these_damn_life

searching something that is belong to me

[celectial-rhyme]

“Your new life is going to cost you your old one. It’s going to cost you your comfort zone and your sense of direction. It’s going to cost you relationships and friends. It’s going to cost you being liked and understood. It doesn’t matter.

The people who are meant for you are going to meet you on the other side. You’re going to build a new comfort zone around the things that actually move you forward.

Instead of being liked, you’re going to be loved. Instead of being understood, you’re going to be seen. All you’re going to lose is what was built for a person you no longer are.

Remaining attached to your old life is the first and final act of self-sabotage, and releasing it is what we must prepare for to truly be willing to see real change.”

— The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest

[quotefeeling]

“Some changes look negative on the surface but you will soon realize that space is being created in your life for something new to emerge.”

— Eckhart Tolle

[aspiritualwarriors-deactivated2]

You get something when it’s time. You lose it when it’s passed. If you are content with the time and abide by the passing, there’s no room for sorrow or joy. This is what the ancients called ‘loosing the bonds.’ If you don’t loose yourself, things will bind you.

— Chuang Tzu

[manifestingunicorn]

Detachment: The ultimate key to manifesting

1. “What do you mean by detachment? Does it mean I should stop expecting my desires in the 3D? But then why am I manifesting anything to begin with?”

Ans: No, detachment doesn’t necessarily mean to detach from the 3D. It basically means to make everything in your 3D powerless. It has no power over you because you realise that your inner self is the ultimate truth and whatever you hold within, you project outside. Detachment from situations and people is anyway a great quality to have. Watch this video.

2. “Is detachment the same as letting go?”

Ans: More or less. Although, it’s not the Law of attraction kinda letting go. In law of assumption letting go/detachment means to let go of the old beliefs and 3D circumstances. That’s what detachment is basically. You can still think ab the thing u wanna desire. Just dont revolve ur whole life around it, cus that creates overthinking.

3. “How do i detach myself?”

Ans: you just do. When u keep doing the same things and it bears no results, it’s time to change ur ways. Tell yourself “circumstances and situations dont have power over me” thats also the essence of being God.

These are all the things I could think ab detachment. If you guys have anymore questions, send it to me and ill make a part two.

[theearthforce]

“Detachment is not that you own nothing; detachment is that nothing owns you”

—

Dr. Arjun Pai, Vedic astrologer

[yourmoonie]

DETACHMENT? LETTING GO?

No! You don't need to let go in order to manifest.

Detachment is something that happens naturally. When you accept the fact that you and your desire are ONE, you let go of your desperation to crave validation from your 3D, and that's when you exactly detach.

If you want to practice detachment, then`

- don't take things personally

- see yourself as the prize

- learn how to say NO to "undesirable circumstances" and even people and learn how to say YES to yourself

- mentally be in the knowing/accept the fact that you and your desire are ONE and there is no separation

Good luck !

[moh-93blog]

فلسطين ❤️🇵🇸

[prettyebonylux]

You become a master of your life when you learn how to control where your attention goes. Value what you give your energy and time to.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Help with learning to love yourself

1. Learn to let go of what happened in the past. You deserve a new start and a fresh beginning. We’ve all messed up and experienced bad things. So don’t allow these memories to rob you of your future. You’re not just a product and a victim of your past. Acknowledge and work through any negative emotions – then put them behind you and start to live again.

2. Work on forgiving yourself. Don’t punish yourself for your past failings or regrets. Instead, see them as a lesson, and a chance to learn and grow. Don’t ridicule, demean or devalue yourself. That was then – this is now … You are different - so move on.

3. Keep a journal where you write down all your thoughts and feelings. When you’re feeling positive, try to savour those emotions and a build a memory trace of all that’s good and positive. When you’re feeling negative try to show some self-compassion, and seek to be gentle and kind to yourself. You need to work on validating and affirming yourself – not being your own enemy and tearing yourself down.

4. Be persistent as you work on accepting yourself. A key part of love is unconditional acceptance. So work on loving who you are right now. Only then will you be able to change some parts of yourself – because you’re able to accept who you are at the core.

5. Trust yourself. You don’t have to please others, or to follow their dictates. Learn to trust your intuition and your own personal judgments.

