Queer Ninjas

Ninjago is life. Cole is gay. That is all.

[anaroaceplace]

Asexual Ask Game

I haven’t seen many ace asks games around, so I thought I’d make my own. I have a lot of free time. Go here for the aro one!

Where are you on the ace-spectrum?

When did you first realise you were ace-spec?

Did you have a moment of “Wait, sexual attraction is real?”

What moments make you think, “Well, I’m definitely ace”

Are you sex-positive, sex-repulsed, or indifferent?

How do you feel about general intimacy? (Kissing, cuddling, etc)

Are you also aro-spec?

What other identities are you, if any?

Who’s the first person you came out to, if any?

Has anyone ever come out to you as ace-spec?

Have you ever been to pride as an ace person? What was it like?

Dragons or cake ace?

Do you have an ace ring? Do you want one?

Do you own an ace-spec flag?

Do you experience the ace obliviousness to innuendos or dirty jokes?

How do you feel about sex scenes/romantic plots/subplots in movies?

How do you feel about sex/love songs?

Have you had any romantic/queerplatonic/sexual relationships?

Are you any good at flirting?

How do you feel about dating a non-ace-spec person?

How many ace-specs do you know IRL?

Do you want kids?

What would you rather do/have instead of sex?

Best part of being ace?

Free spot! Ask me any question to do with asexuality.

Feel free to ask me any of these questions!

[anaroaceplace]

This post has been gaining notes recently so I thought it might be fun to bring it back and answer some more questions!

[our-ace-space]

Oh this might be fun

[a-spec-asexual]

I’m bored, so unless I get some asks, I will flood my dash with these

[mxinfodump]

Any questions?

[my-strange-attraction]

An ask game! I’ve never done one of these, but my blog is getting semi-popular now so I figure I should. Ask away!

[therealpenofwildfire]

yup I’m doin this because I love answering questions.

[legsdemandias]

no one writes love stories better than aromantics send 

[careful-knives]

The amount of care and detail aroaces put into writing steamy romances is unreal.

[legsdemandias]

The thing is we can’t rely on “love at first sight” or “it just is” logic because we don’t have that button, so instead we build relationships up and up and up, realistically, the only way we could imagine love happening 

[holybikinisbatman]

us 👏 aro 👏 aces 👏 make 👏 it 👏 happen 👏

[sailsofsalt]

Aroaces writing romance:

[mikkeneko]

listen asexuals have written some of THE kinkiest hot shit and i can testify that that is because they do not find the mechanics of sex interesting in and of itself, so they look at the scene and say “how can I make this spicy”

[crazy-pages]

Same reason queer romance stories are so often better than straight ones. When the standard literary shortcuts don’t work all that’s left is to knuckle down and actually put in the work.

[my-strange-attraction]

Ok I have to reblog this because I was just talking about my obsession with romances earlier and it’s too good 😂

[therealpenofwildfire]

reblogging because why is this so true.

[therealpenofwildfire]

Hey Ninj-nerds. Today I come to you from my new public highschool. And as I say this, I have two teachers who use my proper pronouns, most everyone using my real name, and I’m wearing a binder I got from a trans guy in the grade above me. Life is good.

[therealpenofwildfire]

Hey fellow asexuals. Just a reminder that the word Ace means “Unity”. We aces have to stick together.

[therealpenofwildfire]

Multicoloured striped patterns: *exist*

Me: Is this a pride flag?

[therealpenofwildfire]

So I was talking to my sister about how I don't like the idea of having sex, even within marriage, and she said "I feel sorry for you."

Bro. SHE FELT SORRY FOR ME.

This is the same girl who, later, had an actual breakdown over some Echo fanart I did of him in a skirt. Like wtf is wrong with this chick?

[therealpenofwildfire]

*me and my first girlfriend talking about stuff*

Her: what are your kinks?

Me: ???? what? kinks?

Her: Y'know, those weird things that turn you on.

Me: *googles a list* um.... uh.... idk

Present day Me: Oh you young, flowering asexual.

