'Cause I can...

Virtual production | AR/MR/VR/Game Developer | TV and coffee addict | pun lover | Queer WOC and the daughter of an immigrant | All the wlw fandoms

[thelilacmenace]

if you were oddly obsessed with katara as a kid, you are gay now

[overcalm]

[thenappingkat]

I'm sorry. I wanted my dreams more...

[pearltherenegade]

me at the end of every shera episode: i love you catra you evil bitch you

[multimedia-geek]

Villanelle fandom vs rational audience

[thenappingkat]

Omg so true. Killing Eve is a master piece I'm so glad I always listen to Tumblr gay recs 😜

[thefangirlingchocolatechipcookie]

Do I Want To Date Her Or Be Her: A List

[thenappingkat]

Me every damn day

[ugly]

“Once I stop caring you’re not getting it back. I’ll be cold as ice, I promise.”

— You get what you deserve Apr 3, 2015 (via iwrite-myheart)

[roivenus]

whats it like to date the signs

Aries: arguing about nothing, dance parties, making out just like the movies,  road trips, constant roasting, hella possesiveness, lots and lots of affection and attention given and received, extremely playful moments, clinginess beyond belief, jaw kisses & neck kisses out of no where, agressive but in a fun way

Taurus: helllla affectionate, like expect to be held, kissed, and hugged 24/7, super selfless always puts you first, lots of relaxing moments, tenderness, romantic as shit, their sensitive as shit when it comes to dating so expect dumb lil fights, wants attention b, hand holding galore, goofy as heck.

Gemini: Hickie freak, nickname queen/king, very dominating, kind of wild on a good and bad side, super responsible for you more than themselves, extremely playful, mean to you but loves the shit out of you, moody, literally puts your needs first, makes sure you’re happy 24/7, always looking out for you

Cancer: kinda b to buy you coffee and a donut every morning, plans fun dates, super sentimental like writes down all the cute shit,big hearted, just wants to cuddle, and make out,super sensitive to you, probably will cook for your ass or some cute shit, passive aggressive during fights, does a lot of little things for you

Leo: okay this bitch is gonna show you off first of all, treats you like a saint, filled with so much love, they fall for their partner fast so be prepared to be their world basically, super pouty and annoying when mad, needs ego stroked, bossy, weird as hell, y’all will be doin weird shit, literally just wants to please you in all ways oops, flirty 24/7, late night talks, PDA GALORE, hella protective and easily jealous

Virgo: such a little asshole to you but loves you to death, pushes your buttons, y’all will be belting some songs n shit, they really be playin too much but aye what do you expect, super touchy but in private, massages, pampering, cool adventuring like random coffee shops n shit, notices all your little shit, such a practical little lover but it’s so cute

Libra: charming as shit, naturally sexy, be prepared to be outdoors doin all kinds of shit and bein social, always has their significant other by their side(or it’s what they prefer anyway), romantic lil shits in a super intellectual way, kinda controlling, super simple, loves hard, super funny, also super mean to you but in a loving way

Scorpio: always got shit to say, super focused on you, steals yo shit, super seductive like oooh bitch, wants to know every little thing about you, inside jokes like the stupidest ones you can think of, admires you like you’re the center of their universe, cheesy like lets lay on the roof and watch the stars but only for their boo

Sagittarius: wants to try new things with you, loves tight hugs, cuddling, all that shit, will probably show and teach you new and weird ass shit, super creative in the things that y’all will do together, big love big, not a jealous one, super chill, likes finding views and taking you out, may get distracted easily, like really easily 

Capricorn: practical, nice job probably, takes good care of you in all aspects, loyal and super committed, old fashioned as shit, will literally take care of all the problems, loves being in control, big on cuddling and kisses, will always provide.witty as frick, lots of little arguments,will probs lie in bed with you all day, likes ass, sunset chasing

Aquarius: super innocent yet hella dirty jokes 24/7, brags about your ass, headass much? yeah, literally plans everything, probs texts first, super strange but in the most amusing way, difficulty showing love thru words but actions speak loud, stubborn lil shits, funny as heck, 

Pisces: Loud, outgoing, reminds you they love you all the time either thru words or actions, the most lovable lil things, clingy, clingy, clingy, will plan the future so quick like marriage and kids, big on love and sex, sensual, super faithful, shows lots of love, literally the type to write you some poems or some shit

[thenappingkat]

Yep.

