Don't Diet, Moderate
Now, when I say "diet", I don't mean a temporary measure to try and lose weight. I'm talking about all the food I eat and the things I drink. That's my diet. And if you're serious about losing weight and keeping it off, or simply about getting into better shape, then you can't just "go on a diet". You need to change it.
I would say that the vast majority of people who are overweight are due to either overeating or simply eating poorly in conjunction with a sedentary lifestyle. That's how it happened to me. So if you want to make a change, you need to make it happen.
I promised with the last post I wrote that I would talk about the changes I made to my diet. And while I can't simply write out a day-by-day of what I eat for you to follow, I can provide some examples of what I did and what you can do that might work for you.
First and foremost, as I said, the changes you make you should make for good, and the easiest way to make those changes is to embrace moderation. Moderation is simple. On it's face, it just means to do the things you do, but do them less. Do them in moderation.
I can't come on here and tell you to cut out anything from your diet completely. That's foolish. Unless you enjoy deep-fried butter, in which case... yeah, let's cut that out. But if you enjoy sugary snacks or salty chips, you still can... but in moderation.
Let me give you a practical example. Many months ago, I took the step of cutting soda out of my diet. Can I say that, over the last several months, I haven't had a drop of soda? Absolutely not. But I can say that the decision I made was huge. I went from a regular routine of drinking 2-3 cans of Coke per day to 0. Instead, I drink water, and I may have soda when at a party or if I decide to get some quick food.
Wanna hear something even more interesting for your brain? I had McDonald's recently. Oh yeah, that's right. A Big Mac AND medium fries. AND a medium soda. Best part? I still lost two pounds from when I had that meal to now.
Do you know why? That's right. Moderation. It's been months since I last had anything from McDonald's and it'll be even more months 'til I have it again, IF I decide to have it again. It's been months since I had a soda, and it will be months 'til I have it again. The key is that I don't go there every day, I don't drink soda every day, and I understand that the strides I make week to week allow me these indulgences.
I can also say that, even after a Christmas dinner with dessert and New Year's party with wings and veggie dip... I've still been losing weight. I've still been making progress, because the effort you put in pays off in the long run, and you can indulge every now and then.
Now, it also comes down to being sensible. This works for me, but it may not work for you. Everyone is different and the way everyone gets fit or loses weight is different. I can't guarantee any results, but if you've never tried this method... well, if you safely can, give it a shot.
Let's talk about my regular diet now. As I said, I take the indulgences in moderation. I don't snack all the time, and if I need a snack, I choose a smart alternative. I go with a salad or maybe a piece or two of whole grain toast, or even a rice cake. Those are ways to help with that. But snacking is minor, I'd say.
When it comes to meals, I try to make sure I prepare everything I eat. I cook my protein or at least prepare it myself and put forth that extra effort to not just get something out of a box or package, even if it's as simple as a tuna fish sandwich. But servings of proteins are great, alongside veggies or a salad, make for excellent major meals. Even putting lettuce on your sandwich can help fill you up without being a penalty, and it adds great texture and crunch!
Lastly, the biggest and most difficult thing for some folks is to learn WHEN to eat. If you're overweight, you possibly deal with the idea of eating at times when you aren't necessarily hungry. Bored, tired, or just need a snack, those are all reasons we eat. But those are bad reasons, as you probably know and have probably heard indefinitely. One of the changes I made was to acknowledge those times when I wanted food and wasn't hungry, and instead of eating, I would occupy myself. Finding a project helped take my mind off the food and got me focused on something else. Spending time with people, writing, recording an audiobook, whatever it was. It helps.
And also, don't eat just because you feel you need to. Additionally, don't NOT eat when you should just because you're trying to lose weight. Starving yourself is the worst possible way to try and lose weight. Eat right, don't NOT eat.
Anyway, that's all for now. I'll be back again with more as I progress, and my goal is coming up a lot sooner than I thought, and we'll need to set another one. Until then!










