shirshy

shirsh/peridot she/they | bisexual | autism + adhd + anxiety + crohn's | 18 y/o multifandom, linguistics, disability, chronic illness, ib program, my art

[themajor7th]

About me :D

My nickname is Shirsh so it's what I use here :3

I'm an 18 year old senior suffering through the IB diploma program. If you don't know what that is, I'm jealous of you.

I have diagnosed ADHD and Anxiety, and I'm working on an official Autism diagnosis. I also have Crohn's disease and take immunosuppressants. I post a lot of disability/chronic illness/mental health content.

I'm bisexual, demirose (demiromantic + demisexual), and reciprosexual. I'm also demifemale and use she/they pronouns :3

My partner is @mrdrylips, we reblog each other a lot

[expectedadult]

god never designed a better torture than a sick body with an ambitious mind

[the-future-is-chrome]

the neurodivergent experience:

20% of the time: wowwieee!!! i love my passions and interests!!!!! they make me so happy i want to jump up and down!!!!! weee!!!!!!! :3333333333

80% of the time: this mind is a prison

[myalgicencephalomyelitiscfstom]

[gay-otlc]

Very frustrating when people try to insist ADHD isn't a disability. It is! It's disabling! There are a lot of things that I struggle with or just straight up can't do because of my ADHD, and it makes life more difficult for me. It's a disability! I get that you're trying to push back on the idea that having ADHD is inherently a bad thing, but that doesn't mean it's not a disability! Obviously living with a disability can be really hard and it's okay to have negative or complicated feelings about it, but having a disability isn't inherently bad. The message shouldn't be "ADHD is okay because it's not a disability." it should be "ADHD is a disability and that's okay."

[themajor7th]

I've had really frustrating conversations about this with fellow ADHDers who claim that "it can't possibly be one because I have it and I take 'disabled' as an insult". Well guess what, I have it too, and I believe that 'disabled' is a very validating and empowering word. In my experience the most difficult people to debate with about ableism are disabled people themselves.

[fibromyalgicaf]

[themajor7th]

And if we ever actually wait until zero/very low symptoms we get called lazy

[briarpatch-kids]

Sometimes my mental illness is a part of me and inseparable from who I am, and other times my brain is a lying bastard who needs to be reminded that I'M the one in charge.

[themajor7th]

sending posts to my partner

[themajor7th]

[themajor7th]

sending posts to my partner

[enlitment]

whoever thought self-esteem is a stable trait has clearly never attempted to write an academic text

(catch me bouncing from 'scholarship is in my blood & nothing can stop me' to 'oh god I cannot comprehend let alone write a single sentence' in a span of minutes)

[opalsiren]

hello for the love of god hi. if you have a chronically ill/disabled loved one who is constantly flaking on plans, unable to attend events due to illness, please please please keep inviting them to things anyway. being excluded from events due to illness or the assumption that we won't be able to attend is the worst feeling, even if the assumption is true. a cursory 'hey we are planning to do xyz, i know this thing isn't always easy for you but we'd love to see you there if at all possible' truly means the world. better yet, make plans with your chronically/ill disabled friend in mind and help them navigate the accessibility of it all or choose what you do together. failing that, if you haven't explicitly been told to stop inviting them to things, continue to include them in your plans because being deliberately excluded hurts like hell

[forflightlessbirds]

daily reminder that if you do not provide the same amount of care, respect and support to people with gi issues, to people who have to use the toilet a lot due to their disablility, to people who are incontinent, to people who vomit a lot, to people who have ibs, to people with chronic nausea, to people with bladder or bowel control issues, to people who use diapers, to people who cannot control their bodily functions, to people who drool, to people who smell bad due to an aspect of their disability, and to people who have any "gross" aspect to their disability that you do to those who have more "conventional" disabilities then you are not an ally.

[fibro-memes]

[starsinoursystem]

btw saying that disability accommodations gives someone an "advantage" over abled people is like saying people with glasses/contacts have an advantage over people who can see fine without them and if you say this you're really ignorant

[themajor7th]

Exactly. Same with how people think that giving marginalized groups equal rights is giving them an advantage or more rights than the average privileged person. Just because they're getting more rights than they had before doesn't mean they're taking any away from you or having more than you.

[oneheadtoanother]

[themajor7th]

This is literally just what migraine aura is like

[themajor7th]

The biggest thing the IBDP taught me and made me unlearn is, "Due tomorrow means do tomorrow".

[fibro-memes]