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Just an unmotivated, regular eighteen year old, looking for the bright side

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Boys Suck

Yes this is going to be a stereotyped post, but its just that is happens so often and to so many girls that it makes it the majority of you boys responsible! 

Now we've all been at the stage in a relationship, where you’re seeing a guy and you both really like each other, do things as a couple, act like a couple - and you aren't even dating. And its the most HORRIBLE feeling for one person. Why does one person always fall harder than the other? And its always so awkward for one person to express their feelings because does the other person feel the same way?

Well i’ll tell you a little about my story, we started talking and getting close - to the the point where we were basically waiting for the other person to make the first move about dating - and he shyly admitted he was waiting for a certain date - and that date came and went. So ofcourse us girls overthink everything (and sometimes we are more than right), and i freaked out and asked him what was going on - he “didnt want a relationship” anymore and l didnt know how to feel - but ofcourse I was already too far in to just walk away - Stupid, i know!

So we continued how we were - acting like a couple, and let me say this has been happening for the last 5 months to the point where he just refers to me as his girlfriend and i refer to him as my boyfriend (to uncomplicate it for people) Anyways, I went out clubbing with a few friends and he picked me up and took me home and ended up staying the night - after i begged him in my drunken state. And because we didnt spend that much time awake, I asked if he wanted to hang out after i finished work and after much beating around the bush and excuses he came out and said he just didnt want to see me. What the actual fuck is wrong with boys? You dont see us for weeks and then you see us for one day and dont want to see us again? Also why do boys want to continue ‘seeing’ us girls and then want to stay single? I dont understand what the issue is, us girls do more for you than anyone else and we get nothing in return? Please how many people have gone through this? or something similiar - Help a gal out plz xxxxxx

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For those of you who are reading this, i’d thought id give you some background information about myself. I’m an 18 year old girl, living on the boarder of NSW and QLD, with high aspirations and low motivation. I’m fresh out of high school and have been flung into the big world of UNIVERSITY. {Bachelor of Nursing}

And let me tell you, uni is nothing like high school, and everyone who said that uni was fun - they lied. Now don’t get me wrong, I've only done 8 weeks of uni, but I never realized how hard it was to make friends and how easy losing high school friends were. Making friends in high school was so easy, so why am i finding it difficult now? And now that I spend 75% of my time at uni, 15% at work and 5% sleeping - I literally have no time for anyone, and even if I had spare time, everyone is busy and has plans! I’m not going to lie, I miss going to school and seeing my friends everyday - I’ve even lost friends ive had since year 7 because they assumed we ‘weren't friends’ because we haven't talked in a while, I even miss some of the amazing teachers I had, because they genuinely care about you. And now most of my teachers wouldn't even know my name, let alone recongise my face. Now I’m going to give ‘uni lyf’ a chance because it has only been 8 weeks, but i sure hope that it gets better and that i feel like i ‘Belong’ - Help me - I just said I miss belonging #HSC2014

Please message me if youre feeling the same way or if you have any stories!