how do i put this

proud t_rf :3

[feministfang]

Black men are ugly. White men are ugly. Brown men are ugly. Asian men are ugly. Western men are ugly. Eastern men are ugly. Arab men are ugly. South Asian men are ugly. Christian men are ugly. Muslim men are ugly. Catholic men are ugly. Jewish men are ugly. Palestinian men are ugly. Israeli men are ugly. Disabled men are ugly. Abled men are ugly. Fat men are ugly. Thin men are ugly. Muscular men are ugly. Blind men are ugly. Autistic men are ugly. Trans women are ugly. All men are ugly. Basically, if you have a Y-chromosome you’re ugly and trash and should kill yourself.

[theraddestfemalive]

Lmao the little ugly ass moids getting mad in the notes. OP wasn’t weren’t trying to be racist, they were trying to acknowledge that all men are trash because people keep assuming that their opinions are so based on something else like race. Pls keep saying this OP, you’re going to drive them off of this platform :)

[sunnist4rs]

[mag-agenttorture]

Skill issue. Meet better men.

[theraddestfemalive]

you’re a bit retarded, aren’t you?

[theraddestfemalive]

got from twitter. no comment except.. they are probably the rapist enablers.

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

“Men want to have kids, and I get that, you know - I prefer when things are made for me too. But men want to have kids like how kids want to have a dog.

Just like, “I promise to take care of it, I promise!”

And then you’re like, “Will you buy it food?”

“Nah, you know I don’t know how to go to the store by myself.””

- Darlene Bereznicki

[theraddestfemalive]

If men want kids so bad why can’t they adopt one? Don’t need to force a whole ass woman to get pregnant because you feel entitled to feeling like a father

[acid-aholic-reborn]

respectfully. there are so many blogs i follow that will go from “omg i have a crush on jakeyyy” to “jakey is the best boyfriend ever” to inevitably “jakey gave me severe trauma. i’m going back to drugs and alcohol. i’ll never trust anyone again. i’m worthless and broken” to “guys omg i have a crush on jakeyyy(2)”

are these women self aware or is it some root trauma that keeps them cycling like this

[theraddestfemalive]

i used to be like this but I got over boys quickly once I realized they weren’t worth anything to begin with. But something that always stuck with me was that girls would rely on boys for anything and that same boy could treat her like shit cuz he’s only thinking with his dick.

we need to stop this cycle and show eachother the true wicked reality of all that OSA women need to know

[theraddestfemalive]

tumblr can you please stop putting suggestive and almost explicit shit on my for you, thanks

[terfsaregroomers]

more grooming

[theraddestfemalive]

how the fuck is this GROOMING? Are you trying to convince people to join your shitty little gendie cult because you can’t stand critical thinking?

[anomalys-bane]

shit like this has bothered me since forever and I only realize why now, its because they try to break norms without going all the way through, to the point of going backwards. Yes, a man can be pretty and soft BUT that makes him a princess! Or a wife! Or a material girl!

Notice how the essential social meaning of princess and wife never change. Notice how they have trouble wanting to consider that pretty men can be pretty princes, or pretty husbands. Notice how the roles associated with these words (wife and husband will always mean entirely different things to them) never change. They cannot fathom it, and because they do not want to think without the base of stereotypical gender.

Its all 'FUCK GENDER ROLES', but babes you depend on them so much. Your whole ideology would crumble and you wouldn't feel so special anymore without those stereotypes. Which is why progress on gender roles is not only stagnating but actively regressing, now anyone can opt into boxes that should have been destroyed long ago for the sake of true progress, but are being kept around for decoration.

[nudevastate-deactivated20240804]

that’s why they hate radical feminists and gender critical people in general; if they let us destroy gender as a construct, their entire ideology falls apart and can never come back. they give no fucks about neo nazis or deeply conservative nationalists or even men who murder them outright, because all these groups still uphold gender.

[honeyriot]

Gender crits are routinely Nazi aligned: see libs of tik Tok, gays against groomers, Posie Parker, moms 4 Liberty, etc

[theraddestfemalive]

looks like someone has to sit in the dunce chair

[vexingwoman]

A woman’s husband, father, brother, and male friends are statistically the most likely men to abuse, rape, and murder her. All of which are the men we are conditioned to view as our protectors.

Similarly, cops, soldiers, and military men have higher rates of domestic violence and sexual assault than the general male population. All of which are men we are conditioned to view as self-sacrificing heroes.

The very few men that women are supposed to be able to trust, are in actuality her biggest threat. How demonic is that. The safest and most feminist action a woman could ever make is to be a female separatist.

[actualadvocacybruh]

So a trans person in a bathroom isn’t a threat

Also what is stopping you lot from leaving if you don’t like it here?

Cause I hear you guys whining about society, refusing to change it in a meaningful way and then never just leaving to form your little cult you seem to want

And don’t say “well money” cause you lot are suburban twits so we know you got it and you can’t claim “men won’t let us” cause we don’t care and you wouldn’t be the first weirdo cult to leave society

Like what is the point of you and your whining? What actual work do you do to fix anything?

[theraddestfemalive]

why tf are we bringing trans people into this

[theraddestfemalive]

help

my mom doesn’t understand. she never will. she will only see the screams and the curses, and the dishes piled up in my room.. but will never see anything behind it

and after all, i still love her.

