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[themme-bee]

‼️ 18+ ‼️

28 / queer / agender / disabled / masochist

tw for untagged mental illness shit and hard kinks (impact play/pain, CNC, gaslighting/manipulation, dumification, somno, drugging, choking, discipline/control, behavioural conditioning, possessiveness, kidnapping, heavy violence, death threats/snuff)

[plushcorp]

yoy all just hate me because I'm cold and distant and don't put effort into any relationships and off putting and frustrating to try to help or make plans with and I don't text and I don't call and I don't like doing much and I constantly make excuses for it all

[closet-keys]

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if you let something slide because you were too shocked to react in the moment, you can bring it up the next time you talk to that person, you can text them, you can let them know it won’t slide again in the future. you don’t have to just accept that behavior indefinitely because you couldn’t gather your thoughts to say it made you uncomfortable when it first happened. you’re not making anything awkward, you are giving someone an opportunity to show care for you, and telling them you trust them enough to change their behavior. there is literally nothing wrong or bad with voicing discomfort even if the moment has already passed.

[mistressaccost]

genuinely do NOT want the world to see me because i don’t think that they’d understand

[psychotic-gerard]

the thing about disability is it really does sometimes boil down to "wow i wish i could do that" and then you can't. and it sucks.

[psychotic-gerard]

accomodations are important but i think they miss the point of this post. sometimes you can't do it. at all. someone needs to do it for you or it will never happen.

[psychotic-gerard]

"and then you force yourself anyway" folks im starting to think some of you really do not understand what it means to not be able to do things.

[yellowlikelemons]

The kind of sex I want requires like 3 layers of psychological manipulation

[whinydrippypuppiesparadise]

gangrape that's more like a stray animal emergency rescue mission than rape. i'm thinking "careful careful careful eeeasy" and "he's just scared, poor thing" and "it's okay buddy it's okay we've got you"

[fortnoncon]

[yaoibattlepass]

A fetish can build character and morale

[lesbian-bottom-memes]

actually fuck topping and bottoming i want whatever she’s having

[childsacrifice]

intoxication fetish so normalized and awesome but when i want him drooling and barely conscious on it from a head injury instead of alcohol im a sick pervert..,, SOCIETY

[positivelyqueer]

alright everyone, we’re picking ourselves up and going again. We’re putting ice on our split lips and busted knuckles. We’re doing our dishes and our laundry even if it stays hanging on the line for four days. We’re texting our friends back. We’re wiping the dust off our clothes. We’re booking and attending medical appointments. We’re taking the empty dishes out of our bedrooms. We’re sitting outside in the sunshine. We’re holding our heads up. We’re apologising to the people we’ve hurt. We’re forgiving ourselves.

[shittttyproblems]

reading old messages as a type of self-harm

[plaidos]

my meds are hitting so im sorry if this doesn't make sense but. but.

when people say calling out transmisogyny goes against unity between transfems and transmascs thats so telling because it doesn't go against unity between transfems and transmascs. it goes against unity between transmisogyny affected people and transmisoginists.

saying it is against unity with transmascs implies being violently transmisoginistic is an inherent value and core of every transmasc. and they're telling on themselves.

like if a transmasc feels like transfeminism goes against him, it's because he is a transmisoginist, not because he's a guy

this this this totally this

[myalgias]

#literally#understanding transfeminism makes it easier to understand how I move through the world as a tme person#it's directly useful to me and my own personhood#and that is the case for anyone-- if you are not reliant on feeling superior to transfems for your sense of self#& want to understand your place within these structures & why gendered dynamics play out how they do#then transfeminism will *help* you (@closet-keys )

[crybabybat]

Tbh if ur confused by, don’t really understand, or are otherwise apprehensive about it/its pronouns you should just. Try it out in your head. For yourself. I started using them because it’s so fun!

If you’re going on an errands run it’s literally just fun and silly to think “it’s going to the store :3”. Even more fun to text this to your friends as an update.

“It’s getting dressed now”, “it’s making dinner!”, “iiit’s having a long day at work /:”, etc etc etc. it’s really nice to put yourself in a different perspective sometimes. I’m narrating the actions of the creature that is me. I’m it.

[themme-bee]

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[demonprincex]

ok so like. what do the transandrophobia dipshits think transphobia even is? whats an example of a form of trans oppression that is transphobia to them, since they feel the need to parcel out every special boy experience no matter how clearly there is an analog for trans femmes and enbies

[gorps]

This website is so so so good