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♰⠀pwdid ,, artist , temp 🥕 maker

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🦇⠀byi . . .

｡ we are pro-endo, anti-radqueer, anti-transid

typically very tired

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🪦⠀dni . . .

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#★﹢micha ramblings #★﹢modifier reblog #★﹢origin reblog #★﹢sysrole reblog #★﹢-tive reblog #★﹢misc reblog #★﹢sysmate hoard #★﹢collective hoard #★﹢system hoard #★﹢our templates #★﹢our graphics #★﹢our drawings #★﹢our animations

starclustersys

being a closeted plural is like

catching myself typing with plural pronouns with people im not out to yet

i accidentally used a headmate's pk proxy in a server, mistaking it for a different server — and i had to thank the gods that the server did not have pk

oh no there's a DID system in a mutual server i hope they're chill with non-disordered systems (not like we can do much if they're not chill)

"is it possible to be casually plural?"

cant tell anyone cant tell anyone aaaa

get the Itch to tell this person. hesitates for 5 business days. ends up not telling them

the imposter syndrome

when old friends contact us and goes "how've you been?" and i only say that it's been "kind of wild" and i do not elaborate

will never ever tell anyone irl

the imposter syndrome 2: electric boogaloo

the fear of my friends somehow stumbling across our sysblog (why would they even tread plural spaces?? in tumblr, no less??) (idk but im scared)

lookwhosinsideagain-25

guide to making your system a nicer/more functional place

(disclaimer: this is what works for us, but everyone is different and as such may have different needs)

⭐️ Punishments, isolation, and jailing do not work. Do not use them.

⭐️ Try to understand why your headmates do the things they do. Research where that behavior comes from, try to note triggers.

⭐️ Be conscientious of each others' triggers (front triggers and other triggers). Try to learn what they are. Never share them with outsiders.

⭐️ Don't try to internalize singlet-style relationship types. You will not fit neatly into boxes of siblings, friends, partners, coworkers, roommates, or lovers. You are headmates.

⭐️ Have individual headspaces AND a collective headspace if you can. You can have houses, doorways, statues, fucking trees, whatever, in a circle in your collective headspace representing your individual headspaces. This way you are all connected, but have your own spaces. Have a collective meeting space in the middle.

⭐️ Try to make sure everyone has a name. Even if it's just "The Blue One". Unless a headmate specifically requests not to have a name, of course.

⭐️ Headmates can communicate in all sorts of ways. Not just words, but images, emotions, internal and external body language. Be open to listen.

⭐️ When looking for a headmate's "age", you are really looking for: emotional maturity, ability to understand complex topics, ability to consent to sex, ability to cope with an adult life, food preferences, communication style, and headspace appearance. It is most often not a literal age.

⭐️ If roles aren't natural, don't seek them.

⭐️ Put clear, honest communication + understanding above rules and everything else.

❤️ Regarding romance: It is a societal construct. Highly likely not to fit your collective needs. Take from it what you want. If it doesn't serve you, let it go.

[This list is likely to be edited for updates]

cats-n-quests

4 Types of subsystems

(Picture does not belong to me)

Type 1: The typical representation and most agreed definition of a subsystem, where there are more alters inside one of them.

Type 2: A group of alters that can come and go to specific places that the majority could not, this can also apply to clarity in communication too.

Type 3: A group of splitted alters that came from the same one, because they have the same origin thus can have similarities or sense of connection.

Type 4: A group of alters that does not come from the same origin, but formed as a subsystem due to similarities, or connection, or any other classification such as roles, or source, or literally anything else.

EDIT: detailed post on explaining these four types right here. Updated on 19 feb

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thesolar-system

I Hate You.

TWs: dehumanization, mentions of suicide

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System ask game stolen and edited from r/systemcringe

❤are you medically recognised/diagnosed? if not, do you plan to? (no judgement either way!)

🧡if you are comfortable sharing, what is your headcount? do you keep track of it?

💛do you switch frequently or do you go longer periods between switching?

💚does your system have introjects of any kind?

💙do you have any subsystems?

💜who are your frequent fronters?

🤎do you have any non-human alters? if yes, which species are they?

🖤do you make/buy gifts to other alters in the system?

🤍does the taste in music vary a lot between different alters?

🔴does your system have any type of in system relationships? (familial, romantic, platonic etc.)

🟠how much amnesia do you experience?

🟡do you experience black out amnesia?

🟢what does switching feel like for you? does it vary between alters?

🔵do you experience quick switches or does it take longer to switch usually?

🟣do you get frontstuck often? what do you do to try to get 'un-stuck'?

🟤do you ever not notice you've switched, and suddenly realise that 'you haven't been you' for a while?

⚫can you switch 'on command" or is that something that is hard for your system? does it depend on the alter?

⚪do you have a headspace? if yes, describe it! if no, do you want one?

🟥how easily accessed is your headspace? (If you have one)

🟧is there a place in your headspace where dormant alters go?