[thenappingkat]

Tuesdays

Tweaked my neck and can't look left, caught a cold and my nose is leaking, on my period with severe cramps, and have a 12 hour work day ahead of me

[the-bluespirit]

Chloe Kim scores a 98.25 in the Glory Run of the Women’s Halfpipe Securing the Gold Medal in the 2018 Pyeongchang Winter Olympics

[be-happy-and-enjoy-the-life]

8 things to quit in 2018: 1. trying to please everyone. 2. fearing change. 3. living in the past. 4. overthinking. 5. being afraid to be different. 8. sacrificing your happiness for others. 7. thinking you’re not good enough. 8. thinking you have no purpose.

Alyssa. (via be-happy-and-enjoy-the-life)

[thenappingkat]

I have too many things to say to you; but when I open my mouth to whisper the words no sound comes out - for you have stolen my breath.

[thenappingkat]

I’m in Costa Rica with my family visiting relatives and all I can think about is how much I want to be here with a girl instead - God I need a girlfriend

[avoidantcactus]

Constantly torn between “I can’t ask for help bc then I’m annoying and everyone will be mad” and “I must ask for help at every possible stage because I might do it wrong and then everyone will be mad” ya feel

[thenappingkat]

Me at all times

[politicalsci]

[thenappingkat]

Republicans

[90spersephone]

women love women differently then men do

[mautlyn-deactivated20170727]

better

[beanbutch]

Deeper

[softestlove]

warmer

[thenappingkat]

Truer

[thenappingkat]

I just saw Coco

And I’m a bumbing mess of emotions now.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

being a lesbian (and bi, pan, etc.) woman can be so hard and lonely because women specifically in our current culture are socialized to be very physically intimate with each other.

growing up my girl friends and i would shower together and cuddle and hold hands and do each other’s makeup and link arms when we walked down the street and share food.

and some women are on different levels of comfort and intimacy with each other, like maybe no shower-sharing or hand-holding etc. But on one level or another, we are raised to be physically affectionate and it’s normal.

and once we realize we’re not straight, suddenly people around us are scrutinizing us. anything we do with out friends must be because we’re attracted to them. so we start becoming afraid to interact platonically with women at all.

even if our friends reassure us they trust us and don’t feel that way, we hear other people saying shit like “what? you shower with her at the gym? you let her sleepover in your bed???”

“that’s like doing that with a guy, isn’t it?”

and we know that every single second of our time spent with straight women is spent being studied through a microscope by other heteros who see as as predators. It’s heartbreaking.

And if we don’t have great friends, because hey, when you’re younger sometimes your friends aren’t always great, we end up with no reassurance and we start worrying maybe we ARE crossing boundaries when we tell a best friend “you look hot in that dress” when we just meant it as a normal compliment, so we isolate ourselves from female friendships.

it’s sort of like a joke I hear a lot, “why do so many gay/bi/etc. girls have all guy friends?”

but the truth is actually really sad bc we’re afraid to interact with women because of the scrutiny we face in our every word, expression, and gesture.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

if you’re straight and your girl friend isn’t, here’s something to know: it is impossible for me to exaggerate how much it means to me when my straight friends normalize physical intimacy with me in front of judgmental people. When my straight friends hold my hand in the mall or link arms with me, or when they help me fix my hair or ask me to fix theirs, when they ask me to help them put on a necklace or unzip a dress, etc. I know these all seem like little gestures but there are so many things I miss about “straight friendships” because I didn’t realize I liked women until I was 19, and some of my friends started acting different around me, stopped touching me, didn’t want to share beds, etc. and now I’m hyper-aware of my interactions with straight women to the point of misery. So when you bridge that gap in the little ways, saying you don’t care and you trust me and love me and don’t see my any differently, it means the world tbh.

[thenappingkat]

I’m crying