This is a blog all about those weird friendship feelings, such as that non-familial non-mentorship nurturing instinct, the platonic equivalent of lust/horny, just those types of feelings - I may post about symptoms, thoughts, venting, moodboards, song recommendations, experiences, theories, advice, the "science" behind things, jokes, memes, polls, questions, just ANYTHING I suppose, and you can submit things TOO, and you can request to be anonymous if wanted (I guess I'll have to text you that my reaction HAS been posted or send a notification about it in your inbox or something, I don't know) - and of course I'm willing to post about that weird "species" of friendship as well, no matter if you have it through text, in-person, across a window, etc, so you're also welcome to talk about your friendship with fictional characters (selfshipping)! You can also submit posts about your squishes, fictional or not, and if you want to, you can coin terms for the feelings and all, because we're in obvious desperate need of terms.
Note: While I do wanna do research on a bigger sample size than just me and the only other person who I can verify has these feelings, I would admit that I'm not comfortable with Good Omens fans, due to the ties to Neil Gaiman, and I'd also prefer Harry Potter fans to not interact with me, and also no FNAF fans (if you are one, I recommend learning about why some people don't support him). No hate towards aplatonics allowed either, which includes stuff like saying "well whatever, anyone who woudldn't wanna be friends with me is a fecking loser" or something. Aplatonics are welcome to send stuff too of course! This blog does not wish a huge bloody death upon people who use chatbots, unlike a lot of people, and I do wish y'all get whatever's needed, for recovery, as I know there's a reason Ai-usage even starts or continues - and yes you can vent about your Ai as well. I can't always verify nor deny if people HAVE the weird platonic feelings, and not everyone's right about if they do, but if the post/statement fits, then I can reblog it (like general friendship posts). This blog is also a safe-space for people with Pathological Demand Avoidance!
How is this different than the other platonic love blogs? This one is about ONLY the weird friendship feelings, and nothing alterous, queerplatonic, nor sexual, nor romantic. Our feelings will be centered or seen as normal or validated or whatever, and while I aknowledge that those feelings, LIKE ANY OTHER EMOTION EVER - can be acted upon in harmful ways, I will not treat us as if we're yanderes with attatchment issues, or whatever BS other people might come up with (not saying that other blogs do that, but some people might/have thought those things). It's seemingly-niche friendship feelings that are typically strong and with little to no research or acknowledgement, so I hope to compile some facts, and hopefully find other "hormonal" people too, LOL. I don't know how long I'll have this blog and if forever, how to manage things, if I'm even a good person, etc, but I'll at least TRY, and just have a fun blog where I can archive my experiences and all!
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