haven’t decided for sure yet, but it’ll probably be sometime in the next week or two.

If you want contact info for me and don’t have it yet, hit me up and I’ll make sure you get it before I peace out for awhile.

[themaddestofthemad]

Yeah so this is definitely gonna happen.  I’ll probably hop off by the end of the week.

[themaddestofthemad]

Hey guys, just wanted to give you a heads up that I may be going on hiatus for a little while.  I’ve got a lot going on and the baseline tumblr drama is getting to me a little.  I haven’t decided for sure yet, but it’ll probably be sometime in the next week or two.

If you want contact info for me and don’t have it yet, hit me up and I’ll make sure you get it before I peace out for awhile.

[themaddestofthemad]

Self.

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Self.

[borderlinebeee]

someone who genuinely cares about and loves me: you know you can always talk to me right?

me, knowing full goddamn well I will never ever tell them all the shit going on with me: aw thanks ily I will

[themaddestofthemad]

Alright you know what, no. This post has crossed my dash too many times in the past week for me to ignore this any longer.

Listen. I get this on a joking level. I get that this is a “I don’t want to burden my friends” thing. I get that this is relatable.

My problem lies in the fact that I have seen this exact post, and many other similarly worded things, being reblogged by people NOT as a joke, or one of those jokes where everyone’s smiling and no one is actually amused.

So many people I know do this. I used to do it. I may still slip up sometimes. But I recognize that if I do this it’s the wrong response.

If someone who genuinely cares for you and loves you asks you how you are

DO. NOT. LIE. TO. THEM.

ESPECIALLY not if you’re then going to reblog something like this, especially when they will SEE it. Because do you know what that does?

They immediately recognize you’re lying. And there are many different responses that that may get from people, depending on the relationship, but none of them are good.

You want the response from an empathetic friend who is close to you (we’ll use me for this example)?

If you’re around them, they KNOW you’re not doing well. If you’re response is “I’m so not ever going to do that but ‘ily thanks I will!’” They KNOW. And then they get to sit there knowing you’re miserable and you’re not giving them an opportunity to help. So now two people are miserable. On top of which, neither knows if the other CAN help. In my case, I’m suddenly wondering if I did something wrong to make you not want to talk to me about it. And if you continue to do this, as many people will, and your shit gets out of control? Now that friend is left to try and pick up the pieces of what could have been a much less catastrophic situation, while also wondering why you didn’t come to them earlier.

THIS IS WHAT FRIENDSHIP IS FUCKERS - GOOD TIMES AND BAD STOP TRYING TO BE PERFECT ALL THE TIME NO ONE IS AND THEN EVERYONE KNOWS THAT EVERYONE IS LYING

the world as a whole would be so much better if we stopped trying to pretend everything was fine.

We are not perfect. We shouldn’t try to be. We all know we’re imperfect.

So can we please

PLEASE

Admit we’re human?

[borderlinebeee]

someone who genuinely cares about and loves me: you know you can always talk to me right?

me, knowing full goddamn well I will never ever tell them all the shit going on with me: aw thanks ily I will

[themaddestofthemad]

Alright you know what, no. This post has crossed my dash too many times in the past week for me to ignore this any longer.

Listen. I get this on a joking level. I get that this is a “I don’t want to burden my friends” thing. I get that this is relatable.

My problem lies in the fact that I have seen this exact post, and many other similarly worded things, being reblogged by people NOT as a joke, or one of those jokes where everyone’s smiling and no one is actually amused.

So many people I know do this. I used to do it. I may still slip up sometimes. But I recognize that if I do this it’s the wrong response.

If someone who genuinely cares for you and loves you asks you how you are

DO. NOT. LIE. TO. THEM.

ESPECIALLY not if you’re then going to reblog something like this, especially when they will SEE it. Because do you know what that does?

They immediately recognize you’re lying. And there are many different responses that that may get from people, depending on the relationship, but none of them are good.

You want the response from an empathetic friend who is close to you (we’ll use me for this example)?

If you’re around them, they KNOW you’re not doing well. If you’re response is “I’m so not ever going to do that but ‘ily thanks I will!’” They KNOW. And then they get to sit there knowing you’re miserable and you’re not giving them an opportunity to help. So now two people are miserable. On top of which, neither knows if the other CAN help. In my case, I’m suddenly wondering if I did something wrong to make you not want to talk to me about it. And if you continue to do this, as many people will, and your shit gets out of control? Now that friend is left to try and pick up the pieces of what could have been a much less catastrophic situation, while also wondering why you didn’t come to them earlier.

THIS IS WHAT FRIENDSHIP IS FUCKERS - GOOD TIMES AND BAD STOP TRYING TO BE PERFECT ALL THE TIME NO ONE IS AND THEN EVERYONE KNOWS THAT EVERYONE IS LYING

the world as a whole would be so much better if we stopped trying to pretend everything was fine.

We are not perfect. We shouldn’t try to be. We all know we’re imperfect.

So can we please

PLEASE

Admit we’re human?

[seeyouallintherapy]

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