6. Practice saying “no”. It’s okay to say “no” without feeling guilty. You have the right to decide what you’ll do with your life.

7. Practice receiving and accepting love from others. Know you’re worthy of love – and other people really mean it when they say that you matter, and they love and care for you.

[ahlwords-deactivated20230219]

don’t put so much pressure on yourself because any day could be your last with someone, enjoy the fact that you were gifted today.

-ahlwords

[selfhealingmoments]

“For yourself, figure out what you want out of life, then set your goals and maintain them as long as is biologically possible. I figure work is healthy, so I just keep doing it. Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self-respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that’s real power.”

— Clint Eastwood

[mxxnlightsblog]

"Beauty is in the way you hold yourself. It's how you treat people. The way you love. It's self acceptance. Beauty is in your soul."

[gentlergunler]

I pray that Allah swt never make me lose sight of the blessings that are often overlooked or normalized or taken for granted. I pray that Allah swt allow me to always be mindful of and grateful for the ocean of blessings I swim in even on the worst days, Ameen.

[thesedamnlife]

I can’t hold my tears having a bad news that my dog is having a tumor and we can’t do anything with his cancer. The doctor says that we need to put him to sleep so he won’t feel the pain anymore.

Knowing that he is pain I can’t hold my sadness and my tears. He is the best thing that ever happen to me, his love really get me through the day. He such an obedient dog that will do anything to make me happy. And what he likes in returns is my love and chicken. He love chicken so much that I always spoil him with all the treat.

One day I was crying in front him and he came to me and snuggle me and not letting me cry, he will hugs me and kiss me that knowing he love me and i am safe with him. I am speechless don’t know what to say or what to write, I just very sad that not sure how to let go of him.

Stay strong pabsie, you have a good life, we give you so much love and you everything you deserve. I’m hoping one fine day your path will cross again ❤️

[thesedamnlife]

Today I feel so really upset, I can’t hold my sadness I’m not sure how to let out my emotions, I want to cry but it seems so hard. I feel like something is stuck in my chest.

I try to relax my mind and do meditation, flowing with yoga but somehow the sadness won’t go away, too much things around my head that I can’t explain. I try to control my emotion and let pass through me the more I try the more I feel vulnerable.

Is this call depression or just hormonal? Do I have to worry about my well being ? I thought I was okay but somehow this emotion feel like eating me alive. I don’t like going out anymore or feel the need to meet people other than going out for work or groceries.

Or maybe this is just temporary and I will get my shit together again and stay strong and shake it off.

[thesedamnlife]

These days all I want to do is curling up and cry my heart out. I know and I’m aware of my emotions I even name every emotions without judgment, accept and try to acknowledge it. Is hard to breath sometime when things get really tough, financially unstable and having responsibilities to look after my family. I’ve been working so hard and I don’t even know how to have fun anymore when I can think of is work and how to make money.

I feel like I’m the only person who do everything for every around me, thinking about it it make me sick on my stomach. Feel so heavy on my shoulders that sometime I feel like giving up. I know this is just a task from the creator, Almighty is giving me some challenges to be strong and I know I can endure this.

I sometimes think is better to be single and go through this alone, less burden and less responsibility but I can’t be selfish, I can’t think about myself anymore but how to make my family happy.

Oh Allah please take my sorrow and give me ease to go throughout this obstacles know that I am not always strong, you know how my heart cry for help and you are the one and only who able to help with this circumstances.

Dear Allah please help me, or please take my life away, I am not strong enough. I have enough pain and I thank for the happiness that you given me.

[mightyminimalism-blog]

Book review:

goodbye, things

Fumio Sasaki

By @loveandsubarus

The book goodbye, things by Fumio Sasaki is easy to ready as well as relate to. Fumio seems like a super down to earth guy and shares his life and the struggles he faced before he found minimalism, how his life changed after, and the steps he took to create a life of happiness for himself all by minimizing his things.

Throughout the book he included positive and inspirational quotes by some very wise people and also talks about challenges that you may have thought about while getting rid of your things and how it all can potentially change your life.

The best part was the whole book focused on one very important thing. People. For the whole story I guess you’ll have to read it for yourself! I highly recommend it and believe it’s one of the best minimalism books out there!