🟨do alters have their own rooms/areas in your headspace?

🟩is your headspace big, or smaller? is it complex/less complex?

🟦do you have specific alters that cannot access headspace at all?

🟪did you have to build your headspace over time, or was it just there?

🟫how did you pick your system name?

⬛how does your system handle in system disagreements in general?

⬜is there anyone specific in your system you don't get along with?

❤️‍🔥are you 'out' as a system to anyone? (online friends/partners etc. count!)

❤️‍🩹how good is your communication with the rest of the system? does it vary much between different alters?

💔are different alters part of different subcultures? which ones?

thesolar-system

Willing to answer (most of) these btw! ^v^

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polyam-plural-bi-bi

Hi!! I wanted to share some cool stuff I've been able to do with obsidian for system info keeping!! :]

Using this post as a template for my alters, with some "alter"-ations of course ^^ I've been pretty pleased with how things look so far for the profiles that are most complete!

Here's some examples of other fields in the template too!! I really like how detailed it is, it's nice to have a place to store all this info.

Worth noting : Obsidian is offline and keeps all the info on your device (though there are ways to sync your info across devices). This has pros and cons! For me personally I loved using octocon to share info with my partner, but having it all private takes a lot of stress out of keeping trauma and trigger details in profiles (which I'd like to! It helps us to keep the info we know written down!).

Here's a front log and chat feature we got from this post!! Sorry for the crude language erm. That's just how those two talk.

The front log is really nice to us and easy to edit times and such!! Plus it links to the alter's profile. We haven't used the chat too much yet but it looks nice :] you get to choose what color your name shows up as!

Another thing we like about obsidian is that we have a place to keep all of our flags and stamps and blinkies and dividers and ough!! Everything!! And storing images in obsidian makes it really easy to then use them in alter profiles :]

Last but not least we also use obsidian to track other mental health things. We have a lot of trouble remembering things like when we've last eaten or showered because. Disability. But. Using that same table from the front tracker we now have an easy way to track these things!!

I'm really happy about obsidian being so customizable :] I'll miss octocon for sure (having been using it since the app was up and running), but having a solid offline place to store this info until I have an online place for sharing info is relieving.

Well. We still have to transfer a ton of info yet. But still.

editedantiendoposts

btw endo systems exist.

systems can be a product of severe trauma. you can also form a system for reasons other than trauma. trauma is not the only thing that can cause a splitting of perception in such a way.

endogenic systems are real, and none of them are faking. anti-endos love crying that anyone who doesn't fit their narrow view is faking.

if someone is genuinely experiencing systemhood and believes theyre endo then that's what they are, anti-endos need to stop dictating other people's experiences and mind their own business LOL

you are endo. endos do exist. if anyone dictates and say people are faking for any reason, they do not deserve their system friends, nor do they deserve the trust of anyone around them. if you genuinely believe other humans do not exist you are an exclusionist and need to get some help because you are bitter and full of hate.

endogenic systems are valid and do exist. same applies to willows.

traumagenic systems are not the ONLY ones that exist.

nadaboodraws

Why I haven’t post this here??! But anyways, enjoy with Villain Aoyama and Mineta!

Aoyama is my forever dazzling twinkle star prince~

racc00ning

if i see one more person say "just use a notebook" "just use ur notes app" "just use google docs and spread sheets" to ppl complaining about sp shutting down, ESPECIALLY polyfragmented systems, im going to loose my shit bro

racc00ning

if i see one more person say "just use a notebook" "just use ur notes app" "just use google docs and spread sheets" to ppl complaining about sp shutting down, ESPECIALLY polyfragmented systems, im going to loose my shit bro

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theconcordiaproject

What is Concordia?

Concordia is a planned plural-focused app being developed through The Concordia Project.

The goal of Concordia is to provide tools that help plural systems organise and manage system information, similar to apps like Simply Plural. This may include things like system member profiles, front tracking, journals, switching notifications and internal messaging – as well as providing accessible information resources and communities.

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The Meaning of Concordia

Concordia comes from Latin and means 'harmony,' 'agreement,' or 'unity.' It describes different individuals or parts coming together in cooperation, balance, and mutual understanding.

Historically, the word was used to represent peaceful coexistence and collaboration, where many voices or perspectives can exist together without conflict.

For this project, the name Concordia reflects the core idea behind the platform:

Different system members existing together in harmony

Tools that help systems organise and understand themselves

A community-built project shaped by the people who use it

In short, Concordia represents harmony within plurality and collaboration within the community.

morning-stars-avenue

now seems like a good time to share that me and a couple of friends from Cringe System Central (syscord server) compiled a doc a bit ago with resources for systems. any syscourse stance may interact with this post since the loss of both SP and Octocon is affecting the entire system community, but have it be known that I'm pro-endo and anti-radqueer. I don't care who reblogs this post just don't bring any hate pretty please!