[therealpenofwildfire]

aight

People who put gendered signs on outhouses are the scum of the earth. LIKE IT’S A SINGLE OCCUPANCY BATHROOM WHY WOULD YOU GENDER IT. OUTHOUSES ARE THE PUREST FORM OF BATHROOM AND YOU HAD TO RUIN THEM WITH YOUR GENDER BINARY.

[therealpenofwildfire]

Query

What made you start questioning your gender/sexuality? For me, it was when my best friend came out to me as pansexual. It kind of shook my world because prior to this I was a huge homophobe/transphobe. I started to think “Wait, maybe this isn’t so bad.” 

I started experimenting and ended up dating that same best friend. I considered myself bisexual but I was still transphobic. That is, until I read a story in the Reader’s Digest (my grandpa is subscribed to them). It was the story of a trans girl told from her mother’s perspective. It had such an in-depth look at how this woman came to fully embrace her daughter, and I realized “Wow. This is real. This isn’t fake. This isn’t some trend. Wow.”

I started listening to a lot of music about the trans experience and thought “Wow holy crap why is this me.” I related so much to these people.

I was 13 then. I’m 15 now. And I am proud to say that I am:

-Genderfluid

-Nonbinary

-Panromantic

-Asexual

[therealpenofwildfire]

I bought a Ditto at walmart and named them Dippy and I love them and that stupid face is amazing.

[therealpenofwildfire]

bruh

Rando: Nonbinary genderfluid people don’t exist!

Me: Not in YOUR universe.

[therealpenofwildfire]

Um hey

Yeah hey just here to say that I love Vania more than existence and she is my queen and I just want her to be happy and also I ship her with Akita. Is there a ship name for Vaniakita yet or can we coin one?

[therealpenofwildfire]

Happy 15th Birthday to me, Lio Pines. My dragon sons got me a GoT shirt, not because I watch GoT or anything, but it says Mother of Dragons and I'm very happy about it. Also my sister bought me a LavenderTowne plush so can't wait for that. Can y'all wish me a happy birthday using my preferred name and pronouns plz? It'd make me super happy.

[therealpenofwildfire]

OKAY IM SORRY I AM AN OPEN MINDED PERSON YOU CAN CALL YOURSELF WHATER YOU WANT Y'ALL CAN BE HOTDOG GENDER FOR ALL I CARE BUT RECUGENDER CANNOT BE A THING. RECUGENDER IS BASICALLY JUST A MASK FOR CIS PRIDE AND I WILL NOT ALLOW IT. YOU ARE CIS. OR MAYBE YOU AREN'T BUT DONT MAKE UP THINGS LIKE THIS. SERIOUSLY. MICROLABELLING IS FINE. IF YOU CAN'T FIND A WORD FOR YOUR GENDER YOU ARE ALLOWED TO COIN ONE. BUT IF YOU IDENTIFY AS THE GENDER YOU WERE ASSIGNED THEN YOU ARE CIS. SORRY NOT SORRY.

[therealpenofwildfire]

Thought y'all might like to know that my (probably gay) little brother hit a cop with a waterbottle when he was I'm kindergarten. Just... Thought that was cool.

[therealpenofwildfire]

Okay but like, my little sister be wearing flannel, cuffing everything in sight, cosplaying as a boy, has had girls hit on her, and is still somehow 100% heterosexual. I wasn't aware that was something a person could do. Seriously. Me and a friend of hers were just chatting about gay shiz and gender dysphoria and the poor thing is just like "I feel left out." Like she'll tell me that she feels boring next to me because I'm such a queer.

Now let's talk about my brother. Is he homophobic? Yes, because that's how he was raised. Is he gay? DEFINITELY. Yes, he's a ten year old. A ten year old who is flamboyant, sassy, has made casual comments about attractive guys, says the green power ranger is the hottest (he's right), and could not sit up straight if his screentime depended on it. This boy walks around shirtless at home 80% of the time, and has even been known to wear his older sister's clothing. Is he gay? Honestly y'all tell me in the comments.

[therealpenofwildfire]

So y'all know that feeling when you read a bunch of smutty fanfiction, then cleanse your mind with some fluff? And you're happy? And you enjoy life? And you remember the you're a f*cking asexual? Yeah that's the shit right there.