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sculpture by christopher locke

i'm not the world's most. intelligent guy.

ro / any pronouns / filipino / dyke

#about me #ahehhehae #😈

shrillman -> theoddestgirlishthing

hashtag hyperfemme in everything

#yitbull

modernmusess

there’s something so gutwrenching about the fact that the female characters in obsession have real dreams and wishes but never get the chance to see them realized, while both male characters waste their wishes on short-term selfish satisfaction. they were complex, free-spirited young women who just wanted to create art, and they were destroyed by a man determined to confine them to his superficial perception of them. nikki wanted to be a writer, sarah wanted to be an tattoo artist and now neither of them will get to be anything at all

cyberglittter

symptom.jewelry

sagegreenyaps

Hey!

From time-to-time, I hear non-binary positivity breach the topics of going on HRT, as well as top surgery (usually for transmascs, but I will get into this separately)...

But almost never bottom surgery.

So I am here to say this:

If you presently have a penis and to ANY degree would be happier without it, this doesn't automatically mean you must be a woman. You don't have to be a binary woman to be valid in wanting to have a vagina. Vaginoplasty and/or orchiectomy aren't just for binary women.

If you presently have a vagina and to ANY degree would be happier without it, this doesn't automatically mean you must be a man. You don't have to be a binary man to be valid in wanting to have a penis. Metoidioplasty AND phalloplasty aren't just for binary men.

Being non-binary also doesn't mean you have to "make peace" with your natal parts, you are allowed to transition your body in whichever way validates you the most.

Your body is yours, and only you get to live with your body for all your life.

dogpuppy

#normalize

mouselikething

in my opinion headcanons are usually better when they work with canon rather than against. and like, its possible to have non-canon-compliant headcanons that still fit into the story

"this character likes oranges in the story but i think they like apples instead" - eh, doesnt really strike my fancy

"i think this character was raised in an orange-loving household so they feel pressured to pretend to like oranges even though they secretly like apples" - NOW youve got me hooked

iunno, sometimes canon is so bad you just have to go against it. but sometimes you can make ideas work with canon and i find that often makes a better and more coherent story

#very very real i've thought abt this a lot #i like for hc's to make sense and have Meat to them