Aramis

They/He pronouns. Genderfluid man and Bisexual. I'm a system host and a fictive.

[butchsunbeam-deactivated2022120]

btw if u don't wanna be a girl u can just not be a girl. if u don't wanna be a boy u can just not be a boy. likewise for being a woman or a man or any gender that has ever existed.

there's no test you need to pass or license u need to hold to trans your gender - you can just decide one day that u feel like doing something different. if ur waiting for permission, i'm giving u permission. go be happy.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Don't get sucked into the "if they really cared I wouldn't have to say something" spiral. No matter how close you are with someone, it's unfair to expect them to know things you haven't actually communicated.

[freshwatercatfishjpegimage-deac]

*guy stumbles out of torture labyrinth, covered in dirt and blood, clothes torn, on the verge of passing out with a thousand yard stare* maybe... Maybe I will buy myself a yummy treat. As a reward

[beaft]

characters who view themselves as tools/weapons first and people second... characters who martyr themselves for a cause because they think that's the only way they can be worth something... characters who push themselves past their breaking point again and again and again... characters for whom devotion and masochism are inseparable... characters whose self-sacrifice becomes self-annihilation...... what was my point again? i had a point. anyway.

[bobbysox]

[gay-otlc]

Actually I think we should talk about how incredibly fucked up it is for sapphic women to say shit like "I'm no better than a straight man 😔" when attracted to a woman in a way that isn't 100% pure and wholesome, or act like men's attraction to women is inherently dirty, predatory, or objectifying.

[ryuutchi]

Also, there's nothing wrong with straight men. Conflating "straight men" with "sexual objectification" is some gender essentialist thinking.

That way lies TERFdom, don't do it.

[gay-otlc]

Exactly! Is it fucked up when a straight man objectifies a woman or violates her boundaries? Yes, absolutely. It's awful. But that's not an inevitable part of being a straight man. They can do better, and if one doesn't, that's a choice that he should be held accountable for, not "well of course he did that, all straight men do."

And it implies that no demographic other than straight men is capable of objectification or assault, which is blatantly untrue and also invalidating to their victims.

It's flat out TERFdom, and unfortunately common in "inclusive" queer spaces.

[typewriter-pages-deactivated202]

Being autistic is exhausting.

[marciaillust]

curious. anyway,

[joyful-witch]

This weekend in England, a 16 year old trans girl named Brianna Ghey was murdered. In the UK they have blocked all legal efforts to allow trans kids to have their name and gender changed. Because of that she will be buried under her dead name and under the wrong gender. She will be buried as someone she never was. Her death certificate will misgender and deadname her. Many states in the US are the same way.

Here is my message to conservatives and terfs who insist they are “protecting the children”:

You aren’t protecting anyone. Your hate signed her death certificate. She is dead because you continue to spread your hateful rhetoric. She is dead because of YOU.

And to Brianna, I’m so sorry. Im so sorry your life was taken from you far too soon. Im so sorry that you will not live to see trans liberation. Im so sorry they took this from you. And I hope you rest well knowing we will not stop fighting in your memory and for others like you. We will not let the villains win. And we will remember you as you truly were, a beautiful young girl named Brianna, whose light was taken far too soon.

Trans Rights Are Human Rights!

Edit: I made a mistake in this post. It is possible for her to be gendered correctly on her death certificate. Though the process is complicated and difficult and would be much easier if UK government officials weren’t total pricks.

[92fs]

Being narcissistic is constantly thinking that the only way through is via intensity and violence. But not too intensely or violently or you’ll make a scene and people will perceive you negatively. But also you should make a scene and sort out those who can’t handle it as unworthy. But if there are too many of those who are unworthy you might become the one misunderstood. But being misunderstood is good because it makes you seem mysterious. But if you’re too mysterious they will stop idealizing you. They will stop giving you attention. You’re not here for attention. You’re here solely for attention. Is your value a sum of all pleasing interactions you have received? You’re above it. No, you’re the lousiest worm. You’re perpetually misunderstood. You have to perform. Performance roots in intensity and violence-

[vampirenarc]

VAMPIRIC NARCISSIST 🩸🩸 ♡ ; og flag + npd modifiers

a person with npd or narcissistic traits who has vampiric attributes/identifies with vampires/etc. colors are from my vampiregender flag that can be found here.

[gowonfacts]

real

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Cluster B culture is "Am I in love with her? Or is she just my FP and/or chosen person?"

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[cluster-b-culture-is]

cluster b culture is being devastated when you see someone being more intimate with your fp than you are and being devastated you aren't special to them like they are to you

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[cluster-b-culture-is]

cluster b is wondering if ppl notice the subtle ways you desperately try and keep yourself in the spotlight— alway interjecting, always offering your point of view, always putting on a show, that slight hint of boasting, of oneupmanship

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[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Deity fictive with NPD culture is GODS do I miss having worshippers. It was so wonderful when people sent me offerings and prayed to me every day. Just kneel for me. Beg me to fix your irrelevant little problems. Send me wonderful gifts in hopes I'll favour you.

Occasionally I did fix a little problem, or two! I was such a wonderfully benevolent God, it's absolutely no surprise that people loved to worship me.

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[strawberry-crocodile]

i fucking hate how “wholesome” is so often placed as directly opposite sexual content. I hate puritanism you’re not being “wholesome” you’re shaming something completely healthy. A lot of people are sexual. Let them fucking express it in their own space.

[strawberry-crocodile]

There’s a billion asexuals on this post agreeing and it turns out that, once you make the very easy effort of acknowledging that a sex drive is not universal, asexuals are actually incredibly sex positive and respectful and not a bunch of prudish meanies, who'da thunk???