[lorynna]

TRAs view of forced pregnancy and birth: yeah it's not that bad, you just have a bad time for 9 months and have a kid you don't want - that's nothing compared to me not being able to mutilate my body - taking that away from me literally kills me!"

these people are so removed from reality and just hate women.

then the "i hope you get raped"

[actualadvocacybruh]

Rad fems:

Bodily autonomy is important but not YOUR bodily autonomy that doesn’t matter at all and you are bad for demanding it as a right like they do

[theraddestfemalive]

Did you fucking read? Or did you just water it down to “bodily autonomy”

trans people want to do it because of deep rooted insecurities, women need abortions because it’s life threatening for the fetus and the woman (in terms of health, not mental illness). It’s that simple, average tra behavior

[terfsaregroomers]

the absolute irony of the phrase "grooming children out of their identity" coming from the party that wants to put transgender kids in conversion therapy...

[theraddestfemalive]

no radfem said that transgender kids should be put in conversion therapy bffr

[theraddestfemalive]

tra is angry at my post cause i have an opinion 😭😭😭😭

[vouam]

Honestly when I hear people say “not receiving gender affirming surgeries will make me feel suicidal” I hear the same thing as if someone said “if I don’t get a nose job I’ll feel suicidal”

It’s a physical insecurity that wouldn’t exist in a vacuum. I’m sorry that you were influenced to feel this way, but surgery will not fix something that is rooted in self-hatred. If you change it with surgery, you will find another insecurity to fixate on within a week.

Also, can we talk about how rebranding gender affirming surgery as some life-saving procedure is just promoting and glamorising a very misogynistic and corrupt industry.

[mildlydecentrogue]

I think a better way to phrase it, for me at least, is "if I keep getting misgendered, even by well-meaning people, I will feel suicidal"

I cannot control how people refer to me. when someone sees a person with breasts, they assume they're a woman. getting gender affirming surgeries will make more people see me as a guy, which will decrease my suicidal urges.

[pussy-in-biome]

So why is the solution a physically invasive, costly surgery that has a high risk of causing chronic pain in the future a solution, as opposed to doing the work to address why you feel suicidal when people call you a woman?

[mildlydecentrogue]

firstly, because its my body. I'm allowed to do any surgery I want done on my body, even if it'd expense and has complications. it's called the right to risk.

secondly, I think you're saying this to call it internalized sexisim or avoiding a misogynistic society. I've thought about that for years, wondering why I felt that disconnect.

its because I don't view this body as my body, I am not a woman. this isn't because I think being a woman is anything in particular. a woman can have a million different walks of life, can look any and act any way and still be a woman. women can be strong and independent, can choose to stay home for their spouse, can do anything that they want to while also understanding the misogyny that is in the society that surrounds us. being a woman is hard, and no mater how much I am trans it doesn't change the fact that I do still get affected by misogyny. I will be socially raised as a woman, and that will always impact me - personally I say for the better.

I feel distress at being seen as something or someone I'm not. this is true for every part of myself. I'm bisexual too, and people ignoring that aspect of me (ie, saying I'm gay because I have a boyfriend instead of acknowledging my bisexuality) also causes me distress. if I had to pretend to like marvel movies for people, it would also cause me distress.

never being able to resolve that distress is what made me suicidal in the past. forever being seen as something or someone I am not is traumatic.

and it doesn't help that my body itself is distressing. I'm planning on having surgery so I can wear a shirt without a binder. I want bottom surgery so I can stand while I pee and enjoy my naked form that much more. it's not JUST so other people see me a certain way, it's also for me to enjoy myself more.

[theraddestfemalive]

bla bla bla you’re blocked

[theraddestfemalive]

is it bad im starting to hate men even more day by day and like my mom thinks im a lesbian and she’s telling me to not hate men

I feel a bit wrong but at the same time I feel as if she doesn’t know how the systematic oppression affects her since she’s blind to her own shitty dating culture (and like she has “pretty privilege” so she’s used to men giving her things)

but at the same time, I don’t really care for a man’s feelings. My special interest in feminism got bigger since last year. I’ve always been connected to female characters, and I can’t feel empathy to men even when I would try to feel it logically.

also like I’ll give you another 10 cents when sometimes she listens to music about men degrading women and treating them like objects and calling them ‘bitches’ (like reggaeton music or smth) and she has friends with unresolved trauma that constantly need validation from men. (I am not blaming her friends, I blame the patriarchy for making women feel as if men’s opinions on you is a top priority)

and also like I am never dating a man again like never again… I will bully a fellow moid if they view women as minuscule objects

ok anyways

[mxnhatress-deactivated20240923]

"you're going to die alone with a bunch of cats" idk man i love my two girl cats and while one of them is unfortunately too scared of loud noises (her previous owners physically abused her) the other one brings me her toys when i cry and lays on my chest and purrs in my ear and she's specifically doing this when she sees i'm in distress. my ex called me hysterical and said he wanted to take me to a mental hospital so i'd see what an "actual" mental illness was like. honestly i prefer cats

[theraddestfemalive]

literally any domestic animal would bring me joy.. men are just pissed that they aren’t being settled for because of their shitty ass behavior

[margosmadison]

tumblr gender havers having a conniption over south korean feminists oh so naively "allying" themselves with radfems is so transparent. why don't you think south korean women are capable of holding their own radical feminist thoughts and perspectives? the 4b movement IS a radical feminist movement. south korean women are fully capable of being radical feminists in their own damm right, and trans people are not actually the centre of the universe.