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18+ Blog. Run by a 28yo transmasc/non-binary human. any pronouns, they/them preferred. gender is a social construct Photos of me tag: "my own body". Photos of others tag: "submission". Nudes and submissions accepted - please ask to be posted or not posted - 18+ only. Queer friendly. Trans Friendly. Ask for something to be tagged if needed. Consent is given for all photos posted by this blog.

[anxeious]

[circawontsurvivee]

fucking someone who isn’t super experienced with sex>> like, they’re experienced, but they’ve never been taken care of the right way. spending time making sure they’re comfortable, settling between their legs during a make out session. hands start roaming and they’re clearly getting needy, its obvious in the way their hips roll up against you. you can practically feel how desperate they are, even through a few layers of clothes.

eventually you’re grinding into each other, gasping into eachother’s mouths between heated kisses. and god, they’re just so beautiful— and you need them. so you can’t help but whisper between love-bites on their neck, begging them to let you taste them. because you need it so bad, you’re trembling at the thought.

obviously, this is where they’re a bit iffy. not because they don’t want to. but because nobody’s ever made them feel good before. their last experiences were spent with people who didn’t know what they were doing. but you? you’ve been waiting for this— waiting for them. so when you start kissing your way down their body, they get nervous, their hands flying to your hair as a way to ground themselves.

and suddenly, you’re taking care of them the way they deserve, the way everyone else before you didn’t. it’s like some sick form of corruption— because from that night on, all they’ll be able to think about when it gets late is the way your mouth felt on them. the way you made them come. something no one has done for them before. and all you can think about is the way they fucked your face, the obscene sounds when they were grinding against your tongue for relief.

[freeusefox]

If this isn't my future partner views my shitty past experience then i don't want it.

[not-a-cursed-amulet]

“You’re manipulating me.” First of all, I’m encouraging you. Second of all, you look hot when you’re susceptible to my influence.

[em--pulsive]

love the idea of soothing someone into submission. you've had a long day, sweetheart, why don't you let me do the thinking for a bit? i know you like to be in control, but it can be exhausting. surely you've earned a little relaxation after all your hard work. don't you want to rest a bit? unclench your jaw, relax your muscles, let your legs fall open. i want the only thought in that lovely head to be how good you feel.

[ouroborosorder]

in my experience 80% of domming is just having enough confidence to cover the fact that you are completely out of ideas for what to do now

[roughribo]

I feel like people completely miss that so-called "submissive training" is also training for the dom.

Like, your rule about how you should be addressed feels undermined if you overdo it with a punishment, instead of a casual verbal reminder.

Your rule about how much water to drink doesn't feel like care when you don't call out when they need to drink more.

Your rule about bedtime is meaningless if the bedtime itself isn't consistent.

Training for the sub is to learn how to perform an expectation for a dom, and the flipside for the dom, is learning how to perform authority and understanding what kind of authority your sub will respond to in which situations. Being an authority figure is less like being the boss and more like being a gardener.

Rules that you train your submissive to follow are not something that you 'set and forget;' no, rules are like gardenbeds. You must actively care for and tend to the rules that you and your sub plant. Weed out the rotten rules that don't work or tweak a rule that's struggling so that it can thrive. Have a healthy soil for your rules to take root and grow and blossom. You don't "just know" how to be a good gardener. If you don't tend to them, rules wilt. Like with anything else, you have to learn and practice authority.

You don't have to be domineering when you practice authority either. In fact, I'd say that most rule enforcement feels warm and cozy when you're doing it right, but that can be subjective depending on your D/s dynamic. You have to show that you care both about your sub and about your garden of rules and that you are the authority that they specifically crave to be cultivated by.

So, what kind of garden have you planted? What parts of your garden need weeded? What rules grow and thrive easily there? How are you going to cultivate your authority?

Our garden has a clematis (rule for what title to use for me), but we needed to put up a lattice for it to climb in order to give it the structure (a public-friendly title) it needed to thrive year-round. That rule doesn't need much tending to in our garden, just a good structure and healthy foundation and it can be easily maintained.

[velvetmommy]

forcing the shyest girl you've ever met to touch herself while she leans her back against you, hands trembling cause she's just too embarrassed to do so. to make it harder, you make sure both of you are sitting in front on a mirror, at the bed's edge.

[cyprozombiegirl]

Remaking this post since I’m pretty sure it got deleted, and a lot of people found it very helpful. This is a medical diagram of before and after bottom surgery for trans femmes.

[finalgirlcock]

this shit is actually life changingly informative to girls who are on the fence abt bottom surgery or scared of getting it

[gaytanic-panic]

[bitingbitingbitingbitingbiting]

does anyone want to play 'first faggot to moan loses' where we both get stupid high and wrestle while fully clothed until one of us gets a hand down the other's pants

[houndmother]

“i’m just so subby i can’t say no even when i really don’t want it” you are an unsafe play partner.

[this-world-of-beautiful-monsters]

recipe for disaster (from the revolution starts at home)

[houndmother]

reblogging this a second time bc i think it’s really valuable to look at what abuse in kink CAN look like instead of just discussing what it DOESNT look like. I wanna talk about this more but frankly, this isn’t where my experience lies. if anyone has posts on the topic i’d love to read them.

[kysluts]

cocks are so pretty they’re like the cutest fidget toy. you can just play with them and they get all hard and twitchy and leaky, and you even get to hear a pretty boy moaning and begging to cum while you entertain yourself. so cute.

[catboycrack]

Sexting with an nb person who's genital situation you don't know and you know it doesn't matter so you don't ask and you're like. Do you wanna put your whatever in my mouth

[catboycrack]

If you want I could finger your hole (unspecified)

[unethicalgays]

prince who holds out his hand for his knight to take in two hands and dip their head as they kiss his knuckles

prince who waits for his knight to kneel on one leg before he holds out his hand for his knight to kiss the knuckles of

prince who orders his knight to kneel on both knees

prince who puts his hand out for a kiss from his kneeling knight but his hand is suspiciously low... exactly at hip height

prince who tells his knight keep going after they kiss his knuckles once

prince who keeps his hand out getting peppered with kisses from his knight

prince who orders his knight to suck and then fucks his knight's mouth with his fingers

[meanrunt]

holding a plastic bag over my friends head and making out with her through the plastic while she suffocated did something to my brain

[tongue-twists]

hey can I be your pet I promise I'll be weird about it

[boringkate]

It's simple, dude.

Personal property is stuff like knickknacks or family photos.

Private property is stuff like factories and machinery. The means of production.

Nobody is gonna try to take your stuff in the revolution. They're just gonna- Wait. Hold on a second. I just found this post of yours that says "my body is a machine that turns dicks into sucked dicks." That's interesting. That's really interesting...