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Every stone does not need to be turned :(

Us poor black girls... Or let me just speak for myself because I was raised by southern Christian black folks & to be honest a lot of what I learned to accept was narcissistic behavior.

It changes a person.:'(

For example, being considered ungrateful for not taking every single "opportunity presented" to you is a part of that upbringing.

However I'm here to tell you that every opportunity is not an opportunity.

Every rock does not need to be turned.

Everything is not for me.

And I don't have to feel like I'm rejecting my abundance by turning things down.

Off of appearance. Off of assumption. Off of intuition.

Black girls always take the butt of everything. We get what no one wants. We do what no one wants to do, we accept burdens we didn't deserve simply because that's what's available or "the way things are" and .... Naive, or hopeless, with very little regard for what the fuck I actually want, I have accepted a lot of things where if I had taken a second to think about it, this thing and I are not in alignment.

#for the broken black girls #femininity #mental health #opportunity #success #money #high value woman #feminine energy #black femininity

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Someone tried to rob me at gunpoint today. :'(

Which really brings me into another concept about how terribly people want to be the one and only. Like your foundation was built from somewhere - we're all inspired. but how dare you try to claim an idea as your own that not only do you not understand, you cannot develop or express it fully. Stop.

In the real world being a high value woman is easy bc people hardly live in their bodies and minds honestly. It's easy to be a shining star among mfers who want to be something other than themselves and we are talking about core desires, real and imagined. I feel like the hardest part of it all is aligning those desires consistently to grow a physical reality

#high value woman #feminine woman #mindset #spiritual

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A lot of you need to understand that high value women and high value men do not play games and exude high value from the beginning until the end.

This is an important insight for me because I used to be so caught up with the whole dating rules about incrementally expressing interest. Which turns out to be useless if you're a high value woman dealing with a high value man.

A high value woman would know down to her marrow the very value that she offers in a long-term heterosexual relationship and knows not to chase. There is no need to curb her interest for a flighty low value man - her interest simply does not exist for such a man. And so she expresses herself in no uncertain terms and has the confidence to know that such straightforwardness, along with her other high value traits, does not scare off a high value man who is equally as sure about what he wants as she is.